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Date: November 21, 2022
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This is probably NOT the best thing to say, DO NOT say this. Tell him instead, that you don't want to hurt his feelings because you love him so much, but it is because of your love for him that you want to be honest with him that he seriously needs to see a dentist!
Yeah I'd be concerned he is projecting. I would've already lost my shit on him.
Try this fun trick: Date someone who respects you.
Way easier I'd say.
Lmao!
You don't work together, so in case it doesn't work out you won't have much contact. There is nothing holding you back. Just tell him that you enjoyed hanging out with him and you would like to meet him outside of work. Just a casual coffee date to get you better know each other. Then you can still decide how to proceed.
What is he regrets the child. Idk… it would make him a asholl (misspeled on perpes).. altough posible
That sounds like a living nightmare.
Plan outings. Plenty of outings.
Some for all four of you, others for just you and your boyfriend. Be clear that the ones for the two of you are a romantic date.
Can you invite some friends and neighbors over for game night and other lively gatherings that will occupy some time and mask his social shortcomings?
He's a narcissist looking to prey, don't be dating men from strange facebook groups that's how you get murdered
No, I don't want to do that. That's the problem. I can't voice a problem without a drastic response from her.
You make a good point. I certainly don’t want to ruin the vibe of the trip since our time together is so limited and I know he wasn’t being malicious. Overall he is a good boyfriend and he has always gotten me presents.
If you understood feelings and communication, you wouldn't have so many problems in your relationship.
I hope your counselor can help you get a grip on this. Your boyfriend is absolutely full of shit and a selfish piece of garbage.
I have been married for 30 years. You need to leave this guy within the next 45 minutes and never communicate with him again. It is not healthy for you at all.
the only way I can set a boundary with my parents is it I move to Antartica without a phone no contact but that’s a whole other story on how theyve been up my ass since I was born
Or another woman.
Your girlfriend should be your ex. Just leave. No point in trying to mend anything.
What are the arguments about? If they're about small things that happen often, I can understand.
Stay with your husband until he has bought his share of the business. Then you can divorce him and get half of his share in the settlement.
Ok, yes, I'm kidding. Firstly, as others have said, don't make any rash decisions. Take your time to let the initial shock blow over. Then make decisions when you are calmer.
FWIW, I'll give you my perspective.
In your shoes, I'd feel that my position in the company was untenable. You've effectively had 4 people promoted over you. You also don't know what the future structure of the company will be. Will you still be considered a manager? Will pay structures change? What will your duties going forward be? If I was working for a company and there was a buy out by some of the employees, even if I wasn't interested in buying a share of the company, I would still want to know what the buy out meant for my position.
And I don't feel that I would be able to continue to work for a company where my employer didn't treat his workers well. Even if he had legitimate reasons not to offer you a share in the company, the way he went about it was totally oblivious of your feelings. It wasn't your partner's job to tell you why you hadn't been offered the position, it was the company owner's. The company owner should've handled the situation with much more sensitivity than he did. So again for that alone, I wouldn't want to stay in the company.
As to your relationship with your partner? There's a fair bit of context missing that would help me decide my long term future. You wrote that the meeting was planned by email. Did everyone know that it was to discuss the buyout? Did your partner know that you hadn't received the email before the meeting? If no, did he ask why you weren't included when the meeting started? If yes, then did he ask at the time why you weren't included? If he was told ahead of the meeting the reason you weren't invited, why didn't he tell you? Was he sworn to secrecy for some reason? Was he concerned that if he made any complaints he'd be frozen out of the buyout too? Answers to those questions would help me decide if my partner was put into a difficult situation that he didn't know how to react to, or if he's just an asshole that doesn't care about me. Him going to lunch afterwards was a pretty dick move though, no matter how you cut it.
But anyway, as I said, take your time. You have plenty of time to find a new job if you want, or find a new partner if you want. One last piece of advice, I don't know how your finances are arranged, but if you do have joint finances and you do stay with your partner while he buys into the business, make sure only his personal finances go into buying the business. If he uses any of the joint money then insist on having your name registered as part owner.
Finally if you could clarify something for me? In your original post you said there were 4 other managers including your partner. But in a later comment you said there were 5 people, 3 men and 2 women. Did you mean 4 other managers NOT including your partner? Or are there only 4 people not 5? Just curious.
Wish the confrontation was more satisfying.
You are a lovely caring man. Thank you for helping your sister and your family. I hope you find yourself a partner who appreciates a man, who will deal head on, with the difficult parts of life.
But since he’s never been in a serious relationship or seen any healthy serious relationships, doesnt that make it a little understandable that he doesnt automatically know to do certain things?
So it sounds like any sort of conflict you've had so far triggers him deeply. You have 2 weeks of amazing, then something happens, he freaks out a bit and needs time apart. Once everything is fine again, something else happens and he's doubting the relationship? Am I understanding that right?
He does sound like he really doesn't know what he wants and is afraid of being with someone, committing to having those potentially difficult conversations or changing his life to accommodate another person (other than himself).
Retroactive jealousy? Is this from the previous fight you had where you apologised and everything was great for the next 2 weeks? I think your bf is fixated on this particular trigger and either there needs to be a discussion and understanding that the location is just that – it's not going to foretell any future conflicts or repeat the situation that brought on his jealousy in the first place. At least, I would hope so.
So, are you absolutely positive you worked this last conflict out? Are you both on the same page because it doesn't sound like it to me. He sounds like he's still hurt or else just dwelling on all the negative “what-ifs” that are making him want to break up, or otherwise not deal with his real feelings.
I'm so sorry you're all going through this! It certainly can be heavy and frustrating to deal with, but it seems that there is more to this – either he's not telling you something, or he may not even know how to explain it himself. He may not even want to deal with those feelings, which makes things tougher.
On a very basic level – he could be absolutely right: he's not ready for a relationship. I hope he can open up, if not with you, with someone else he's close to and can give him some logical, sensible advice.
But what if the relationship is salvageable? I don’t want to make a mistake.
He doesn't love you. No man that actually loves you would force you to do this. He pimped you out for his own pleasure, and, when you told him that it's left an emotional and psychological mark on you, he gaslights you. You need to find the video, get rid of it, hopefully he doesn't have it backed up anywhere, and you need to move back where your family lives. Then you need to seek out psychological therapy to help you dal with this.
It's a very one-sided happiness because your partner should be looking to share that happiness with you by lessening your load. If my partner worked fewer hours and still expected me to cover half the bills and do half the housework, I'd not be happy for them. I'd be pissed off that they were only thinking of using their time off to benefit themselves.
It’s hot because when I get heated and tell him he’s literally does. Not. Talk. He will be quiet till I ask him the same question multiple times. He is hard to argue with at times when he is like this. I know I’m a Fckn spineless fuck , I will put my 100000000% best efforts in but when I turn my back, I’m done for. I’m trying to understand why I can’t do this to him as I have done it to exes. It’s like he has the upper hand in this
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We’ve been together for five years. We spend nearly all our time together.
Occasionally, he’ll do this thing where I offend him somehow and he, like, pouts for hours. He won’t engage in any way and will be sarcastic and rude.
We have no money and had to move back in with my mom. I am the only one working and every time I come home he won’t do stuff with me. He complains about how bored he was all day, that he hates living here, and he’s always pushing me to look for places whenever I’m home.
I also hate living here but appreciate that my family has helped me out a lot lately. I got a job close to home and work full time.
Today, when I went home, he immediately started complaining about how boring it was all day, how we “have to get out of here” and that he hates being stuck in the room all day. I asked if he wanted to watch this show we’d all been watching. He said he didn’t want to watch it until we ate. I laid on my bed and was trying to talk to him but he wouldn’t reply really. Then he just stormed out of the room. I asked where he was going and he just ignored me.
I went into the living room and asked if he heard me. He said I was just ignoring him and he was sick of being in the room. I said we could watch the show in the other room and he said he didn’t want to and it was boring. I told him I didn’t want to feel responsible for entertaining him and I had offered him and bunch of things to do. He refused everything but didn’t know what he wanted to do.
I’ve been applying for jobs for him, arranging everything for moving out from our last place, and my mom is housing and feeding us. I feel frustrated by him ignoring me every time I get home.
Tldr: my boyfriend says I’m not doing enough for him and I feel frustrated. I don’t know what fair.
I’m sure it did hurt his career. He was ungracious and humiliated his boss publicly.
There’s two types of people in the world
Men that have done similar things to jacking off at work or school
And men who lie about it.
Don’t worry you’re all good
Feels like a little trickle truth is happening here…
i mean, he's 21. Was he present during your struggle with anorexia? Have you educated him on what that all means, how it still impacts you, etc?
Info: why did you suggest a hook up and not ask her on a date?
PE is not in my country, it looks interesting. In Czechia it is 3 years bachelors And 2 years for masters.
The fact you think any of this is plausible to happen really shows you are 18 years old.
Still, on the assumption you want this to work, there are a few things to consider.
First, meeting is no enough, your relationship will apart unless you start living close to each other in near future. This is a non-debatable fact, you can refuse to accept, but reality will not bend to your wishes.
She also just told me that she wants to marry me one day and that i am the man that she always dreamt about
That's convenient, as unlikely as it is to work out, that is making my next point really easy. One of you needs to bite the bullet and move to the other one. Simple as that. I understand how inconvenient it may be, but with your happy future life with your future spouse at stake it should be a reasonable proposal, no?
Last I checked a foot isn't a sex organ but a penis is.
Tell that to the foot fetishists