Sounds like he wants you to become one of those over-30 women who nervously monitor every calorie and pound, who punish themselves for not being 20 any more, and who blame every health issue they have on themselves (as opposed to genetics, environment, etc). I've known several women who lived that life, and then miraculously became happier (and healthier) after they ditched the man/men who were encouraging their self-hatred.
dated a fella whose ex wife poked holes in their condoms
I would leave. Period. He isn’t the one.
Damn, that is really messed up
Sounds like he wants you to become one of those over-30 women who nervously monitor every calorie and pound, who punish themselves for not being 20 any more, and who blame every health issue they have on themselves (as opposed to genetics, environment, etc). I've known several women who lived that life, and then miraculously became happier (and healthier) after they ditched the man/men who were encouraging their self-hatred.