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Date: October 22, 2022
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Wtf did i just read? RUN, RUN, RUN!!! THIS IS NOT LOVE! He is pimping you out for his own sexual gratification. This is not ok. I don’t care if you have to be homeless, it’s better than how you’re living. I am not judging you, my heart goes out to you for real. Love your self more
Both can be true, it’s not fair to expect monogamy from a partner while not desiring to be sexual, that’s expecting celibacy of someone who doesn’t want to be celebrate.
It’s also shitty to push someone into sex acts when they aren’t in the mood. In my world, it’s totally fine to try and get them in the mood, but they have to want to engage.
As far as cuddling as an alternative, for me they aren’t similar, I love both and would have a hot time missing out on either but they fill two different “buckets” for me, they are different ways to fill the same one.
Sounds like the best solution is to find ways to lower OPs stress levels, that’s positive on all fronts. She also may just not be that sexual, in which case she probably needs to let him know and they can decide how or if that’s going to work for them.
DON'T YOU DARE. You let her pass (if that's how it goes) with peace and dignity thinking she was loved and that you werent a cheating ass that was making her live a lie. Imagine how bad that would f you up? Not only are you having this drastically shortened life, you don't even get the peace of knowing you lived it to the fullest that you lived the best life you could with the time you were given? Hell, you tell her, and that alone could put her in a place where she dies. She rejects treatment, or she's so wracked with stress and emotional anguish that the care she gets doesn't work because she's so weakened by your betrayal. Come for me and say it's not scientifically possible, but you're wrong.
Ugh seriously. It’s fucking not a way to live and I’m so over it….
Make dumb suggestions get dumb responses. Sucks being clueless huh? You just doomed your marriage with one dumb suggestions. Lmao
This. As a woman, I could NEVER ever do what your gf is attempting to do. This hurt me to even read and I don't even know you.
Hold on to your boundaries. You're not overreacting. Your feelings matter. This is your wedding day as much as it is hers and that being said if you still decide to walk down the aisle with this person, contact the wedding coordinator yourself to ensure that this song is in no way attached to your wedding. Explain why if you must but do it yourself. I don't even trust that your gf will do it and I don't even know her.
Back in the day, hahahaha.
Is he on any kind of anti depressant? If so he could definitely have a low libido from the meds
Haha ok i get it
Maybe it's just me, but.. I have a few friends who are writers. We met when I did editing, and I still do tons of read throughs of their stories for flow and grammar. That's the background.
Plenty of writers write scenes or fantasies that they have no interest living in real life. These stories don't necessarily mean your boyfriend IS, or WANTS to be a rapist.
I understand your concern and upset. As someone with a history of SA it would probably give me icky feelings as well. I suggest going on a walk or grabbing coffee. Somewhere you have privacy to talk while also having the safety of people in the vicinity if the reaction is extreme. I'd try something like this:
'Hey boyfriend. I stumbled across the stories you write the other day. I apologize for invading your privacy, but I would feel more comfortable if you explained why you write things like that.'
Follow up questions like:
'Is this just something you write about?'
'Have you ever fantasized about doing it in real life?'
You are going to need more information to make a decision about the future of your relationship. If it's a deal breaker for you, then that's valid too. Just know that writing something doesn't equate to wanting to do it in real life.
You’re probably one of the many affairs he’s had during his marriage. I’m sure his wife knows & probably loves the life style he provides.