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Sounds to me like you’ve broken up.
I agree with that. As you said, she could not be emotionally mature to make up her mind and leave before looking for someone else. Thanks for pointing it to me
The first thing I would say is that “no” is a complete sentence. If you are not comfortable with the idea, then it does not happen and the boyfriend needs to accept that.
However, you say that you are intrigued, but that you have IBS and that makes you self-concious of your own perceived cleanliness issues, and that coupled with a lack of prior experience means that relaxation is a huge barrier to the act. So I will assume that the idea of anal sex in and of itself is not the problem, but that the lack of relaxation and the cleanliness issues are what need to be addressed.
The cleanliness aspect is definitely an area that needs work, and the two suggestions I would make are
(1) cleaning with an enema – can also be a useful treatment for the IBS, but get it done by a professional, at least the first couple of times, as a poorly executed enema can cause physical and tissue trauma; and
(2) trying first on your own with a small dildo (you do not need to relax anywhere near as much, and as you are in control you can push your boundaries or take your time without external pressure). Then if you enjoy it, working your way up to something of comparable size to your boyfriend. That way you start small, have total control, and can decide if the “being intrigued” phase continues after you have some experience… after all, “try it, you might like it” can also go the other way – “try it to see whether you like it or not”.
If after trying it, you decide it is not for you then “no” is a complete sentence, and if you do want to try it with him then condoms can help with managing the clean-up afterward.
This is terrible advice
If its what she was owed why was it 500 one week 1000 the next and 2500 the next? If its what she was owed it would of been one lump sum ??♀️
Have you contacted the women??
I'd also speak to HR and confirm its true.
And his excuses for not telling you was he didn't think you would care, yeah because most people don't care when there husband is sending X amount of money to another women?
There a reason he hid it and I'm not buying his excuses.
You need to contact the women and HR and ask.
Say if this is true then HR will confirm it, go to his work.
Once she said she had it and what my son said was right he sent some information on it and I saw I was wrong and it was a real thing. I had thought it went away after birth.
He pretty much just denied and got defensive. He went through all of his photos, search history, and apps to prove it wasn't what he was doing (all unprompted and unasked for). I told him that I don't need to see his phone, just his honesty. Which he blew up over and said I need to chill and respect his privacy. I dunno, part of me feels he wouldn't be this upset and trying to prove his innocence unless he wasn't. But part of me feels bad for questioning him in the first place. I know that if he wanted to get away with it, he could. I've been shown that in my previous relationship. But I'm really hoping I'm just jumping the gun and making assumptions on a 3 second interaction
You are working your ass off trying to make a better life for the two of you and she is resentful that you are not giving her enough attention and goes and has an affair.
She doesn't “have a point”. You need someone that has your back during tough times! What would she do if you got sick?
Leave her alone because she said “leave me alone”.
She'll come back if she wants to. Move on.
And I know what I'm talking about. I was in the same position as her. I took 6 months to get better and then asked the friend I had pushed away out. We're been together for a year, and the fact that he respected my decision and my need for some space earned him so much respect in my eyes.
Yep. No one’s got sympathy for this.
Yep, in this story, he obviously manipulated OP into entertaining a fetish of his. Not such a great friend.
Why can’t you “flat-out explain” your life to him? He feels like he doesn’t know you because you’re deliberately opaque about your past. Unless you have no relationship with your family, the fact that he hasn’t met them three years in is odd.
I agree that neither you nor he needs to know the specifics about each other sex lives (ie: Bambi & I did it on a swing in the park. Lola loved it from behind.), it is reasonable & informative to know about each other’s romantic history (ie: I had 3 major relationships. I never made time for dating. I’m divorced bc she cheated.) I’m not sure the salacious details matter as much as the thumbnail sketch b/c the overall picture of your dating life helps your partner understand you.
Your bf’s questions about your previous sexual antics will end when you tell him you had one supremely unsatisfying sexual experience before you met him.
Three years in, I’m not sure why you’re not open with him.