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Seems fishy that she just wants you to forget it. Pretty sure any sane woman would be upset about enough to burn bridges or even report it to the police. I'd be sussy…
To put it into perspective, I've seen women burn friendships for MUCH LESS.
This wasn’t a trauma response, so many people told you this and you decided to give a man an excuse to sexually assault YOU.
He needed a pee. He willingly pissed on you. You don’t pee on people because you’ve been through something traumatic.
People that go through sexual trauma don’t piss on people. I hope you realise that because you gave him this excuse, he is going to start sexually abusing you more frequently.
I pray you never have kids. What would happen if he was tucking one into bed and decided to piss on them? Would that be a trauma response too?
I’m sorry but I can’t believe how disgusting this all is
Sooooo let me get this straight: you don't care what your husband does as long as he doesn't tell you the details and pays for everything you want, and your husband is upset that fucking your best friend changed how you act within your relationship…
You need to have more self respect than this. He's gearing up to leave you for your friend anyway. “You just don't understannnnnnnnd me!!” Is the classic bullshit justification for cheaters who leave their partners. The implication is “you don't understand me like (affair partner) does, I deserve to be with somebody who hasn't been emotionally destroyed by my behavior!” It's what they tell themselves so they can sleep at night, so you may as well prepare to be without access to all of his financial resources. You're better off without him anyway, which makes your children better off by proxy, because seeing you hanging onto a miserable, broken relationship hurts them, too.
What are the cops going to do? Fly across the world and bust down the doors of the scammer dudes doing this from Nigeria, India or whatever far-off country they're scamming people from?
The only thing that is preventing me from doing that is what we had. How do I go about it when we were so good together barring this episode? Can we rebuild? What if we can rebuild and I take the exit? This thought is eating away at my core. I burned through several relationships to get to her. And now the thought of leaving her leaves me so empty – like where tf would I find someone like her (apart from this shit).
You’ve made like 500 posts about your boyfriend, just break up with him already. If anybody asks why just tell him it’s because he didn’t get you a happy meal
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What are you trying to do?
Are you happy with her?
That's what I thought!
Seems fishy that she just wants you to forget it. Pretty sure any sane woman would be upset about enough to burn bridges or even report it to the police. I'd be sussy…
To put it into perspective, I've seen women burn friendships for MUCH LESS.
This wasn’t a trauma response, so many people told you this and you decided to give a man an excuse to sexually assault YOU.
He needed a pee. He willingly pissed on you. You don’t pee on people because you’ve been through something traumatic.
People that go through sexual trauma don’t piss on people. I hope you realise that because you gave him this excuse, he is going to start sexually abusing you more frequently.
I pray you never have kids. What would happen if he was tucking one into bed and decided to piss on them? Would that be a trauma response too?
I’m sorry but I can’t believe how disgusting this all is
Op didn’t say that she was
Your life is my nightmare. Holy shit, get things together.
Sooooo let me get this straight: you don't care what your husband does as long as he doesn't tell you the details and pays for everything you want, and your husband is upset that fucking your best friend changed how you act within your relationship…
You need to have more self respect than this. He's gearing up to leave you for your friend anyway. “You just don't understannnnnnnnd me!!” Is the classic bullshit justification for cheaters who leave their partners. The implication is “you don't understand me like (affair partner) does, I deserve to be with somebody who hasn't been emotionally destroyed by my behavior!” It's what they tell themselves so they can sleep at night, so you may as well prepare to be without access to all of his financial resources. You're better off without him anyway, which makes your children better off by proxy, because seeing you hanging onto a miserable, broken relationship hurts them, too.
What are the cops going to do? Fly across the world and bust down the doors of the scammer dudes doing this from Nigeria, India or whatever far-off country they're scamming people from?
The only thing that is preventing me from doing that is what we had. How do I go about it when we were so good together barring this episode? Can we rebuild? What if we can rebuild and I take the exit? This thought is eating away at my core. I burned through several relationships to get to her. And now the thought of leaving her leaves me so empty – like where tf would I find someone like her (apart from this shit).
What age is your son?
You’ve made like 500 posts about your boyfriend, just break up with him already. If anybody asks why just tell him it’s because he didn’t get you a happy meal
Op doesn’t remember anything of the night? That is not voluntarily cheating he most likely got sexually assaulted
Turn him in. Fuck that.