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Date: October 8, 2022
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I donāt think heās being spiteful. I think heās broken up with you. Though itās not the most mature way to do it. If Iām wrong and this isnāt s as breakup, then it should be. No one whoās serious about being with you disappears for 10 days. If you were living together then you would have called the police and started hanging up āmissingā posters by now. So if he hasnāt broken up with you then you should break up with him. If you choose to stay with him then do so aware that you are condoning this type of behavior in the future.
So sad
Just plain and simple. “No”. You're not together anymore and even if you were you wouldn't be obligated to send him pictures of you/your body no matter if he bought you clothes or not. He sounds abusive af, too.
Stay safe, create a clear boundary and even better, block him.
Hun that's not your friend, that is a guy hoping he gets the chance to be more than your willing to give.
Go get tested
I'm seriously so disgusted by this dude. Seriously hoping he is a troll. If so he needs to work on his story writing skills though.
Absofuckinglutely this is grounds for a breakup. It should have been the first time he forced himself on you. No one deserves that
Like what fluffy_assassins and anxiousjellybean say, being bi is OR not AND. If you want the AND are you prepared to accept him being Poly as well?
What if he says no? Heās then going to always have in the back of his mind that you are going to do it, whatever you say. Youāll have planted a trust issue for the sake of your desires. What if he wants to watch? Or be involved? What if he then sees it as green light for a three way? Would you accept that in order to get your ābi-confirmationā? What if he prefers the sex with her? If she reciprocates his desires and not yours?
My ex did this to me and I chose my friend over her
Has to be. No one would be this invested about OP staying in a manipulative and financially abusive relationship without having a horse in the race.
You said āI doubt you were the āperfectā victim ā thatās implying that I deserved it or did something to initiate that behavior.
Was she a hostage?
You were self admittedly a terrible BF and she over invested.
Unless there is some specific example where you promised to pay her back (ex specific repairs) then she is being ridiculous.
Food and trips, etc. That's life.
She had no expectation that anything would be repaid. Given your instability, it just makes a worse case for her.
When does she take accountability and walk away? Now, when it's too late? That's part of the consequences of bad choices.
You don't take your parents money. It's not reasonable and it's theft from the vulnerable. (You don't punish those that were responsible to pay the irresponsible).
She may thought you were irresponsible but she's actually no better. A responsible person would have walked away, long ago. She traded time & money, for attention and the fantasy of a relationship.
Stop feeling sorry for her.
DING DING DING DING DING. This. OP, I'm sorry, but this is wholly unsurprising (shitty) behavior from a man who married a 20-year-old at age 34.
Seems to me you need to let it go a bit and so does he. The whole underage thing you participated in as well, seems hypocritical to condemn him for something youāve done. I guess if you now feel it was wrong looking back at it, then I guess itās not hypocritical.
I donāt totally follow the furniture and previous situation, but it sounds like they lived together and she brought/bought the furniture and left it there when she left? That shit happens. I have a chair in my garage that was my exs, we broke up in 2007 I think. Thatās just part of life, cohabitation and breaking up. We canāt all just throw everything away every time a relationship ends, so the next person doesnāt have to see it.
I didnāt follow the bit about holding you and talking about his underaged girl.
He probably doesnāt need to be interacting with her social media. I think itās reasonable to remain friendly or friends, but he shouldnāt be lining after her. That said, if the breakup was recent, feeling donāt just fall off in an instant, if you jumped in with someone who just ended a relationship, thatās part of the game you have to accept.
Yeah I'm sure they made out drunk and just cuddled all night.
People have no moral or legal obligation to delete intimate photos of their exes – as long as they were freely given or taken with consent – when they break up. People are allowed to retain memories and mementos of their former partners and relationships and thereās nothing wrong with that.
Itās obvious your husband lied to you about his reason for keeping the pictures – he kept them because he likes to look at them. How much or how often we can only speculate. But in the abstract, thereās nothing wrong with that. Itās also clear why he lied to you about why he kept them – you canāt handle it and already lost your shit.
Iām not saying you have a good relationship or a bad relationship – you say that you have a good one and your partner is kind and amazing. I take you at your word. In that case, you should get over this because itās not a big deal.