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Mostly because it seemed very out of character for her. I also have been cheated on the past in very similar situation.
Unfortunately some people are really good at covering what a psychopathic piece of shit they are until they’ve got them trapped in marriage and finally do something completely off the rails like this. I pray she finds out and I really hope he’d served divorce papers
Nope, literally no one at a bank would ever make that statement. Ever because its outside their oversight. You can deposit it into your kids account if you wanted.
But thanks for the laugh.
How do you handle this situation?
You walk away and preserve your dignity. Don't allow someone to treat you this way. You know exactly what's going on and you don't have to put up with it.
If it is a priority he will clear his schedule
dump him
Oh my gosh, so you didn’t have with him one freaking morning and he acts like this. He needs to grow the f up. He could’ve approached you or asked to make love, instead of moping around like a damn child. I would be so turned off with such behavior. If this is how he acts before you guys are married, think of the married life. Is he gonna be mad when you don’t wanna do it after being sleep deprived from tending to the child(ren)?! What about after giving birth, God forbid you go through postpartum depression, is he gonna act like this then?! Sex plays a significant part in a relationship, but so does communication.
This is totally normal. My bf falls asleep much faster than me and I’m usually here on Reddit until I’m tired. And I switch from side to side because my hands get numb holding my phone above me if I lay on my back lol.
You are being too soft.
I wouldn't be surprised if he is still seeing this woman. I'm sorry to say this but I have been through it and it transpired my ex fiancé was still seeing her and kept it insanely secret. I barely suspected a thing, maybe it was denial.
Toughen up, go in on yourself in terms of glowing up, going out with friends, hit the gym! Be prepared for a big revelation that it's still going on x
The child likely has 0 memories of her mother.
Everything OP is doing, is 100% for him. OPs girlfriend has been more of a mother to the child, than her actual biological mother. I'm sure the daughter has significantly more fond memories of the girlfriend than the dead wife. It's unfortunate, but children that young aren't really capable of making and holding onto a lot of memories.
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Simple. A wager.
The AMOUNT of weight is secondary. Somehow the topic itself has risen to be THE PROBLEM in this marriage. It's not clear who is leading the dialog, nor who is OP's toughest critic. She's clearly tough on herself, and the end-of-the-year ultimatum was HER idea!
Now, Husband is undermining. IDC if he's displaying a skepticism that 10 years with THE PROBLEM has engendered, or if is he deliberately undermining OP. My solution is the same.
OP, I suggest you begin by granting Husband his doubts, and doubling down. Negotiate a wager – something like this: You maintain your weight continuously for X months, and he must lose something and/or you must get something from him. You fail, and it is you that must make sacrifices.
Most importantly – DURING the wager period, from its first to last day, fairness requires an end to undermining. Husband's skeptical attitude MUST go into deep storage, and not show itself. And on the last day, if you've won the wager, he must man up, and admit that he grossly underestimated your newfound resolve, and that he should have acknowledged that you'd raised your game in the last 2-3 months, and been more supportive.
You lost weight because of what was at stake, right? It worked. When you're properly motivated, you rise to the occasion. So, find something(s) that'll make your efforts worthwhile, and make it your reward for winning the bet. Anything that isn't fattening will do. And find something you dread losing, and make that your cost of losing the bet.
A story on reddit that went viral couple months ago about a guy and his wife having an extra room in their house and the husband made it into an art room for his “guy best friend”. The wife got upset and things escalated until the husband realized he has feelings for the friend.
lol would not surprise me I’m so confused at this point and am tired of being gaslit by them saying that the mashed potatoes aren’t mashed potatoes when I literally peeled cut and mashed the potatoes with butter milk salt pepper onion and garlic drives me absolutely insane ? like what else could this be? Thank you for your advice I appreciate it
In the meantime clean the toilets with his toothbrush… kidding.
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???? Were we not talking about condoms???♀️
100% agreed
Bruh you're making the argument that you want to go to a strip club and have a lap dance just to watch the dancer's technique rather than for sexual gratification… you've been given advice and you seem intent on making yourself the victim. You both hold different views on nudity. Literally just talk with each other and see it from her pov, and discuss your boundaries.
He might be asking follow up questions because he already had suspicions she was cheating. Answer his questions. Pandora’s box is already open no point in trying to close it now.
even though she's not planning on doing anything.
since it's her birthday, maybe you should be the one planning stuff…?
either way, the good news is that if you set enough boundaries, you won't have to worry about her bothering you for much longer!
Lmao he is mugging you off. He’s got some cheek on him though, got to give him props for that.
Someone's death bed is not the place for you to confess and try to get forgiveness and closure. It's about them.
Please repeat that to yourself. Make it a mantra if need be. She doesn't need your guilt, but support and focus.
Well buddy, I would’ve walked out of the bar and headed to a lawyers office in the morning but you do you. If you want to be married to a serial cheater who publicly disrespects you go right ahead. Your wife called you and told you if you didn’t come get her, she was going to sleep with another man? I mean you were willing to be the side piece for her. It makes sense while you were in the position you’re in to begin with. You must have very low self-esteem, and very low regard for yourself. You should dress that in therapy.
I’d be upset too that’s weird as hell for him to bring up. And the way he reacted after you (rightfully) got upset??? ????
Does your partner know that you want to get married? It doesn’t sound like you have had a real conversation with them about what you are thinking. You asked a yes/no questions – he answered yes but then you didn’t follow up with that. Speak honestly with then about what you want and need.
Your husband has some serious issues. You did absolutely nothing wrong and anyone demanding you apologize for caring for your brother is an asshole.
Lawyer
If you have facial hair, shave it off you will look younger. If you have grey hair, dye it. Your wife can’t just look older. Sounds like the people in your new community are crap. I would not care what they think for myself but if it is bothering your daughter then you and your wife need to find a solution. BTW, does your wife dress age appropriate? Things like wearing young style of clothing and even hair styles can fool the eye about a persons age.
This is what you do in your spare time? :/ You’re right I don’t have a family. But if I did, I’d have better hobbies for down time (since downtime would be very precious)
And what do you mean “doing nothing with my life” – What are you doing with your life? Working a job you really don’t want to be at? I like to cook, crochet, read books, chat on the phone with my family, go for walks, etc. Is that not enough? Do I really need to be selling my time to be “doing something” with my life? I feel happier now than I did when I was slaving away at a job.
I hope when I’m 34 that I can help young girls my age, not swear on them and fight with them because they triggered me. That’s not loving or wise.
You’re so angry at me for what??? For having goals for my future that don’t align with your current reality ???
Like … I’m not lazy or a leach. It took a lot of time and effort to complete my education while also working full time at multiple. I didn’t have time to have fun like most people on weekends, or focus on the things that meant the most to me.
You’re telling me to “grow up little girl” when you don’t even know me. You think my boyfriends gonna break up with me, but he is more understanding of me than you because he actually knows me. And if he does break up wit me, that’s okay too. He’s his own person, but that’s not gonna change my mind about something that’s important to me and has been since I was a kid.
Now, get lost.
OK. That's not good. See, you are complaining about friendly things. If the three of you can't hang out together, if you aren't invited I to the conversation, then he is taking from your relationship to give to her.
My wife is always invited. She doesn't always feel well enough to attend, but the only conversations she has are with family members, medical staff or me. Having conversations where you are a third wheel is not good at all. Major red flag.
I am agreeing with the fact that it is the consequences of my own actions haha
If he can’t respect that you are no longer interested in anal or physically can’t do it, you should leave the relationship. You have legitimate health concerns. You’ve tried. For him to gaslight you about this and say you’re not trying or you’re leading him on, is disgusting. What’s more important to him? Fucking you in the ass, or making you feel safe, loved, and respected in this relationship? Because it sounds like his priority is the sex, and that’s really gross. You deserve better. Also, as someone who suffered an injury from forced anal sex, once you’re injured down there, you could have problems for the rest of your life. I’m ok now, but it could’ve been a lot worse. Is it really worth the risk to keep trying, for his sake alone? Please see this as the giant red flag it is. ?
It seems the safest option would be for the two of you to remain monogamous. You don't seem to be afraid of losing him as a result of an occasional dalliance. You seem more concerned about the resulting imbalance, which there's no satisfactory way to address. So monogamy it is, I think.
you gotta stay home to make sure he comes home
else he might end up in her room got a good time
Wrong post. Holy shit man wrong fucking post!!!!
Agree, this is rape. I know it hurts when someone you care about violates your consent and minimizing it does help at the moment, but it won't work forever. Someone who would do this to you does not care about you and is not safe to be around
Off the bat, you know him better than any of us so it’ll be hot for any of us to suggest the proper way to do something like this not knowing the type of person he is or humor he has. Be mindful of that.
Having said that, I have an idea that you’ll have to be very careful with. If he’s a hardcore gamer (and full disclosure I’m not), I’d assume that he or his profile(s) have an existing reputation and data saved accordingly.
Now, maybe it’s all saved or backed up in the cloud and this wouldn’t be an issue anyway, but I’ll assume you’re not sure if that’s the case.
As such, depending on how well you know his humor, you could consider telling him that you accidentally broke his laptop doing [make it up]. Just make sure you keep it safe.
At that point you can decide on how far you want to go with it based on how he responds. Then present him with the gift. Good luck.
You can make it up to her by not fighting her for the unavoidable child support and custody…
What's more important to you, your friendship or your family?
I dated a guy a while back that had Asperger’s. We weren’t a great match for other reasons, but are still great friends. He told me how grateful he was I was in his life because I was one of the few women who UNDERSTOOD HOW HE WORKED! And the only reason I did is because I’m living it, and got some great skills working with therapists to help me decode all this shit.
It’s not rocket science, it’s understanding behaviors and motivations. Please take the time to get help from people who are trained in this. Makes all the difference in the world.
Off the bat, you know him better than any of us so it’ll be hot for any of us to suggest the proper way to do something like this not knowing the type of person he is or humor he has. Be mindful of that.
Having said that, I have an idea that you’ll have to be very careful with. If he’s a hardcore gamer (and full disclosure I’m not), I’d assume that he or his profile(s) have an existing reputation and data saved accordingly.
Now, maybe it’s all saved or backed up in the cloud and this wouldn’t be an issue anyway, but I’ll assume you’re not sure if that’s the case.
As such, depending on how well you know his humor, you could consider telling him that you accidentally broke his laptop doing [make it up]. Just make sure you keep it safe.
At that point you can decide on how far you want to go with it based on how he responds. Then present him with the gift. Good luck.