Indeed. It's past time to GO. Get your paperwork and stuff together and get out. Living with his family may make it a challenge,but continuing to live with him is more challenging and downright dangerous.
Lol the guy was already potentially cheated into raising a kid that wasn't his and everyone's advice is to milk him a few more years before letting the truth out.
I appreciate you affirming my feelings. This post was to get insight from strangers because anyone I’ve talked to about it is “only agreeing with me because we’re friends, doesn’t have a man or if it’s a male, because they want to sleep with me”. I 100% understand what you’re saying and you’ve reiterated a lot of things that I’ve said about it. If I talk about it with anyone, I’m “putting other people in our business which is weird af” according to him. He knows I planned on posting this and honestly there are more insane situations that would have you stunned and asking me the questions you ended your original reply with once again. Thank you.
What do you think she'll say? She will never admit adultery.
Next she'll say “they just talked” .
Inform her friends and family and HR. She won't get fired but everyone at work will hear about them.
As long as she sees you as reluctant or too weak to divorce, she will not change her behavior
Indeed. It's past time to GO. Get your paperwork and stuff together and get out. Living with his family may make it a challenge,but continuing to live with him is more challenging and downright dangerous.
I just want her more engaged and show me that she actually wants to have with me and not just getting pleasured.
This is absolutely fair, but have you actually said this to her?
Lol the guy was already potentially cheated into raising a kid that wasn't his and everyone's advice is to milk him a few more years before letting the truth out.
Yall ice cold
I appreciate you affirming my feelings. This post was to get insight from strangers because anyone I’ve talked to about it is “only agreeing with me because we’re friends, doesn’t have a man or if it’s a male, because they want to sleep with me”. I 100% understand what you’re saying and you’ve reiterated a lot of things that I’ve said about it. If I talk about it with anyone, I’m “putting other people in our business which is weird af” according to him. He knows I planned on posting this and honestly there are more insane situations that would have you stunned and asking me the questions you ended your original reply with once again. Thank you.