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Date: November 22, 2022
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Some people can stay as friends with their exes and there's nothing more to it. The message you saw could have been about anything. Most likely she just had something she wanted to discuss and didn't want to bother him at the time.
You're absolutely right that it's not your place to ask him to stop talking to her. That would be very controlling especially since there's no reason to be suspicious of him. You can talk about your feelings and that you're worried, but you shouldn't make demands.
I know what car she drives and I was thinking of leaving an annoymous letter or note to her but I don't want anyone to know that it was le who wrote it as her bf probs knows my handwriting as the teacher made us write the critique notes for each other and I was partnered up with him and can easily compare the handwriting.
You’ll get rinsed in the comments, and I think you have to really take this as a learning opportunity. We do live in a society where we’re benchmarked against others from a young age – who got the best grade in the test, what percentile of your class are you in, are you the prettiest, the fittest, the richest on and on.
I think when you’re young you want that external validation, it’s kind of what this generation has been raised on. Maturing is realising you have to validate yourself. There may always be someone objectively prettier, fitter, smarter, richer, funnier, etc etc. You have to identify what you love about yourself and validate those things within yourself, do you think you are attractive? Did you do better on that practice test than the last one? Did you do more exercise today than yesterday?
Your question stems from insecurity and I think you have to ask yourself whether your boyfriend makes you feel attractive day to day. Even the most confident and self assured person can be brought down by a partner who doesn’t make them feel beautiful inside and out. If he is complimentary and makes an effort to make you feel attractive then you need to try to identify why you don’t believe him or accept that yourself. If he isn’t, then you need to communicate clearly that you’d appreciate words of affirmation or more compliments. What you can’t do, is ask him to rank you amongst his exes based solely on looks – the poor kid can’t win. Insecurity won’t let you believe him if he ranks you #1 and will also eat you up inside if he doesn’t rank you #1.
Dude a couple months isn’t a long time ago. She told him she was preggers on Xmas day
And I already said OP was also pressured to marry their attacker, which happens all the time to sexual assault victims in conservative settings.
So I did read the rest of the quote, which is equally tone-deaf and makes it seem like OP went and did all of that at their pleasure.