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Well yes obviously now he’s made that decision he would be a terrible father. He is great with kids and he has qualities as a person that would make a good parent. What I meant in my post was that if he had chosen to be a father he would have been a fantastic one. I’m not trying to convince him to do anything.
Honestly, there are many marriages that just need the help of a 3rd person, even if only to help with communications. There are so many that jump to “leave him” that I wonder if they have been alone their whole life. Take it one step ar a time and you will know soon enough what your choices are.
Just want to add that you are not stuck with him if he succeeds in impregnating you. You can leave while pregnant, claim you don't know who the father is to keep his name off the birth certificate, and cut off ALL contact.
Ideally, leave before he gets you pregnant. Like NOW.
Under no circumstances should you get pregnant with this man. Don’t consider it, and don’t you dare let it happen accidentally. If you have a baby with him you will come to know regret like you cannot currently fathom.
I’ve been there, done that. I got out after 15 years. How many years will you give this??
He’s gone. Just do it. File for divorce. Do it soon. Get out.
That's what all the crazy cat ladies say. Toxoplasmosis is real. It kills off the brain cells that register the cat stink. Plus you can't have babies with cats around. She's way to young to have three cats
Don’t think of it that way, I get it’s difficult to see a different perspective now but you will. I was angry at myself for a long time. Felt like I had given up on my partner and felt extreme guilt. Then I started to remember all the other things I had pushed aside or all the things I let them get away with. You can support and love someone with every fiber of your being but that doesn’t necessarily mean they will realize they need to help themselves. My partner just figured out I would tolerate anything he threw at me ( literally and physically) so he never changed cause I was a doormat. That continued until the day I realized I was dating a child who didn’t want to grow up and just wanted to Blame others and never change. I understand alcoholism is a disease. It will consume and destroy everyone in its path, not just the alcoholic.
You have to do what’s right for you in the end. No good deed goes unpunished. The road to hell is paved in good intentions. The last decade of your life has not been wasted. It paved the way for your future. As long , painful and dark as it was you are now on a new path. One that is bright and full of new beginnings.
What if you break the silence and talk to your husband? Will he talk to you then?
While he can’t control how his sister acts, he could at least support you, especially as he knows you moved away to be with him and he’s everything you have.
If I were you, I’d also address the problem with your sister in law. Maybe she’s ignoring you on purpose, in which case you deserve to know what her problem is, or she was in a bad mood/didn’t avoid chatting to you on purpose. How are your relationships with your SIL, usually?
Yes, definitely. Everything suddenly gets itchy and it lasts a while. I'm not saying it was allergies, but it's not impossible. His behaviour was crazy either way.
Well yes obviously now he’s made that decision he would be a terrible father. He is great with kids and he has qualities as a person that would make a good parent. What I meant in my post was that if he had chosen to be a father he would have been a fantastic one. I’m not trying to convince him to do anything.
Honestly, there are many marriages that just need the help of a 3rd person, even if only to help with communications. There are so many that jump to “leave him” that I wonder if they have been alone their whole life. Take it one step ar a time and you will know soon enough what your choices are.
I wish you much happiness.
Just want to add that you are not stuck with him if he succeeds in impregnating you. You can leave while pregnant, claim you don't know who the father is to keep his name off the birth certificate, and cut off ALL contact.
Ideally, leave before he gets you pregnant. Like NOW.
Under no circumstances should you get pregnant with this man. Don’t consider it, and don’t you dare let it happen accidentally. If you have a baby with him you will come to know regret like you cannot currently fathom.
I’ve been there, done that. I got out after 15 years. How many years will you give this??
He’s gone. Just do it. File for divorce. Do it soon. Get out.
That's what all the crazy cat ladies say. Toxoplasmosis is real. It kills off the brain cells that register the cat stink. Plus you can't have babies with cats around. She's way to young to have three cats
Yep, I saw. He needs to to make it clear that not going is a deal breaker.
in this situation i think i would just kind of demand to meet his friends or call it off. if he’s being shady, no need to stick around
Yes. UK law is ten kinds of fucked up. The only people who ware protected are the predators.
Don’t think of it that way, I get it’s difficult to see a different perspective now but you will. I was angry at myself for a long time. Felt like I had given up on my partner and felt extreme guilt. Then I started to remember all the other things I had pushed aside or all the things I let them get away with. You can support and love someone with every fiber of your being but that doesn’t necessarily mean they will realize they need to help themselves. My partner just figured out I would tolerate anything he threw at me ( literally and physically) so he never changed cause I was a doormat. That continued until the day I realized I was dating a child who didn’t want to grow up and just wanted to Blame others and never change. I understand alcoholism is a disease. It will consume and destroy everyone in its path, not just the alcoholic.
You have to do what’s right for you in the end. No good deed goes unpunished. The road to hell is paved in good intentions. The last decade of your life has not been wasted. It paved the way for your future. As long , painful and dark as it was you are now on a new path. One that is bright and full of new beginnings.
No, you don’t extend an olive branch. But you should cut your ex out as well.
And probably cut the friends who have forgiven him as well, as their loyalty as friends is to him not you.
What if you break the silence and talk to your husband? Will he talk to you then?
While he can’t control how his sister acts, he could at least support you, especially as he knows you moved away to be with him and he’s everything you have.
If I were you, I’d also address the problem with your sister in law. Maybe she’s ignoring you on purpose, in which case you deserve to know what her problem is, or she was in a bad mood/didn’t avoid chatting to you on purpose. How are your relationships with your SIL, usually?
May the universe bless you with a few extra good years for your good deed :)) Thank you kindly stranger.
Yes, definitely. Everything suddenly gets itchy and it lasts a while. I'm not saying it was allergies, but it's not impossible. His behaviour was crazy either way.