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She still has feelings and she's being petty and immature because, since she left, your life hasn't fallen apart, you are happy and confident, your life is probably better off without her in it, and you weren't shook by the dumb shit she was saying. Leave her blocked, don't talk to her again, and move forward with your life, king.
Communicate,. Its what relationships require especially if its a LDR. He should be offended if he didn't answer. And if he wont answer that is your answer.
You reciprocating his physically abusive nature tells me that you have a lot of unresolved trauma. He definitely does too.
Recognize that healthy relationships can have little bits of play fighting but shoving is too aggressive. You’re supposed to be a team.
Not saying you should break up, but seriously evaluate the state of your relationship. Become a little more introspective to how you react to anger and stress. This is a rough road you’re going down.
What’s her end goal? Let’s say she agrees with you and stops hanging out around him. Is this going to be one of those situations where she will potentially not be able to see her friends at all because they usually all hang out together? If that’s the case then she’s in a nude spot cause she has to choose between respecting you and losing all of her friends potentially. I believe she is trying to find the middle ground and apparently she came up with this. She keeps her friends and you are there so the guy might not bring up awkward conversation around you
Lmao. Your husband is a total twat. And married couples who do swinger parties are lying to each other and just want an open relationship.
I am not asking him to stop loving the cat. I personnally adore her. But something feels wrong when I think that he doesn't know how to show affection but then I notice that he actually does just not towards me…
My guy, secure that NOW before I come in and do it for you!!!
All jokes aside, who cares what you perceive yourself to be right now? That’s a later problem. This is one of those things that you will regret in 20 years if you don’t just go for it. Clearly she thinks a lot more highly of you than you do yourself. Don’t waste such a fantastic opportunity to find love. The worst thing that will happen is that you will learn from it. You’re not going to die.
As far as your outlook on yourself, I highly suggest trying new things. Often times when people feel they are boring, average or a loser it’s because they feel they have no interests & they don’t take proper care of themselves. First things first, make sure you’re eating right & getting enough exercise. These 2 things are incredibly important for self esteem & general health. Second, put some more effort into yourself. Maybe it’s starting a skin care routine, maybe it’s a new cologne, maybe it’s a new t shirt or even a haircut. Now you’re feeling good & you’re looking good – what are your interests? The only way to discover your interests is to try new things. Start dating this girl. Go out to restaurants & try new food, maybe even take a cooking class with her. Go to a concert, maybe you’ll fall in love with music. Go hiking, go skiing, go to a museum, go to a sporting event. Chances are you’ll find something you love. That’s how I found my passions & now I’m trying to figure out which ones I need to drop because I can’t focus on them all. It’s a good problem to have. Trust me, trying new things will open up a whole new world to you.
How can people be soo evil
First of all if you know you are depressed try getting help, I know is not easy I deal with depression every day. On the other hand, you HAVE to shower every day morning and night because it is a deal breaker, maybe don’t don’t notice the smell but it is there. Good luck to you.
To me at least it kind of came out of nowhere. She has mentioned that she likes me to text at least a little bit during the work day just so she knows I’m thinking of her and what not. I tried to do that earlier in the day but the particular block of time that caused the breakup I was really busy due to running the unit event. We had a distance (1 hour) relationship but I made time to see her every week and we had plans to hang out this upcoming Monday/Tuesday
Thanks for the advice I will surely look in to it
Nothing wrong with not wanting kids.
But vasectomies aren’t as reversible as people on Reddit make it seem.
You’re free to do whatever you want.
My point was you may change your mind, which there is also nothing wrong with, but again with vasectomies you may not have the option to reverse it and it is very expensive to try.
Yeah but we don't know how many times he's blown her off like that. Could be that she's been asking for years and there's always an excuse. At some point she'll get sick of waiting and travel without him.
Do you have a great relationship with him? I mean, genuinely? If so, then I’d literally just tell them, look, I like being bitten during sex. I know that’s not what everyone likes, but it’s my thing. I’m sorry you got the wrong impression, but it’s my thing.. I think if you take that responsibility on yourself and be like, I’ve always done this because I enjoy it.. then they’re just gonna think you’re weird (which you’re not of course) and kinky, and kind of take the focus off him. Just an idea.
Has he tried allergy meds? I mean i have a friend who has a cat…she is allergic but she just takes a pill and keeps it pushing. In my mind the problem is solved with a little pill. At the hospital i work at we have dogs come around every single day. They come to the units to say hi to the patients it makes them feel better, so i understand the cat. Same idea is a dog. I would try allergy medicine first and only giving up your cat as a last resort.
Agreed.
For context, both of us will continue working, we won't have kids, and the move would be to a city that's new to both of us.
Then don’t. Done and done!
At this point I’ve ruled out pretty much everything except for unrealized stress, a brain tumor, or some sort of mental illness. I don’t think his blood work would show any of those. So I’ve shifted my focus towards getting him an MRI, and then I’ll go from there depending on the results. But that is a useful piece of knowledge to have, thank you.
Dump him. He’s withholding sex to manipulate you.
You may not see it now (I know it sucks being cheated on) but this is one of those times in your life you have been given a massive opportunity to dodge a nuclear-sized bullet. Call it the universe, call it God, or whatever you believe in intervening on your behalf. Imagine you found this information out years down the road, possibly after getting married/having children.
You are 25. You have your whole life ahead of you. The chances you will meet someone who would never think to lie/cheat or put themselves in a position to cheat on you is greater than not.
My advice would be to move on.
If someone talks to you and treats you this way, you'd be gone right? Because you aren't owned by him. Right?
I just remind him at times when he does want me to do something or invites me that it’s perfectly ok to do things on his own with them too. This situation would be me meeting his friend’s fiancée, but other than that a big group of buddies going to a football game. With the current atmosphere it would probably be best I think if I don’t go. It’s just tricky because I totally understand the situation and how important it is to have friend time, but also it feels kind of bad being the one to decline simply because I don’t think his buddies would want me there, ya know?
I don’t know exactly, but I’d guess just the standard stuff like guns and tax cuts.
Life has already kicked my ass plenty.. so thanks? ??♀️
” because I dont want to make him feel bad by crying.” WTAF?! You don't want to make HIM feel bad? He thought nothing about your feelings when he opened his mouth about something you can't change (or should change).
Sounds like you really need to consider if this guy is worth the anxiety and insecurity. (spoiler alert – he's not) What a completely useless piece of meat he is.
Look, it's a shitty situation to be in, but at the end of the day, if you care about this girl at all (non-romantically, just care as in wanting her to be happy) you know she deserves to be with someone who feels the same way about her as she does about them.
If that can't be you, let her go.
It’s incredibley normal in conservative countries where people stay at home until they are married and you can’t openly be screwing your partner. Hotels even rent by the hour or 4 hr blocks in such countries
So you don’t think he will cheat? Even if he approaches girls and his past…
There aren’t many legal agreements that would cover this. Things like surrogacy need to be done through agencies and not through natural sex at home. You can’t slap a homemade contract on things like this in most contexts/states.
Already booked her in for an std test. Appreciate the advice! I’m unsure whether to tell her upfront as you suggest, or use it as a test as the other comment suggests
Why not try first just writing out your message without sending and letting that sit for a bit. Sometimes, you’ll find that the act of coalescing your thoughts and emotions into words is sufficient to bring you closure. Many messages are better left unsaid. I’d also submit that should you chose to send a message, having the last word by “asking that he doesn’t respond” isn’t really a fair expectation.
For all of this she’s an incredibly unique person with an awesome lifestyle and I’m getting a better sense of identity because of it.
Sounds like it’s something you want to explore as a couple.
Her going by her self makes you uncomfortable.
You need to tell her this, and tell her why.
Now it’s not a term/place we have where I on-line, but a google search is telling me that if she goes by herself, and you don’t already have an open relationship, then she’s cheating on you. – google could be wrong (wouldn’t be the first time) but a person in a relationship should not be going to what is described as an orgy without their partner if the relationship isn’t open.
I don't get how she doesn't notice the smell herself.. I was thinking maybe it's bacterial vaginosis, but that smell is so strong that she can't possibly miss it unless she's got a major cold or something ?
Sorry you had to go through this, if you love the girl, it won't be seeing another man touch her and kiss even if it was to try it out or to fulfill some fantasy. Don't put too much thought into it now, you wanted it, you tried it, didn't work for you. Never again, continue enjoying what you love to do with her.
You did make a mistake with the new person. I don't know if leaving the old situation was a mistake because if you were really invested it wouldn't have happened. He would definitely be making a mistake taking you back now, though.
I'm not going to slam you if you met someone, realized you were falling, and broke up before pursuing this other person. Feelings happen, and the responsible thing is to break up rather than stay in your relationship and cheat physically or emotionally.
But…your partner can't trust you won't do that again. And if there's no trust, then the relationship is doomed. At your age, if after four years you're not sure enough to not let someone you just met turn your head, you're not in it for the long haul, and he now knows that. Don't use his residual feelings for you to reel him back into a situation with someone who realistically is just going to hurt him. If you actually care about his wellbeing, and not just him as an object to give you comfort, then phase out of his life quickly so he can move on.
Thanks for the answer. My major concerns are not sharing key moral values and if that shows his true character, since I have met him for a short time.
It’s such a specific inside joke that it’s nude to evaluate whether your grandfather is intentionally trying to make sexual comments or if he’s just being weird and awkward. The thing is, it doesn’t matter if he intentionally is sexualizing you and your one year old — he’s making you feel uncomfortable and that’s the important thing.
Trust your gut and don’t let your daughter be alone with him. Avoid being alone with him yourself. Give yourself permission to tell him to stop making those comments. “Gross, Gramps. Never talk about my tongue again.” “Grampy, you’re making me uncomfortable so I’m going to leave now.” You are a 22 year old adult. You don’t need your dad’s permission to protect yourself and your daughter.
You have two options: either get over it or break up. You said you can't get over it. You also returned the ring. So what exactly is your question here?
Are you just posting this so people will validate you? I'm sure you'll find it because there are a lot of people on Reddit who unironically use the phrase “body count.”
Your (ex) girlfriend deserves someone who respects her for who she is as a person. Clearly that person isn't you.
You are completely in the right here. Don't get mixed up with her. You're better without her.
Dump him now. Better now than with more hurt and a trauma bond later on.
What is it like to be a side chick for 7 years and not be able to realize it??
Like I said if you don't trust her break up with her. Nothing about blind faith just a fact. She went out, she didn't check in in a timely fashion, her story changed, and you think she cheated because of those things. Do what you have to do but call it like it is
He's far too old for you, you're basically a teenager and he's old enough to be your dad.
You gave him a boundary and he crossed it after reassuring you he wouldn't. So no, it isn't normal. Why do you need to talk? You told him once and he didn't listen despite agreeing to respect your boundary. Just leave. Make sure he's deleted all traces of your pics before you do though.
Wait you edited and filtered your nudes? Well can you blame him? I’m also not sure if he was trying to body shame you. I think he was just pointing out the fact he could tell they were recycled nudes bc your body doesn’t currently look that way. That’s a valid observation. He never said he didn’t love your body now. Nobody wants old nudes. That’s just odd.
I think first off, stop sending him nudes. He prefers to see you nude in-person. Isn’t that actually kind of a compliment?
Secondly, I would work on y’all’s communication. I’m surprised this went on for so long without either of you realizing this. He shouldn’t be afraid to speak up. But also you could have asked. Both of y’all failed at communicating here.
To be honest I wouldn’t want someone at my wedding who treated my friend so disgustingly. It’s not forgivable what he did and your friend has every right to hold a grudge
Your husband sounds racist. If I heard him speaking like that I would honestly tell him that he sounds like a racist man. I would be upset if he went on vacation and only spewed ignorant nonsense and complained about the hotel being 4 stars.
Give her a chance to enjoy her 20s. She just doesn't want to skip a decade of her life and suddenly on-line the life of a 30 year old.
Divorce the husband, block the people who are against you. Coparent with the ons and see what happens with him. You have wanted a baby for so long you need to think long and nude about what YOU want. It’s your life and your baby.
You are too young for this bullshit. Dump him
Either he just didn't have another pic that he liked or he's doing it to grieve. He's your ex, what he does is none of your concern. Remove him and move on with your life.
There are two available paths to you here:
Go to him with the evidence you have now. Show it to him and say “I need you to explain this. This is your one and only chance to tell me the whole truth, and if I think you've lied to me, my next stop is at the divorce lawyer's office.” This is the path to take if you fundamentally trust your husband, and your gut is telling you this may be some kind of misunderstanding, or he is being victimized in some way. This is a high risk path because it gives him the opportunity to tell you a convincing story and then start to cover his tracks. For the record, this is not the path I would take.
Go to a reputable divorce lawyer first and discuss how to protect yourself financially if you do end up splitting with him. Get a recommendation for an investigator from the divorce lawyer. Take whatever financial steps the lawyer recommends, while the investigation is happening. Once you have all the facts, then make your decision. This is the path to take if your gut is telling you that he is cheating. This is definitely the most difficult path because it requires you to hide what you know and put on an act. But this is a lower risk path for your future. If I were in your position this is what I would do.
Man this woman has no respect whatsoever for you. She's just using you for something or other. You are wasting the best years of your life chasing the impossible. You seriously need to cut her out of your life for good. Like where do you see this situation in five or ten years if you keep on with your project to fix her? While she's off taking drugs and having sex with other men?
He went there with one of his woman friend with benefits
I don’t like being slapped on the butt, it makes me irrationally angry, sometimes my husband does it without thinking and it take all my strength not to turn around and deck him.
I have some sensory issues and that just triggers all of them. If my husband constantly pushed my limits like that even though I told him right then and there to stop I don’t know how I’d handle it but I don’t see my reaction bringing out the best version of myself. It really does feel like a flight or fight situation to me.
If your boyfriend asked you to stop, then told you to stop and you ignored his needs and keep pushing what did you want him to do? What would it have taken for you to listen to his words and not just do whatever the hell you wanted to do?
I don’t think you should go around wanting to throw punches but if he doesn’t normally react in a violent or angry way then maybe stop pushing the button that sets him off.
If he still gets agitated like that in situations where you aren’t stomping all over his boundaries exit the relationship.
Um, no. If she hasn't moved in yet, cancel that plan immediately. If she has, give her 30 days to get out and do not give her money.
IMO, it’s still too new to think of this as a rejection. It could have been but maybe he just doesn’t know how you guys will connect romantically yet and is more comfortable hanging with others right now.
God I hope she dumps you
If they had dropped the not really part I wouldn’t be agreeing with you. Saying not really shows there is a part of them that still is and that is alarming for a future relationship.
Sounds like a habitual cheater thing to do.
Have an Instagram that you share with friends and family.
Another to give out to other people that appears 'single'.
Shouldn't be too hot to verify some things, yeah.
I'm nearly certain he isn't cheating . He works from home and we have access to each other's phones, etc. I never look at his but he simply doesn't have time to cheat. He doesn't have many friends and never goes anywhere without me.
Trust and freedom for me are that I can give my partner my passwords for the sake of convenience and know that he will never go through my private messages and post history. Trust is that I can give him access and he will never use it to break my privacy (–> break my trust).
Trust is not going through your partner's phone regularly. That is control.
She got tired of that old man dick lol
You really shouldn't “ask her to marry” you soon. While six years is long enough to know someone well enough to marry them, 23 isn't long enough on Earth to know yourself well enough to know what you want forever. Breakups are never easy and if someone has emotional problems that makes it even harder. But the longer you wait the harder it'll be.
She cheated on you for a free shot. If you continue with this farce of a relationship you deserve what you get.
She cheated on you for a free shot. If you continue with this farce of a relationship you deserve what you get.
Would only be ok if it was clothes pics taken by the friend and the nudes self taken.
you should just voice to your boyfriend how it makes you uncomfortable, and your boyfriend should be willing to end his friendship with her solely because it makes you uncomfortable.
It's like he still wants to hold power over you
You are wasting his and your time every day you remain together is a day he could’ve been recovering or working on himself or looking for a new relationship, you knew from the start so that is 5 years of wasting his life he will never get that time back and for nothing you are using him to avoid the truth, and are giving him false hope talking about marriage! This is one of the worst posts I have read I feel so sorry for him. You don’t love him you don’t even like him poor guy!
Yeah if she goes on this trip she’s not coming back sorry but sounds like she’s already checked out of this marriage
she was with new ap and ex was jealous of her
he informed you
you got her back
you're fine, be happy with your wife
you have to let others be happy with her too
you must be family for your child
Some ppl do better living apart. Some time away can get u to miss n appreciate each other more. I dont know yall to know if itll work for u. For my love n I, living seperate works better. He appreciates me more when im not in his face all the time.
These are just things. You and your daughter are away from this dreadful person and his dreadful family. That’s better than stuff. Stuff can’t give you true autonomy and freedom.
I know this isn’t good enough. I know you’ve been wronged. This isn’t fair. But there’s a chance to get away from this toxic gravity well. Take it!
Him: “Hey, you have seen my message and not replied yet.” You: “Well, if that doesn't tell you enough or you cannot read between the lines, then whatever you want from this will not work.”
It's not polite and might be out if your comfort zone, but it should do the trick
Him: “Hey, you have seen my message and not replied yet.” You: “Well, if that doesn't tell you enough or you cannot read between the lines, then whatever you want from this will not work.”
It's not polite and might be out if your comfort zone, but it should do the trick
It means no. She doesn't want to commit. She wants to use you as a time/attention/filler relationship until she meets someone worthy of dating. Personally, I would tell you to have more self worth. Find someone that wants you as a primary option, not a back up plan.
Funny. My parents never left us home alone. They didn't trust us lol.
First of all, it can take a woman’s body some time to recover from a miscarriage so a couple of months is nothing. Please also note that the miscarriage could have been from something wrong with his sperm as much as anything else and it certainly wasn’t something you had control over.
More important here is your husband’s AH right now. Honestly – what a pos! I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with such an ignorant, petulant, immature, AH. Let him sulk – that won’t get you pregnant though.
If his parents punished him or otherwise reacted negatively to it when he was a child then sure. When a kid learns to hide issues from a parent the parent often sees it as a behavioral issue resolving
My opinion is that it's better to wait at least a year before moving in together under normal circumstances because in the early part of a relationship (sometimes called the “honeymoon stage”), the people only see the good things in the other person and not the bad and since undoing living together is usually a little challenging, it's better to wait until you have a realistic view of each other.
In special circumstances though, like you have with her parents wanting her out by June, I think it might be worth taking the risk if you really feel that you can handle it and resolve disagreements (because there will be some). It is a bit risky, but given the circumstances where you're kind of forced to do something, it might be worth the risk.