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Date: October 8, 2022
this comment section is a mess. you have every right to be upset. they intentionally hid this from you and are gaslighting you by saying they thought they told you. it would be best for everyone involved for this marriage to end. you are way too young to be married and this situation proves it.
Man I wonder if there's a term for that. I wouldn't know nothing about that. I also love how you didn't even spell ad hominem right and then proceed to insult me. Don't devices have autocorrect? I don't think you should be defending 18 year old's, because I think you are 18.
in·fan·til·ize
/inˈfan(t)lˌīz/
verb
gerund or present participle: infantilizing
treat (someone) as a child or in a way which denies their maturity in age or experience.
It's worth considering that while she has applied to be legally allowed to work, but (unless I'm reading things wrong) that approval hasn't come through yet, and until it does there's very little she can do (and she especially shouldn't follow the other commenter's advice and work illegally for cash in hand). These processes are torturously slow and there's no real way to speed them up – she could push for updates every day and get nowhere.
What do you think she can realistically do to 'resolve her issue'?
Honestly, the root of the issue is that you don't like your boyfriend helping her because she's a woman, and you're jealous of her living there all the time when you feel that you deserve to be 'taken care of' in the same way.
It truly is. Every one of your responses here shows that you are the main character in your story and this is all about you. Everything from forcing him to meet with them when he didn't want to, dismissing his lived experience, thinking you could magically fix an issue that spans a lifetime, and now complaining that HE isn't comforting YOU, you come off as egotistical, arrogant, self absorbed, naive, and incredibly immature.
You’re right. Today I ignored her demands and went to the gym in the morning. And she texted me complaining that we were in the same area, but I ignored every message and all 4 of her calls. She dropped that and started asking about the gym again which I also ignored.
She is just jealous of your lifestyle. She should check her own life. Are you sure that you want to stay with a person that is not happy for you and asking from you to be miserable so she can feel better? That is a huge red flag!!!!!
Just one simple question – why would your (loyal?) wife go to a clothing optional bar ? That seems like it's beyond even participating in a wet T-shirt contest which ofc calls your wife's judgement abd intentions into question. Also just think about the logistics here – if he came up to her and grinded on her hot (and she accepted that or didn't put a stop to it) then how could that not be basically dry (maybe not-so-dry) humping and how could that NOT be cheating ?
Yeah, this is perfect. It sounds like this was truly a medical issue that wasn't her fault, and OP isn't doing her any favors by not telling her exactly how bad it was and how much it is influencing his decisions. It's not really fair to her to leave her with a partial understanding of the situation, because it doesn't give her a good chance to address the issues. It seems like OP is holding onto a lot of resentment to the point where he isn't treating his wife like a partner and has made his decision without being honest and talking through the options. Which isn't fair if she's generally a kind and reasonable person.
Like, maybe they could go to the doctor, talk about her symptoms from both of their perspectives, and get an opinion on what was going on and how treatable it might be. And they could develop very concrete plans for how they'd handle it if she treats him badly, where else she could get support, etc. If OP decides there isn't a plan that's reassuring enough that's ultimately his right, but the avoidance isn't a mature way to handle things.
If he’s young he needs to see a doctor. Could be something with j think the penal gland (I’m not 100% sure that’s the right gland but I have heard of this problem before and it was often times a tumor or medical issue)
A relevant question to ask is: does she want your marriage to work? Is that her priority? No, not whatsoever. If it was, she wouldn’t have cheated and risked your relationship and well-being.
Basically you've chosen a man over your own child. You new he didnt want to live with children and you carried on with the relationship and married him anyway. Now your pissed because your ex told your daughter the truth. The truth being you want to please your husband and get rid of your daughter. It doesnt matter that your sending her to her dads because at the end of the day you dont want her living with you and this pleases your now husband. Your pathetic.
Yeah, what she did doesn't make any sense cause you only go to concerts as basically a gift to her. So her buying you tickets to a concert, albiet for a band you like, is ultimately a present for her. Definitely talk to her about it. Tell her you appreciate the present but that you don't understand why she got them for you when she knows you don't actually enjoy concerts at all bc of your anxiety. Tell her you'd prefer if she didn't do that again. Personally, I definitely feel as if she was being selfish.
He seems very manipulative and doesn’t treat you equally I would take a step back and evaluate if this is how you want to feel for the rest of your life or not
It seems to me that her insecurities are going to destroy what you have rather than any of your actions, and she may be subconsciously aware of that and self-sabotaging. You need to ask her honestly, “what actions of mine have indicated to you that I would actually chest on you? Not things you associate with cheating like going to a club or not constantly texting, but things I have actually done.” If she can't name anything then what she really needs is to address her own insecurities. You've been dating for 2 years, but also in a time when most people are hopping in and out of short term relationships while they learn about themselves, it's entirely likely she's fearful about this and making it your problem.
If he has a problem with yelling and anger, I'd move on.
Side note: if you have a loving, decent partner, then is it really “too soon” to move in together after a year? Especially in your 30s
Would you make the same argument if he had failed to tell OP about being acquitted of child rape, and OP had kids? And in the 2 years they had been together OP had left kids alone with him?
If you think that’s wrong, just apply the same logic to other scenarios in order to understand why the lie by omission about something this huge, is bad and wrong and suspicious as hell.
You're newlyweds, this should literally be the honeymoon period, and instead you're “at each other's throats” and your solution was to pursue other relationships???
I would divorce you too. Good for your husband
That depends on where you live. The laws are different everywhere.
So… he's not big enough to provide him with the pleasure he wants without causing you pain or sexually assaulting you, and he's blaming you for it? Leave him! You can't trust him. He also doesn't care enough to have the knowledge or take precautions of having anal sex properly, if you're getting infections. Nothing he's doing or threatening you with is okay. Someone who loves, respects, and cares for you wouldn't do this.
-you need to help yourself before you'll be able to be in a healthy relationship because this is far from healthy because of you.
-This woman is too kind to you and has too much patience for your antics
-you need to let her go so she can recover from you and how you made her feel about he self and worth.
-at this point your remorse seems insincere, she didn't deserve any of this
-cheaters are so aloof of their consequences and how this affects the person cheated on
Pack your things and leave to stay in a hotel. Stay away from her. Maybe stay away from women in general until you figure whatever youre going through out.
Yeah, not agreeing with the boyfriends response at all, but I also have several pictures with exes on facebook and instagram and the girl I've been dating for about 5 months now doesn't care. Some go back to prom 15 years ago. I think you hit an age where you just don't care anymore. Everyone's got a past
You need to tell him he goes to seek mental health care immediately. His decision either to get treatment or not get treatment will then be your answer on what you need to do.
His behavior is abusive to both of you. Please also think about help for yourself and your son.
Every thread seems like trolling now…
Having a baby never “fixes” anything. Good luck explaining that to her. It sounds like she does need therapy, and no matter how much you blame yourself for her behavior its not your responsibility.
You would be better off exiting this relationship before things get worse, honestly. Let her have kids with someone who wants them.
Get your shit together. She gets to date other people. Maybe control your emotions and you wouldn’t be in this situation. She doesn’t my owe you anything. Go back to your family if they mean so much to you.
Well this is an extremely unhealthy dynamic. How long do you plan on being treated like shit and emotionally shut out in your home?
Okay then we are talking. Regardless, at the airport he was fully hiding from me and totally apart from his friends….
If he was actually sorry he would agree to therapy, but no his discomfort is more important to him than yours. Do you want your child to learn that this is how women are treated?