Typically we always watch shows she wants to watch, probably 95% of the time. They aren't always shows i like, but I like spending time with her and having her be happy.
She's allowed to say No and you're allowed to say No to things. If she never engages you in your interests then have a conversation about that, but if she's not into a show, she doesn't have to watch it.
Females have to worry about pregnancy more than men. ?♀️ “potential consequences” nobody is ever ready for lol even the ones that are…y’all ain’t compatible anyways though.
I agree with the comments that she’s terribly wrong for accusing you of that but I hope her thought process isn’t like that due to her herself maybe being a victim of child molestation. I feel that there’s always a reason to such radical thoughts as that and usually they come from personal experience that wasn’t healed properly.
Honestly, I’m not always 100% happy…but the last two years have been tough. Our oldest son has battled addiction (1 year sober and doing amazing, but being a sober 22 year old college student presents it’s own challenges). I have thought many times that if he left me I would be ok, and that is what freaks me out…is it normal to feel that way?
I don’t think OP is making it up; I think her mom is probably sending fake collection agency letters to her to scare her. OP needs to just look at her credit report to see that this is all nonsense.
Agreed. OP is enabling him. He needs consequences for his actions so that he can learn and grow from his mistakes. He might not end up with OP but at least he will be independent.
If he had a marriage license, child with his name on a birth certificate, etc, there would be legal documentation and it would be findable. I’ve found nothing lmao
Get over it he didn't really do anything wrong.
Also you went to the trouble to look the stripper up and talk to her woman to woman.
You have a lot of control issues and fixation going on.
If you hate him so you didn't call the wedding off.
Girl's gonna get dumped and restraining-ordered in the same week. What a way to greet the new year…
Typically we always watch shows she wants to watch, probably 95% of the time. They aren't always shows i like, but I like spending time with her and having her be happy.
She's allowed to say No and you're allowed to say No to things. If she never engages you in your interests then have a conversation about that, but if she's not into a show, she doesn't have to watch it.
Females have to worry about pregnancy more than men. ?♀️ “potential consequences” nobody is ever ready for lol even the ones that are…y’all ain’t compatible anyways though.
I agree with the comments that she’s terribly wrong for accusing you of that but I hope her thought process isn’t like that due to her herself maybe being a victim of child molestation. I feel that there’s always a reason to such radical thoughts as that and usually they come from personal experience that wasn’t healed properly.
Honestly, I’m not always 100% happy…but the last two years have been tough. Our oldest son has battled addiction (1 year sober and doing amazing, but being a sober 22 year old college student presents it’s own challenges). I have thought many times that if he left me I would be ok, and that is what freaks me out…is it normal to feel that way?
I don’t think OP is making it up; I think her mom is probably sending fake collection agency letters to her to scare her. OP needs to just look at her credit report to see that this is all nonsense.
Agreed. OP is enabling him. He needs consequences for his actions so that he can learn and grow from his mistakes. He might not end up with OP but at least he will be independent.
If he had a marriage license, child with his name on a birth certificate, etc, there would be legal documentation and it would be findable. I’ve found nothing lmao
You should indeed divorce him.
The money he is willing to spend on time with you should much, much more than he is willing to spend with his friend. What a waste of your time he is.
You never need a reason to leave a relationship but this is a pretty darn good one. Zero respect, no effort, you deserve way better
Wow, WTF?
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