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Date: October 8, 2022
i never cum from head and can honestly say i’ve never felt the need to worry. once she’s satisfied, i jump on, hold tight and let the rest unfold ?
Instead of lying to her further be 100% upfront and honest about what you want with the child. Which it seems you have. Do not give ANY false hope for a relationship to come from this, and I would be clear to her that you aren’t interested in co-parenting or having a relationship with the child. If you choose this path, DO NOT change your mind later. You will have to decide if you want to be present in the child’s life or not, there’s no back and forth. If she is really pregnant, do not sign anything, do not sign a birth certificate or acknowledge paternity until a paternity test is done. I would just let her be and if she files for child support they will not enforce payments unless there’s a paternity test stating you are the father. Until then, you’d be “presumed a possible” father of the child.
Leave her alone. Continuing to attempt to convince her to make a decision about her own body is not your choice. She knows how you feel, leave it at that.
You’re not a jerk, this happens often. Just make your stance clear NOW and don’t be a genuine deadbeat that beats around the bush and then later decides a kid isn’t convenient. Financial support will be mandatory if the child is yours. I wouldn’t send a dime though without a paternity test – nor are you expected to.
People on reddit never respect family ties and their solution to pretty much every problem is “kick them out” without a second thought. I agree that she should 100% send her back to her home if this happens again, but she is OP's MIL and it would be better to investigate and see what the source of the issue is first. It could be a medical/mental illness, a reaction to something traumatic, or — like you said — this could just be her true nature.
They mentioned the character that OP's GF is cosplaying….. it's literally a very tan asian woman.
It can't be blackface, because the character isn't black lol.
Everyone is different in my family comments like that are super common we would have all laughed our asses off! Just give your dad time maybe have a father son bonding day?
Glad you’re in therapy and yes do bring it up. Therapy can feel slow at times, but it can and often does help. Hang in there.
You might feel guilty about it, but when you tell him “i was just young and dumb”, that is dismissive. So it doesn't sound like you're feeling guilty about it even if you are! That's why you need to express those feelings so he knows how you really feel about it, otherwise he'll just fill in the blanks himself, and that never goes well.
Why are you following her around and not settled? Do you have a job? Sounds like you two are in two totally different mindsets. If you want to be near your family and have a big family of your own, this person doesn’t sound compatible
Lol they weren’t together. She didn’t cheat on him. He’s just obsessed with her.
This really sounds like it sucks. Hang in there! Maybe you could redirect your energy into exploring new places & things you both could enjoy in the future. And continue to constructively build a life for you. Would she want you to “wait” for her?
Speaking from experience, it hurts when there’s a fork in the road and you each go down separate paths. What you had together sounds like it was strong; you’ll both be able to adjust and hopefully pick up a similar path down the road.
if things don’t work out, you still have the new things. I’m really sorry you’re both experiencing this and struggling here. Take care.
Yea she should lol
you’re very right. i know it’s a “me” issue and has more to do with my situation than his.
i have expressed it to him just because i think it’s important to share feelings both positive and negative. i’ve never told him he has to choose or that he shouldn’t see them and actually i encouraged him to tell me more about them and what they do together because it makes me feel slightly better. i’ve tried to be as un-toxic as i can about it but i know even saying it at all is toxic. i’m aware of that and i feel very bad about it.
It's possible. I'm 25 and was with my dad at a restaurant and they offered a kids menu, which I'm pretty sure if for kids 13 and under.
OP, anyone who you think has the potential to drug you should not be your boyfriend
If you live together, make plans to move, asap.
If you don't live! together, then block this person on everything, post that you've broken up and you need some space. Go out with your friends. Take time for yourself. Start working out more.
After awhile it will even out. It will never be the same, but you don't want it to be.
Look up Salvador Minuchin and boundaries. People misunderstand them these days as just limits. They aren't. This is textbook porous/enmeshed boundaries she is expecting you to have with her.
Dudes 29 and cant get a job? He’s an entitled freeloader who doesn’t give a shit about how much work you put in to make his life easy.
If its an issue tell him to get his own place and pay his own bills and but his own damn groceries.
It makes you a smart person, because she could do it again. Hope she learned a lesson.
Very true, sometimes people will discover new things about themselves, but he can’t just say “oh I’m poly now” and not expect all the consequences of that. He can’t expect you to just be okay with that, and it requires a way more serious conversation about whether or not this would actually work between you guys. The way he’s acting, I don’t quite buy it.