Is there a business plan in place? Does your husband or his partner have a finance/business degree and the upfront capital to float their business while it gets off the ground? Do they have legal contracts in place defining terms of ownership and liability? Has he consulted with a lawyer to make sure that your joint assets are protected in case (when) this business fails? This all sounds like a terrible idea, and I would, at the very least, be separating from him financially, if not legally. But honestly, if I were you, I would absolutely be heading towards ultimatum territory, because if my partner just decided to start making huge unilateral decisions that deeply affected me in the negative… well, they wouldn't be someone I could trust and stay with
Because I saw him exhibit all these traits to others. He was always kind and generous with his time and energy with them. I guessed eventually it would be my turn to be put first.
i think saying she is checked out of our relationship is not right. i was home for a month over break and we were together almost daily. but you are right about it being aggressive, i am guessing it is coming from the fact that i have been in an emotionally abusive relationship for six years but it feels like it is the only way to make someone understand how i feel. i have been working on it but obviously i am still bad.
He’s the best thing that ever happened to you, he worships the group you walk on, makes you laugh…ok ok ok he’s a good guy. Which makes you feel like some ungrateful “shallow” person because on paper, you should be completely happy with him, but alas you’re not.
Yeah ok, no breaking up. Too attached. Got it.
Spicing up the relationship can be as easy as using toys, or as complicated as inviting a third into the bedroom. As far as everything in between…there’s porn, there’s viagra, there’s lingerie, etc.
he raped you. he's continually violated your consent since. he's not sorry. but im sorry to say that that video he took before exists somewhere off his phone. so even if you see him delete it there, it still exists. because your autonomy and rejection mean shit all to him.
stop dating your rapist. get out. go to therapy. tell every fucker you know what this scumbag did to you. gather your friends around you. and find the better that you deserve.
Girl, you gotta love yourself first. Breakup with him, go to therapy, work on yourself. May sound harsh but he doesn’t give two shits about you. There’s a great person out there for you, but he’s not it
Is there a business plan in place? Does your husband or his partner have a finance/business degree and the upfront capital to float their business while it gets off the ground? Do they have legal contracts in place defining terms of ownership and liability? Has he consulted with a lawyer to make sure that your joint assets are protected in case (when) this business fails? This all sounds like a terrible idea, and I would, at the very least, be separating from him financially, if not legally. But honestly, if I were you, I would absolutely be heading towards ultimatum territory, because if my partner just decided to start making huge unilateral decisions that deeply affected me in the negative… well, they wouldn't be someone I could trust and stay with
Because I saw him exhibit all these traits to others. He was always kind and generous with his time and energy with them. I guessed eventually it would be my turn to be put first.
He's disgusting. I'd dump someone over that shit. What a selfish asshole
i think saying she is checked out of our relationship is not right. i was home for a month over break and we were together almost daily. but you are right about it being aggressive, i am guessing it is coming from the fact that i have been in an emotionally abusive relationship for six years but it feels like it is the only way to make someone understand how i feel. i have been working on it but obviously i am still bad.
Come on people. Would you date someone who is friends with someone he used to be in love with?hahahahhahaha
He’s the best thing that ever happened to you, he worships the group you walk on, makes you laugh…ok ok ok he’s a good guy. Which makes you feel like some ungrateful “shallow” person because on paper, you should be completely happy with him, but alas you’re not.
Yeah ok, no breaking up. Too attached. Got it.
Spicing up the relationship can be as easy as using toys, or as complicated as inviting a third into the bedroom. As far as everything in between…there’s porn, there’s viagra, there’s lingerie, etc.
Imagine what she cluld do for two shots of vodka or maybe a bottle.
She is not gf material, stop treating her like gf if she doesn't act like one.
I mean there really is no question here. They can't be around cats. And you don't want to give up your dog.
He isn't going to magically change his mind. And if he does he will likely change it again after you move in, expecting you to ditch the dog.
he raped you. he's continually violated your consent since. he's not sorry. but im sorry to say that that video he took before exists somewhere off his phone. so even if you see him delete it there, it still exists. because your autonomy and rejection mean shit all to him.
stop dating your rapist. get out. go to therapy. tell every fucker you know what this scumbag did to you. gather your friends around you. and find the better that you deserve.
Girl, you gotta love yourself first. Breakup with him, go to therapy, work on yourself. May sound harsh but he doesn’t give two shits about you. There’s a great person out there for you, but he’s not it