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Date: October 17, 2022
You're literally the one getting mad that I think people should learn to communicate before they get married. I'm not upset at all. Hope you have a great day!
You can't stop him from getting a DNA test. He can use the courts. If you think there is nothing wrong with your behavior and don't plan to change it, maybe it's for the best if you and your bf break it off.
Find someone else with inappropriate boundaries and I'm sure you won't run into these problems
I can’t be the only person who read this whole post twice trying to figure out what she did and when she cheated.
You need to make the “my woman can have no friends” rule clear from the start in your next relationship, or you are just going to end up with a string of failed relationships with confused ladies.
And I know what you’re going to say, you don’t think that was the problem, just her having friends, but reread your own post, you have accused her of nothing else.
OP, here's what you do. You get a bluetooth speaker and sync it to your phone or computer. Then at night you put it outside your parents bedroom door. When they start making noise, find the most naughty porno you can and play it at full volume. They won't like it, but they'll get what they've been putting you through.
You don't. You come clean.
You see you want to make the same mistake again. At least you should have learnt something from it by now.
You lied to not hurt her feelings and cause conflict, and it got you into this garbage-fire in the first place. You can lie for a time by you have to pay your debt to reality eventually.
So, right now you come clean and tell her all her changes were making less attractive to you which has accumulated to this.
I understand, if you had guts to do it straightforward way, you would not be in this position in the furst place. Write her message when you will be apart, she will read it all at once, and by the time you meat she will get over her initial shock.
Nah, it isn't insecurity. It's a foundation of FIDELITY.
How do you come on here, tell a story (of which you not wanting to have sex until you get married IS a major part), and then tell people they’re obsessed with your decision?
It is literally the reason you came here to ask for help.
Some people..
At the end of the day you do what your gut tells you, if you don't think it's right and you are wasting her time them I would do it sooner rather than later.
Just think about whether or not you will get the same treatment in other relationships, if she is a certain way that you think no one else would be like then maybe you can try to work on it? Find new ways to get that spark back kinda thing?
Also I thought she mentioned it because someone in Barcelona explicitly asked her.
Actually, with clarity from OP, it was OP who really focused on it with the gay man.
“Again she apparently never did anal with op so how is it withholding? “
The anal sex that she had with other men. She's withholding that experience from him.
“He is dating a girl who doesn’t do butt stuff.”
Correction: he's dating a girl who used to do butt stuff but doesn't anymore.
The analogy is a little off because you can't “club” someone intimately (unless you're using a physical club).
He's feeling like she's withholding an act of intimacy shared with other people. She likely never liked it all that much to begin with.
I think that we agree on a lot of the same beats. But I can see how this brings up resentment.
Imagine your long term boyfriend telling you that he used to eat out but he doesn't want to do it to you because he doesn't do that anymore.
That'd suck. But your boyfriend also has the right not to do it.
Being logic driven doesn't make you emotionless… That's a non-sequitur.
You said a line in your comments – it’s not been an issue until now. Listen to yourself, it’s an issue now for a reason. You are realising that although you want this to work you are at different stages in your lives.
You are starting off exploring what it means to be an adult; you’re talking about moving out of your family home for the first time to have freedom. He on the other hand has experienced all that and wants you to settle down with him.
You are at opposites in that, regardless of the interests you share you are simply not compatible at this stage of your lives, both of you.
It would be unhealthy for you both and unfair on you to move in with him.
Advice; stay your course and make plans to move out to live alone. Learn to support yourself, learn who you are as an adult. There are some huge life lessons to be learnt living away from your parents for the first time. As for your relationship; you’ve seen some patterns in how he treats you and it’s specific to situations. As an outsider, that’s not normal. I treat my SO the same all the time, if anything I’m more respectful and mindful of others with PDA if out, not the opposite. You’ve noticed that he views you as a sex object; I’m sure there are plenty people who would love to feel that desirable. However; for you it’s without respect, and that is a huge aspect of then enjoying to be so desired by someone. My point? It’s ok to question the relationship, its ok to go “you know what, we’ve had fun and if I was older this may be different, but right now I need to focus on me”.
If you feel unsure there is a reason why, explore that.
Yes. She deserves to know her life is a lie. Every human has the right to autonomy over their life.
Hi, thanks for responding! I think we’re trying to find common ground and trying to find an acceptable compromise. But the issue is that in the interim, while he’s adjusting to this, I’m feeling really anxious and i kind of feel neglected. I recognise that i need to give him time, but i don’t know how to deal in the meantime.
We’ve been together physically for short periods. And we’re supposed to be meeting in a couple of weeks for a month.
I love her and want things to work, but as I have explained to her I feel like I don't have a life, I am just a part of her life
I take out the trash and do the litter box. She cooks, does laundry, does dishes, and cleans the house otherwise.
I feel this is a pretty even split because of our work schedule.
it's not
Think about what? The fact your gf was put in a stressful situation and did the best she could and told you immediately??? Dude, you have a lot of growing up to do if this bothers you that much.
Damn it, he just texted me to ask if we can meet later to prepare
where should it go? I feel that too – wanted to share as relationship relevant (it’s like giving advice?)