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Date: November 20, 2022
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This shi sound dumb to be real that's the past and she was of legal age also you did it too move on
If he was continually making comments comparing your body to hers, saying he prefers her looks, and in general berating you then I would understand being upset. He has made the effort to not mention it again but without seeing the post it sounds like you have built this up in your head. If he is not doing enough to make you feel beautiful then that relationship is not it. I've been in a similar situation and it just kept building and no matter what he said I never felt like he liked me. If you can't forget about it you might as well end it and spend time finding your own happiness again.
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You've contributed (what sounds like) substantially more from the financial side & are still in a very good spot.
While a salaried position may offer somewhat more stability in the short term, the benefits of running your own business FAR outweigh the risks in my personal opinion. And every last one of those benefits flows down to your partner as well.
She is being extremely unreasonable, selfish and short sighted. You are under no obligation to be miserable for the rest of your life doing work that does not fulfill you. Don't let some of the crazies on the Internet tell you otherwise.
You say he doesn’t want you to go. Did he actually say that or do you just think it? If he said “I don’t want you at my birthday party “, “you’re not invited” or something similar then make that clear to your wife and I’d agree with the “only go if he says he wants you there” advice. If you just think he doesn’t want you there (even if you’ve right) but said nothing why wouldn’t you just continue the go and not argue because you love Jane thing?
Yeah she doesn't feel comfortable when she is really down, and blames herself and cries a lot.. I always feel bad, because she doesn't want me to talk about it in the moment and doesn't want to be touched..
That is not the same as what her husband will be doing.
No I'm being straight up she messaged me the day after we broke up still pretty upset. I think she was looking back through pictures etc
I didn't encourage anything and didn't want to mess her around
That's 40% of the time. Of course that's a lot.
Your words say “you trust her” and you “want to be an adult” but your message is that you don't trust her *enough* and you're struggling with immaturity. You make it sound like you think this dude is gonna rape her and it'd be her fault for being around him. Either you trust her and her judgement or you think this man is going to harm her. OOOOOORRR, you're insecure and uncomfortable with this and you're not compatible with this woman who has a positive relationship with her ex. So, pro-tip. People who hate literally every ex and relate every breakup to trauma, say all of their exes are monsters, and need to shed their life after a break up… that's a red flag and not desirable. (one here or there is different) Consenting adults who don't work out and can be friends are actually the adults.
I think they're communicating poorly and neither of them know how to navigate a conversation like this effectively. It doesn't make sense that he would date a white women if he's scared of white people, but he likely means the power that white people hols as a collective to do him harm and get by with it. She has that power, but he trusts her not to use it. She doesn't understand because she's white and doesn't have the same experiences so it confuses her. They need to talk more, maybe with a mediator, and see where to go from there.
Also OP: I complained to mom and dad about it!!!
well, princes are wrong now.
Yeah this is the kinda thing I don't let people do to me. If someone makes fun of you I quip right back at them something simple like, “Mmhmmm okay you fat and ugly motherfucker. XD” or just stare them in the eye and say, “Bitch shut the fuck up.” Its simple and easy but also tells people to not make fun of you.
Also doesn't matter if your family thinks your the bad guy. In fact it doesn't matter if anyone thinks your the bad guy. If someone isn't supportive or a net positive in your life, then why try to people please them and keep them around?
Well it's still a dumb answer. She may not need to pressure, but he's an awful communicator who lacks self awareness if he can't explain why he's averse to marriage. Relationships join lives together. He wants to limit that joining. Sane people ought to be able to explain their reasons.
And the reason she should care is she'd be a fool if she didn't make sure this isn't signs of a lack of steadfast commitment.
Well, if she’s serious about this she needs to sign over custody of Aria then.
Obviously sucks, but at this point if she’s ready to drop everything, she’s not fit to make decisions for another human being
Sounds like he's not interested… time to move on