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Date: October 2, 2022
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wait did you say your gf had an abortion????? (it said of) if she did that and shes been with him all these times and avoiding the meeting of you and him then shes been fucking that guy… im serious… shes chose him and is keeping you a safety net and you need to get the hell out of that situation. shes made it clear that she isnt going to introduce you and that should tell you what you need to know. if you want this to work the boundries need to be there NOW. no excuses… man i personally would run. shes been unfaithful to you either sexually or emotionally and you will never feel the same way again or never trust her to not be this way….. run.
She feels guilty bc she knows damn good and well this wasnt a hang out they were dates and now shes been caught.
You didn’t make a mistake. You made a bad choice. There’s a difference. A mistake is “oops I added too much flour to this recipe.”
Consider perhaps she doesn’t want to be with someone who would do that. Because, in your heard when you did this, you felt it was a reasonable thing to do. It’s okay for her to be disappointed in the fact you aren’t the person she thought you were.
The only way forward will probably be to either end it, or to do whatever it takes to change the part of you that seeks out content like this.
Just tell him you made your choice to keep your baby and start preparing to be a single mom. Child support will take awhile to kick in, if he signs the birth certificate, then a court ordered paternity test takes longer so, I hope you're housing and financially stable. Save as much as you can now for childcare so you can return to your job as soon as possible.
Hopefully he'll step up and you can properly co parent. Even though you have made this choice without any communication or discussion, have lied for weeks, and have given him the silent treatment. (All great signs of a truely responsible, mature, intelligent adult that should be trusted to raise a functional human) The sooner you stop with the games, put on your big girl panties, and tell him the more you can plan.
She doesn't have ADHD. She is abusive.
She messaged me the other day about the past pretty upset, like pictures together etc. I told her there was no point looking back and that things had changed unexpectedly.
I've not reached out anymore. Neither has she since i messaged.
I'm not trying to give her mixed messages.
Staying in a doomed relationship is the desperate behavior. Jumping from one relationship to another suggests someone who knows what they want, has defined standards, and isn’t willing to settle for less. You are scared to leave your obviously doomed and incompatible relationship for fear of not finding another. That’s desperation.
I’m not trying to attack you by saying this, I’m trying to open your eyes here. You will find someone else. You’ll also be capable of a strong, compatible relationship when you better understand what that looks like for you. Best of luck, OP.
Her excuse is bullshit. She blames you for being emotionally unavailable? When you’re in a relationship, you don’t automatically run to someone else, you bring up issues and deal with them. She chose to not even tell you her feelings, even if that’s why she cheated, and instead just cheated. Only 4 months in. That’s not a sign of a mature and emotionally healthy person. In the end it’ll be up to you, but you have to decide if you can trust her again.
Wow. Wow. Just fucking wow. Your poor daughter. I couldn’t imagine throwing her out for a man, you must have been desperate for love. I guess she deserves to know which parent actually loves her.
You already know you can’t see her anymore. 1) you don’t want to be a dad, buy your own condoms. 2) don’t flush them or leave them in her trash. Wrap them and put them in a bag and take it to your trash. It is wild how many men leave birth control all on the woman and then panic. Take responsibility. Also every time you have sex there the possibility that pregnancy can occur even if protection is used.
I have advice!
A competent couple’s therapist that specializes in trauma.
Do not see each other for at least 6 months, except for weekly live sessions.
That, or block everywhere and move on.
Leave this poor woman alone. The reason she’s “changed” is because she’s in a relationship with an addict who has no insight into how his behavior (cheating and gaslighting) is so toxic.