Of course there’s an expectation of openness, and it develops over time and severity. 4 months seems very reasonable to disclose something like transitional history.
STDs come before sex because of their very immediate and life altering impact on someone else.
I’m not advocating for secrets, I’m advocating for privacy and boundaries.
Just break up. He believes that because he's spending money on you means he can control you. The relationship isn't between equals and one of the reasons is he is double your age (where he could be your father).
He kept it from you because he knew you would overreact AND that it would hurt you. You pushed for info and guess what? You got hurt and are overreacting. Everyone has a past. If you want to be upset about your partners past the relationship is never going to work- it’s unfair to both of you. If you need a virgin go find one. If you need this guy, LEAVE HIS PAST ALONE, and for god’s sakes STOP ASKING QUESTIONS YOU DONT WANT THE ANSWERS TO!!! This guy sounds normal and nice, you being a ‘late bloomer’ has nothing to do with it, it’s your own insecurities that are the problem. Instead of worry about his past you should be working on YOU!
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ok then different story, it just had some similarities to that story, so had to ask.
Of course there’s an expectation of openness, and it develops over time and severity. 4 months seems very reasonable to disclose something like transitional history.
STDs come before sex because of their very immediate and life altering impact on someone else.
I’m not advocating for secrets, I’m advocating for privacy and boundaries.
Just break up. He believes that because he's spending money on you means he can control you. The relationship isn't between equals and one of the reasons is he is double your age (where he could be your father).
Or he might be counting down the days until the big night away!
He kept it from you because he knew you would overreact AND that it would hurt you. You pushed for info and guess what? You got hurt and are overreacting. Everyone has a past. If you want to be upset about your partners past the relationship is never going to work- it’s unfair to both of you. If you need a virgin go find one. If you need this guy, LEAVE HIS PAST ALONE, and for god’s sakes STOP ASKING QUESTIONS YOU DONT WANT THE ANSWERS TO!!! This guy sounds normal and nice, you being a ‘late bloomer’ has nothing to do with it, it’s your own insecurities that are the problem. Instead of worry about his past you should be working on YOU!
Dude the sky is blue and your wife looks like a teenager. Are you going to change either one? Then being upset by either is just a waste of time.
The sky is blue, your wife looks like jailbait; the sooner you learn to accept that and everything that comes with it, the better.
Good luck.
A possible sexual assault.
One of the times I woke up and was bleeding down there and thought I got my period but it was just spotting and went away.