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Date: October 29, 2022
Leave his dumb ass. What took so long?
He's negging you and it's a manipulative abuse maneuver. You fix it by telling you've taken him very seriously. You understand and believe him 100%, and that's why you're leaving him, because he's a dumpster fire of a partner and you're not into very hot garbage.
After reading the title I just assume that you wrote him a long letter without using any paragraphs and now he wants to break up.
That’s the point you want to make, but I’m not buying it.
Wholeheartedly agree here. The reason the number is so low is because narcissists and disordered personalities don't stay in therapy long enough to get the diagnosis (because they're convinced there's nothing wrong with them, so why should they go?). Further, good practice in therapy is to work with someone for a year before giving a personality disorder diagnosis to confirm that this isn't just stress related or triggered by life events, and that this is truly who/how they are.
So yeah, I would say the number is a lot higher, we just can't get them into therapy to confirm it.
Doctors probably won’t do any procedures on EITHER of you. For all the people saying she should get her tubes tied. Doctors aren’t very accepting of young women with no kids who want to get their tubes tied.
She shouldn’t pressure you into something you don’t want. If it is too much for you then you just gotta figure out what you want to do moving forward.
“This should definitely be top comment”
Couldn't agree more. Absolutely marvellous post.
You have nothing to feel guilty about.
If it's strictly for body count that is the problem, that is his issue to deal with, there is nothing you can do about it except move on if he is too much of a pain about it.
However, he may be actually insecure about the experience imbalance, his lack of experience VS yours? He possibly thinks/knows that as an inexperienced partner, he can't show you as much of a good time yet compared to a more seasoned partner. That is something he may need support and reassurance about, if he is ready to admit it instead of being an *** about the body count.
going NC with your sister is your solution for this in my honest opinion
I'm torn. Your husband's actions are off, but he felt like he had to tell this kind of lie to excuse your extremely rude behavior and he couldn't think of anything else but “something's wrong with her but it's not her fault, it's just who she is”. He called it autism because he couldn't say “she's just rude”.
That means his mom and him are put off by your behavior and reading your post I can understand why. You're visibly hating on their Christmas traditions and you hardly ever let your hb spend christmas with his own family.
She learned very important lessons. See it if next time she' lets someone ignore her for a month and then come back with “oh I was busy”.
Before I decide anything Imma make her answer “Why did she do this”? Till than no getting back together, or else she’s gonna take you for granted!!
Just get your stuff and ghost.
This feels like the best answer. Sometimes being too very hot on people who are learning, being too 'critical', discourages them, but praising them can bolster their confidence. Beating a kid – who's only 10 – over and over and over is going to break his spirit. You don't have to always be right, you – and your wife – don't always have to win. Maybe she's making up for you being too harsh by being too 'lenient', and she knows you're going to kick up a fuss, which seems like what you're doing here anyway.
Thank you so much, truly. I really appreciate your help here.
Oh, thank you — I will definitely use the “so when are you moving out?” response! And you're right that I should make sure his timeframe is clear. I know it's uncomfortable for me because it feels like I'm reinforcing that it's “my” house even though I've always thought of and referred to it as “ours”.
I don't think he's trying to push me out so he can stay… but mainly bc he couldn't afford it and he hates our neighbors (another example of someone saying one mildly annoying but benign thing and him blowing it out of proportion… many months later actually said we're “at war” with out neighbors).
I didn’t read anything but the title and I’m here to report: probably.
People with penises can be short too.
People are being very harsh in the comments, but I personally agree with you. I wouldn't end a close friendships because they cheated on someone while they were in an unhappy marriage, and my partner wouldn't either. If this is something you and your wife can't overcome on your own, then I suggest going for some counselling so that you can get help by a third party to clear up your respective feelings.
If you have to record arguments to get someone to stop trying to make you doubt your reality, it's time to leave.
yea but most don't insist on performative feedings to make them feel better
It is odd, your child is just sucking her nipples for her own satisfaction.
She should get a fake breast that can have milk come out of it.
If you’re not happy and you’ve done everything you can to change the situation to no avail, you need to remove yourself from the situation.
I kinfd of wonder , after reading this post, how do you dare to ask antone about giving her your eggs.
Have you read yourself?
Do you guys share a room? If not I agree with a fan and maybe one of those diffusers with scented oils.
Why don't you write a list of pro's and cons. See what it looks like on paper and whether it adds up. But I can't see how you can get past a blatant lie, denial and refusing to apologise or take responsibility.
Or get called out when you speak with less precision than your wisdom had the capacity for. God forbids a lot of things, but here we are. You’re not wrong, but you missed a shot at being completely right. It happens. Be well, friend. God will not forbid that, I am sure.
Yeah I was leaning towards this as a first step. It's difficult with me traveling though.
It's not a deal breaker as long as you stay. He'll do it again. Leave.
I think you’re right. I’ll most probably bring it up tonight and see what she says. It’s scary to think that if this doesn’t work out, I’ll be starting over. I’m already 32!
Unfortunately when you have a toxic biological family, you get to a point where you have to decide if you want to keep being their emotional punching bag or do you want to make/find your true family. Friends and loved ones that embrace and celebrate you will be your family. They knew approximately when your graduation was. They could have asked you to find out the date so they wouldn't clash but they didn't. Golden child is more important. But you are for you. You achieved something incredible and deserve all the praise in the world and for more than a day. You will not get looks of pity but of empathy or horror at your family being like that. Your friends and their families will be in your corner. Also, this is a key moment to draw a line in the sand. To say 'I am worth more than your afterthought. I don't need your validation!'. Please go to your graduation. I didn't attend mine and almost 30 years later I still regret it.
Why do they need a prom dress? They graduating med school – not attending a ball.
Or start building a cot
Entitled is bad enough. This guy is entitled AND stupid. That's a brutal combination to go through life with.
No normal, well-adjusted man who's almost 40 years old wants to date a woman that much younger than him…I just smh at how many of these posts I see with such a massive age difference…