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⭐ Anastasia ⭐, 25 y.o.
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Date: November 25, 2022
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Thank you for the respond. I will talk with her today
I’m torn because on one hand I feel as though I deserve all the shit she has to throw at me.
Why? You literally did nothing wrong.
You are in an abusive relationship. You are being abused. Your girlfriend is an abuser.
You should leave.
In what context are you considering/referring to be “a man's value” vs. “a woman's value”?
I'd be very careful of that also. They don't actually know you as a person so they're likely fetishising you.
Femboys are very hot af. Nothing wrong with liking them. Dont be afraid to explore your sexuality spectrum. You like feminine /people/. Totally understandable, me too dude lol
So did you agree with her to stay home? Or did she railroad you with that too?
She knows what she wants and she told you. Accept it or break up.
Tried to* and it didn’t work out so now I want…
Almost ? there
Absolutely not.
As long as there are AHs in this world, OPs post is indicative, women have a need to know this.
The fact you are a nice, decent person does not stop you becoming a victim, in fact you could argue it makes you more likely to be one. It’s not your fault but, it is what it is. People will turn against you for whatever reason they think they have. Until attitudes change, if they ever do, Look after yourself, Put your safety first.
Revenge porners should be locked up until the message gets out there that they will be. Until then………………..
I was your age, and my boyfriend was about the same age as your boyfriend when we started dating. I get it, it's not easy when you find out the person you loved loves themselves more than anything else, but it's part of what made me who I am. This experience will make you stronger as well!
Hi, thank you for your comment and I will do my best to respond to all of the questions. I guess it is more of lower attractiveness vis a vis 5 to 3 which is not exactly the score but using your example. I meant that some angles are more flattering than others. I don't make any faces or act differently as far as I know or understand. For me, I think it's my perception but also just her face changing based on different angles and more. Sorry for the confusion on the wording.
She isn't. What would stop her from finding another AP if one presented himself? Trust is broken and you will never trust her again.
You bring up the communication issue by itself. You express you can’t be happy or move forward if “we” can’t figure out how to do it together.
Express it’s okay for her to shut down/get upset when it happens(that’s human), and you need to not touch it so you don’t damage each other until emotions calm.
Say you need for y’all both to be able to talk about it later w/o emotions(or only about how you felt vs blaming what they did if it’s personal). Letting problems build is how you end up with trouble in a lot of areas of life and get resentful toward your partner. You also have to say you need and want her honesty because you think it’s important she have a say on how you figure these things out.
At the end of the day, this relationship dies if y’all can’t do that.
End it if you realize it’s not possible because w/o a real partner here it’s very hot to be happy long term running the bus solo.
This isn’t going to be just the wedding.
This is your whole life. Do you want to get married to a guy that has such little regard for you?
Whilst you were bawling he actually wanted to take your emotional support animals away for his brother?
He doesn’t care for you in the way a partner should. Yes family is important, but at some point he needs to stop enabling his brother. It’s ridiculous
Funny? I'm surprised so many people think same as you ?
Would be the same jealousy, insecure, controlling problem.
Damn bro, you seem like a thoughtful good guy lol. I’m straight but can you date me? I travel a lot as well and wouldn’t mind a few care packages upon my arrival just drop them off like care packages like on Call of Duty. Also Red Very hot Chili Peppers are my favorite band wink wink lol it can be a real bromance!
I never put my career before my marriage. You can get fired in a second. Corporations don’t give a shit. You come off sounding like a shitty wife.
The people in this sub really love jumping to conclusions. You have no solid evidence against your husband yet, so I agree with the people suggesting walking back in like you've forgotten something. The nanny cam seems a bit of a strech, considering that is technically “spying” on your husband. Has he ever done anything to make you question your trust for him before?
She is totally willing to do that. I am the one who shut down sexually in response to the fact that we couldn't have penetrative sex.
We lasted so long together because we have an incredible emotional bond and chemistry.
how are you deciding this man is a predator when you literally nothing about him aside from how old he is? you sound like youre the fucking stupid one instead
It doesn't sound like you want to be in this relationship right now.
Still doesn't help her deal with her anxiety issues.
My ex husband had OCD. I could never do enough to be clean, and finally it turned into a decade of physical abuse because I wasn't “doing enough” and abiding by all his compulsions. If he's the kind of person who is OK with being cruel to a dog for his compulsions, he's not going to stop there.
Pick the dog.
Just break up.
You asked to go, she said no. So instead you decide to book a vip m&g. Meaning your actually going to meet, hug/take pics with this artist. — That will be the end of your relationship. So just break up.
I mean your kinda proving her point. The first chance you get and you go all out with vip m&g.
That feel relieving for sure. A lot of videos I seen, people will say that they receive flowers or multiple gifts or how their partner would call them all these pet names but they never dove further into explaining and more so like “if your watching this you know the exact definition of Love Bombing”
Google didn't help much either on properly explaining it as they just gave broad example like “saying I love you too early, giving constant gifts or over complementing” so it always left me feeling a bit of questioning myself
I almost cried reading this because you guys just sound so lovely and wholesome!
Good luck with the party planning!
My vote is a group dinner and booking a karaoke room for all your friends. Alternatively, investing in a home karaoke set up and getting her friends to organise it and set up a surprise party while you two are our for dinner, with a song list of her faves ready to go.
3-4 would be ideal as I’m a introvert who likes his space too
She's amazing but very controlling. She's gotten better over the years (has actively tried improving herself) by letting me stay out late and go to parties without me having to lie to her, but this is the one thing that is truly out of line for her.
Both of them say that if I get married, that's the only time when I can move out (which is how it is in our old schooled culture). During the argument, they did mention that I can move out once i get my bachelor's, but that's never been said before and I don't think it's also true.
Keep it casual. Doesn’t sound like the type to commit to
Thank you l will try to use spell checker in future. Writing English is not my strength
It's a tough issue. Let's be real here, an A5 is not going to be a great purchase for 15k. If anything breaks on it, and it will, the repair bills are going to be big. Running cost is going to be high no matter what. The only reason to buy this car is a relatively cheap status symbol. Maybe check on how reliable the turbo on this engine is, I know some of the TFSI's had issues in the past. You'd be way better off getting her like a 2015 MX-5 for that price, it will be cheap and problem free as you know.
I feel your problem, you'll lose if you get in her way too much (like what is happening now), but if you let her buy a horrible car and the engine blows up, that engine will also blow up in your face because it will be your fault. I think just lay it on the table, like “I think you should buy X, Y, Z, I think you are making a mistake if you buy this, but if that's want that's your decision”. She'll be anooyed at you most likely, but at least you said everything you needed to say and then let it go.
I can only assume this is a wind up
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This.
I've known lots of women how have been propositioned out of the blue by their friends for sex (which is basically what “hey, wanna be fuckbuddies/fwb?” means.
And it always makes things awkward or ruins the friendship, unless that friend is also sexually interested in you, and unless sex is sonething you are both already comfortable talking about together. It usually ends with the object of the proposition distancing from that friend. It sounds like this was out of the blue for her and left her feeling very uncomfortable.
The difficult thing is that much like confessing your romantic interest, you generally have to lead up to it by getting to know the person and where they would stand on FWB in general before approaching them. It also means reading the room and trying to see if they have ever shown interest in you.
In the future I'd recommend suggesting being FWB to girls you are still getting to know, if they are inti the idea of FWB in general, rather than old friends, as then you're not trying to change more established friendships, and you arent losing an older friend if she isnt into it.
Given that friends with sexual or romantic feelings can struggle to move on or accept “no”, many people can feel uncomfortable remaining friends in that context. Especially when like this, it was out of the blue with no intication from her that she was at all interested in OP. She probably feels like she thought she had a friend, but now wonders if OP was just hanging around hoping for sex.
Unfortunately confessing feelings is never risk free.
Im sorry you dont even fuckin know if this chick youve been seeing for 4 months is a virgin? Yall have never talked about sex and kinks?
She slept with her engaged boss, and ruined his and your relationshis as well. So, is that the kind of “girlfriend” you want? Please dump the girl, according to her, she won't remember anyway, so no need to feel bad.
I love this take. My son just asked me how many boyfriends I’ve had. He’s very young and just starting to question things so I didn’t go into any sort of depth with my answer but it got me thinking about the two very serious relationships I had before his father. I had a whole life planned out with each of them but I could not be more different than the women they married. My family could not be more different than the families they built.
This is not something that I have or ever will tell my guy but both of those men gave me butterflies constantly but he didn’t at first. I was incredibly attracted to him but I just never got that feeling until about a year into our relationship when we lived on opposite sides of the country for a bit. Even without the butterflies I was completely committed to him as a person and I never really even thought about anyone from my past but if I had let that (lack of) feeling direct my choices I would have lost the chance to fall in love with my best friend.
It could have been salvaged if she kissed a dude once and kept honest since then. However, she kissed a dude and then started lying her ass off for over a month until she got caught. So… no.
You have to try, you cant say “that wont work” intent and effort matter.
If it was me and it got worst i would know in my heart my SO tried and thats sometimes all that matters.
And if it did get worse, we move, fuck the schools fuck the job.
A childs got a better chance with two parents, not one.
These guys are almost certainly right. Even if they aren’t, the reason you want an “explanation” is so you can argue her out of it. It doesn’t work that way. If she comes, as they say, “crawling back” in less than a year, know that this will be repeated in the next two years. I’d bet my house on it. Move on.
No you're anger is 100% valid that's pretty fucked up shit and you probably would have been better off leaving him years ago, he's a broken person who doesn't care to fix himself now matter how much it hurts those who are there for him, I know it's really hot because of all the time you've spent and just gotten used to him being your day to day but it will be so much better for you if you get out as soon as possible.
It’s no problem at all, I worked with a rape and sexual assault charity a number of years ago and so had to have such an in depth understanding of the differences. Otherwise totally agree with your advice and agree he should absolutely seek advice from a legal professional over what crime, if any, has been committed there
Ah, that might be why. You guys get free prescriptions too ?? I wouldn’t even mind but I’m only 30min away!
You’re not alone there. It took me 4 scans between finding out and hitting 12 weeks to accept this one was real and happening. (we booked and paid for an extra one at 8w because the first two showed just the sac and then just the heartbeat – it was REALLY early)
There’s next to no aftercare either. You’re just kind of…expected to deal with it on your own. There are charities that can help, sure, but I think it’s something that healthcare is severely lacking no matter what country you’re in.
How long until you say the wrong thing and start getting smacked around…. and when it happens, whose fault will that be? This would be a HUGE red flag to me… he is very quick to use violence over a comment. Sensitive as he may be he shouldnt be reacting like that
I’m justified because most relationships aren’t like this. I’ve brought this up with her and she says her sex drive is random and she just doesn’t feel like it. I’m not too sure what I should do or how to improve this.
Actually there are a lot of relationships like this. So much so that there are many active reddit subs about it. Please check out these following subs:
r/hlcommunity
r/lowlibedocommunity
r/deadbedrooms
The last one is very depression though.
Why is she dating someone when she doesn't like how they present themselves? It's a month in and she is already criticising how you express yourself and wants you to wear things you are not comfortable in, possibly even spend a huge amount of money on this, just so she what? Doesn't feel embarassed in public with you? I would not take this well at all and i would most likely leave, because it sounds like she doesn't like you the way you are.
Sorry girly, no sex unless it is safe sex is what you say. Yes, OP, she may be trying to baby trap you. Pulling out does not work (pre-ejaculate can have sperm), her tracking it is BS, as the body sometimes screws up, releases an egg early (or late, or extra eggs). Hold out on no sex until she agrees. This is no joke! Now you only have to worry for the next several weeks in case she got pregnant. Do not let her control the condoms at any point (right now she seems untrustworthy), she could put a hole in or store in heat (weakens the rubber). Control this, OP. You are being smart now. Do not EVER raw dog anymore, unless you want a crying infant. If she truly wants to discuss, go see your (or her) gp, and talk to them about this with you both present.. No doc I know thinks the rhythm method works. High failure rate. 8f she still fights it, may be time to end it, or accept no sex, your choice
Does he have a porn addiction?
You are asking the wrong question. You should be asking “Why am I delaying breaking up with this man and moving out for my safety? Who can I stay with instead? How quickly can I pack my gear? What wonderful opportunities will I have in the future once I disentangle my life from this abusive and dangerous person? Where can I learn about building better boundaries and self esteem? Where do I file for divorce? What can I do to make sure I never find myself accepting such a dangerous situation/ person again? What is the phone number of a local domestic violence support service I can talk to to get advice and support?
Always trust a mother's intuition. If you have a gut feeling that something is off – it probably is.
Or maybe it’s creepy to normalize pretending an actress is underage in order for you to get off?
I wouldnt say fucking idiot, but yes, i think you should be careful.
THAT makes sense then!
And it plays in OPs team. Good for her.
Not bad.
But the midwife should tell her/ have told her, WHO called her, what was the intent of the call.
And get name and phone if the officer in charge there.
Point is: he crashed after a call. He might as well have been unattentive and really have had an accident.
Why is your wife not considered your best friend? You married her, you made children with her, dude, why are you not getting a babysitter and taking your wife to the museum for lunch?
Tell him it’s unattractive and you want him to advocate for his freedom or move out
Why would you want to be with someone who keeps trying to basically “catch you” being racist and makes everything about race? Making a historically accurate movie shouldn't have added token POC characters. Just like a movie about the building of the Great Wall of China shouldn't have a token white character.
You have to tell him.
I am very sorry all of this happened.
I am going to be very blunt: if you go back to him, you will end up dead. When isn't certain, but unless he gets help, it's pretty clear that's where this is going. Do not stay with him. Please.
Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Regardless, of her mental health and you caring about her – its not your job to put up with abuse or be the wall between her harming her and self destruction.
Save yourself.
I don't say this lightheartedly, but i suggest you break up with her and find yourself A girl, who actually cares about you.