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Contact the police as this is a crime, at least in the US.
What did she want in exchange for not sending out the photos? (revenge porn).
Tell me you don’t on-line with this asshole.
I see it as an appreciation gift for watching his cats. I don't see it as anything more.
Who is doing what with 17 inches? That's double the length of a big penis and triple the ldepth of the average vagina lol are people fucking their intestines or something?
Hahaha Very funny. Was posting on behalf of someone else.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately this is happening to a lot of people and a LOT of family secrets are being outed. I'm a skeleton in my father's closet, and it surprised the shit out of me that he actually did a test and we matched! One of his nieces actually just showed up on my matches recently, so I'm wondering how that went.
I accidentally outed an aunt to a cousin (not her child) because I thought everyone knew that she had adopted out* a baby when she was younger. He showed up on our DNA tests as a first cousin. I was like “oh that's probably him.” and moved on. I figured if he reached out, I would respond, but I didn't want to stick my nose in it. It appears that it wasn't as common knowledge as I thought, but my mom couldn't keep a secret for her life, so not surprised.
Just remember you didn't do anything wrong, and it's okay to feel conflicted about it. I definitely recommend therapy to work through it, it helped me a lot.
*not sure what the appropriate term to use here is, so if there's a better one, plz let me know.
Im sorry you dont even fuckin know if this chick youve been seeing for 4 months is a virgin? Yall have never talked about sex and kinks?
You plan to leave. You enact the plan. Include support if you think her suicide cries are genuine like letting a trusted friend of family member know. And then if she threatens suicide, tell the police. They will do a welfare check. I only understood these existed because Reddit but it makes so much sense. Either she doesn’t mean it, but then it doesn’t hold power over you because you don’t return, you just do the proper thing with the police. Or she does mean it, and can perhaps get the proper help she needs instead of you setting yourself on fire to keep her warm.
I’m not being defensive. You said in your post that she told you she regrets it, that you said you wouldn’t judge but now your sad. I’m basing that position on that. If you don’t think you made her feel judged at all by your questions and reaction then fair enough. But that’s not what it sounds like.
She’s “emotionally distraught the entire time,” because she’s caught in some sort of trauma response cycle.
Her nervous system won’t allow her to calm down or recognize reason.
It’s so sad to hear about this. I hope she gets the help she needs one day.
The golden child deliberately set out to upstage you?
Typical golden child behaviour, heaven forbid you get any attention for your achievements.
Go to your graduation, you’ve spent years studying and doing prac to get to this point. And everything I hear about med school is it is tough and you basically don’t have a life. What a marvellous win for you. Please don’t blow it off. Gather your closest friends and ask them to stand in for your family.
Porn is like any vice. Be it alcohol, drugs or gambling it’s fine in moderation. But when it controls your life it becomes a problem
I agree with the financial thing. She’s got a good thing going. Why would she want to pay more? But also I’d agree with you if you said you didn’t want to move somewhere that wasn’t 50/50 (or maybe smidge 40/60 just cos of the dogs).
But her reasons for it are utter nonsense. I’m sure you’d like to know the person you’re with wants to take care of you too?
In my own opinion though I wouldn’t even be thinking this. You’re both in your 30s so I assume relatively established at jobs, and know what you want from life. If you’re serious about having a partnership going forwards I’d be skipping all the messing about you do in your 20s when you’re still finding yourself. If I’m moving in with someone, it’s a committed sensible relationship. Therefore financial decisions would be made so you both have the same personal money left (so if you earned £2k a month and her £3k, and the rent and utilities and other commitments (dogs, savings, phone contracts etc) are £3k, I’d have one pay £1000 and the other £2000). Just because then you can both share your lives going forwards on an equal footing and are both contributing to you future.
It’s 2023. Let’s stop telling men they’re not attractive if they need care themselves or want equal roles in finances and home care. I’m assuming again you’re old enough and ugly enough to keep a living space tidy and clean. So be clear you don’t need her to pick up slack as you will contribute fairly and so she must also contribute fairly.
I agree with the financial thing. She’s got a good thing going. Why would she want to pay more? But also I’d agree with you if you said you didn’t want to move somewhere that wasn’t 50/50 (or maybe smidge 40/60 just cos of the dogs).
But her reasons for it are utter nonsense. I’m sure you’d like to know the person you’re with wants to take care of you too?
In my own opinion though I wouldn’t even be thinking this. You’re both in your 30s so I assume relatively established at jobs, and know what you want from life. If you’re serious about having a partnership going forwards I’d be skipping all the messing about you do in your 20s when you’re still finding yourself. If I’m moving in with someone, it’s a committed sensible relationship. Therefore financial decisions would be made so you both have the same personal money left (so if you earned £2k a month and her £3k, and the rent and utilities and other commitments (dogs, savings, phone contracts etc) are £3k, I’d have one pay £1000 and the other £2000). Just because then you can both share your lives going forwards on an equal footing and are both contributing to you future.
It’s 2023. Let’s stop telling men they’re not attractive if they need care themselves or want equal roles in finances and home care. I’m assuming again you’re old enough and ugly enough to keep a living space tidy and clean. So be clear you don’t need her to pick up slack as you will contribute fairly and so she must also contribute fairly.
I don't know how he's going to date someone 6 years younger than him and then be upset when she makes less money than him. Obviously a 26 year old is going to be as far along in their career, if he's this bothersome about it why didn't he date another 30 year old? Almost no 26 year olds are rich and you sound like you're still doing pretty damn well either way. He needs to get off his high horse with his unrealistic standards or he'll have nobody.
He’s putting himself first. He’s shown you that he’ll always put himself first. He’ll be the same if you marry him and have children with him. His needs will always come first and yours will be last.
Be grateful you aren’t married and aren’t committed to him with a family. 10 years is a long time together but it’s not a lifetime.
Imagine you stay with him and look back in 40 years at the life you’ve lived. You’ve got the chance to get the job you want and live the life you deserve. Don’t waste it with him.
Yeah… I think he may be putting in some groundwork…
So personally, I want friends with whomever, I cannot stand being controlled, and supervised, cannot stand HAVING to have a boyfriend or husband 'vet' people I know, and I don't want them always wanting to be with me. Suffocating. Though I'm not a cheater, and have a hell of a lot of responsibility so I feel entitled to an outlet of other people company on my own terms… I seldom get it without worldwar 3 erupting..
That last part about him saying she will be around so get used to it is too far. It just sounds like he's putting you in your place…
There shouldn't be any secrecy to any hang outs… and you do have to be careful about bonding…
I would say zero intimate one on one's are acceptable…
There definately has to be rules as you shouldn't have the partner having to worry, or be in a position where other people will talk..
No.
What have I said is ‘nice guy’ energy?
I’m not one of them that thinks ‘just being nice’ means I’m entitled to sex.
But there is a difference between confidence and cockiness. Between standing up for yourself and being aggressive. Between being self assured and being a dick.
And too often it’s the lads who fall over the wrong side of these lines that get more action.
Case in point – OP