You can reheat pretty much anything. When I was single I used to buy the “family size” versions of most frozen things, because it meant I only had to cook one thing and I had dinner and lunch for the next few days. I also bought bulk trash bags, paper towels, and laundry detergent because it meant I only had to shop for that kind of stuff once or twice a year. There isn't anything suspicious about the guy having a big lasagna.
yea he should have asked how you were feeling, comforted you etc. Especially if you've made it known it affected you and brought it up. Makes it seem like he doesn't care abt you.
I'm just saying that its weird to be bothered about someone not caring about material details like what the police said, insurance, etc.
So this is your issue. You let her walk all over you like you should feel lucky she uses you instead of the ground. You have to have a backbone.
You are spilling everything you have to say over her like you want to give it all to her and have nothing back. And since she doesn't love you, it makes her feel uncomfortable that you just give everything to her because you make her feel responsible for your own wellbeing
Sometimes I see the light, of marriage and whatnot. Other times it is extremely naked to imagine marrying this person. It goes based off how our overall relationship is doing. If we can’t communicate well and we go kind of cold it’s really hot. But when everything feels right it feels right and I have that vision again. But overall despite good or bad I do want to marry this person.
There’s a lot to the situation. Go at your own pace! If she can’t be patient that’s a red flag too. Take care of yourself.
What can you do? It's mostly out of your control. 1. Try talking her down. She's just going to embarrass herself so you'd be doing her a favour. Make it about her, not Larry. 2. Text Larry and his fiance. 3. If you think she will get aggressive or make a scene, you could call the venue to see what can be done there. Maybe you'll be in a back room and they can check an invitation list or something. Good luck!
I was thinking the same thing if my boyfriends mom just met me and she starts tearing up about how I make her son happy I would be running for the hills. Maybe I’m sensitive but I would see that as a red flag and wouldn’t want to deal with my boyfriends mom. That doesn’t strike me as normal.
I try to limit my mom and boyfriends interaction time since she always finds something to complain about with him. I think of it as she doesn’t need to have a relationship with him when she belittles him behind his back and make it into a big thing to have a conversation with him. She even makes it noticeable at times and I can tell it makes him uncomfortable
Nope my brother has a normal life for a 28 year old. He had his ex girlfriend but that ended two years ago.
He is falling in love with her. Good that you contacted her. Start looking up lawyer and prepare your finances. He may be planning an affair and eventually leaving you. Think of you..you..you.
She doesn’t feel comfortable around them because she’s only met them 2-3 times and that she felt they only talked to her because they didn’t want to be rude at my engagement party.
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The reality of the situation is that most relationships don’t survive college. Sometimes they do, but (in my experience) they regularly don’t. If your boyfriend is talking about his desire for a “college experience” then one way or another things will likely end. Although it might not seem like it now, you might also decide that you want to play the field a bit. At the end of the day, both of you are very young. It’s likely that you’ll grow and change over the next three years or so. You’ll meet loads of new, interesting people so I really wouldn’t invest myself in a relation where one party is wavering in their commitment.
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That happens a couple of different ways. Based on the language you use about trying to get her to 'understand' that what you're saying is right and how to confront her to understand, it is likely that she is acquiescing to get you to stop because you are fully unwilling to have any sort of equal exchange with her. You can berate her until she gives in but you have not changed her mind, you have simply bullied her. You can keep doing it and keep having this problem and the problem will eventually go away because at some point she will no longer tolerate the disrespect.
By the way, I don't think there is anything wrong with you objecting to her decision to tell your friend's girlfriend that your friend is a bad influence on you. She is fully entitled to do that and you need to realize she she is entitled to have thoughts and opinions and she is entitled to decide to say what she wants to say to anyone she wants to say it to. However, we all edit ourselves every moment of every day and there are things that are better left unsaid.
So the root of this particularly conflict is drugs. Why does your girlfriend believe that this friend is someone that promotes your drug use?
I'm over the emotional cheating aspect of this and have moved on from that. I've done things wrong in the past to him too, and we worked through it. As for Jill I'm taking a naked look at our friendship now
No one is traumatizing anyone on purpose. It's a perfect storm of bad situations combined with some poor decisions. I've owned all my mistakes. I just feel like he won't own his, and that's why we can't move on. He keeps saying he wants to fix our relationship but doesn't know how to forgive me. I've already forgiven him, but I'm still gun shy moving forward in my “attitude” because of his “I don't know, just wait” attitude. It was WAIT to move out. It was WAIT to get married. It was WAIT to start trying normal things like vacations or outings with the kids. It was WAIT for me to feel comfortable with EVERYTHING, but he just never does… so I'm being asked to wait indefinitely. There's no end in sight for a normal relationship. Just an ongoing plea of “wait” from him. He wants me to treat him like everything is okay when he still hasn't forgiven me. And we will never have a wedding. And I'm supposed to remain monogamous while he continues developing his successful relationship with his girlfriend. It's naked to watch them become more and more emotionally intimate while he pulls away from me. And when I've asked to be told less about her and their relationship, he gets upset that I'm forcing him to hide part of his life from me… I just don't feel like ANYTHING I've asked for has happened
Same situation when I was younger. Distance relationships are brutal, and the ex basically did the same thing yours is doing now when she ultimately dumped me.
You're young, and you'll find the right one later, even if it feels like the world is ending right now.
Same situation when I was younger. Distance relationships are brutal, and the ex basically did the same thing yours is doing now when she ultimately dumped me.
You're young, and you'll find the right one later, even if it feels like the world is ending right now.
Its just that – being the whole day without saying hi, lowkey hurts me, because to me, first thing I do when I wake up is send him a sweet message…. I don't think I'm asking for something too much.
Just some clarifications! He definitely saw it as a relationship as he would call it that and we were exclusive/ said we loved each other. I told him I’d send a letter to his mother which he knew and accepted so nothing was done behind back. He very well knew I’d react this way as he hid it and knew I’d be heartbroken when confessed-as well as telling his own parents what he did. I don’t think it’s quite fatal attractions as I was very much manipulated/gaslighted throughout to believe it was all real.
You can reheat pretty much anything. When I was single I used to buy the “family size” versions of most frozen things, because it meant I only had to cook one thing and I had dinner and lunch for the next few days. I also bought bulk trash bags, paper towels, and laundry detergent because it meant I only had to shop for that kind of stuff once or twice a year. There isn't anything suspicious about the guy having a big lasagna.
You are a ho that sleep with a man with girlfriend
yea he should have asked how you were feeling, comforted you etc. Especially if you've made it known it affected you and brought it up. Makes it seem like he doesn't care abt you.
I'm just saying that its weird to be bothered about someone not caring about material details like what the police said, insurance, etc.
So this is your issue. You let her walk all over you like you should feel lucky she uses you instead of the ground. You have to have a backbone.
You are spilling everything you have to say over her like you want to give it all to her and have nothing back. And since she doesn't love you, it makes her feel uncomfortable that you just give everything to her because you make her feel responsible for your own wellbeing
This is the right answer!
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I never said anything about his age or whether I think their relationship is okay. I stated that at 22, she’s not a child. You’re infantilizing her
Sometimes I see the light, of marriage and whatnot. Other times it is extremely naked to imagine marrying this person. It goes based off how our overall relationship is doing. If we can’t communicate well and we go kind of cold it’s really hot. But when everything feels right it feels right and I have that vision again. But overall despite good or bad I do want to marry this person.
There’s a lot to the situation. Go at your own pace! If she can’t be patient that’s a red flag too. Take care of yourself.
I can see why he blocked her.
What can you do? It's mostly out of your control. 1. Try talking her down. She's just going to embarrass herself so you'd be doing her a favour. Make it about her, not Larry. 2. Text Larry and his fiance. 3. If you think she will get aggressive or make a scene, you could call the venue to see what can be done there. Maybe you'll be in a back room and they can check an invitation list or something. Good luck!
I was thinking the same thing if my boyfriends mom just met me and she starts tearing up about how I make her son happy I would be running for the hills. Maybe I’m sensitive but I would see that as a red flag and wouldn’t want to deal with my boyfriends mom. That doesn’t strike me as normal.
I try to limit my mom and boyfriends interaction time since she always finds something to complain about with him. I think of it as she doesn’t need to have a relationship with him when she belittles him behind his back and make it into a big thing to have a conversation with him. She even makes it noticeable at times and I can tell it makes him uncomfortable
Nope my brother has a normal life for a 28 year old. He had his ex girlfriend but that ended two years ago.
He is falling in love with her. Good that you contacted her. Start looking up lawyer and prepare your finances. He may be planning an affair and eventually leaving you. Think of you..you..you.
Updateme!
Because ur wife’s family doesn’t have pedophiles in it.
She doesn’t feel comfortable around them because she’s only met them 2-3 times and that she felt they only talked to her because they didn’t want to be rude at my engagement party.
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They’re 100% not connected I promise there is not a chance they’re conspiring together ?
Shit. I think you’re right, it’s negging. God that’s so fucked up. Thank you though that clears things up!
The reality of the situation is that most relationships don’t survive college. Sometimes they do, but (in my experience) they regularly don’t. If your boyfriend is talking about his desire for a “college experience” then one way or another things will likely end. Although it might not seem like it now, you might also decide that you want to play the field a bit. At the end of the day, both of you are very young. It’s likely that you’ll grow and change over the next three years or so. You’ll meet loads of new, interesting people so I really wouldn’t invest myself in a relation where one party is wavering in their commitment.
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That happens a couple of different ways. Based on the language you use about trying to get her to 'understand' that what you're saying is right and how to confront her to understand, it is likely that she is acquiescing to get you to stop because you are fully unwilling to have any sort of equal exchange with her. You can berate her until she gives in but you have not changed her mind, you have simply bullied her. You can keep doing it and keep having this problem and the problem will eventually go away because at some point she will no longer tolerate the disrespect.
By the way, I don't think there is anything wrong with you objecting to her decision to tell your friend's girlfriend that your friend is a bad influence on you. She is fully entitled to do that and you need to realize she she is entitled to have thoughts and opinions and she is entitled to decide to say what she wants to say to anyone she wants to say it to. However, we all edit ourselves every moment of every day and there are things that are better left unsaid.
So the root of this particularly conflict is drugs. Why does your girlfriend believe that this friend is someone that promotes your drug use?
I'm over the emotional cheating aspect of this and have moved on from that. I've done things wrong in the past to him too, and we worked through it. As for Jill I'm taking a naked look at our friendship now
She’s trouble man.
That’s a shame to have wasted 5 years on this clown. Better luck next boyfriend.
No one is traumatizing anyone on purpose. It's a perfect storm of bad situations combined with some poor decisions. I've owned all my mistakes. I just feel like he won't own his, and that's why we can't move on. He keeps saying he wants to fix our relationship but doesn't know how to forgive me. I've already forgiven him, but I'm still gun shy moving forward in my “attitude” because of his “I don't know, just wait” attitude. It was WAIT to move out. It was WAIT to get married. It was WAIT to start trying normal things like vacations or outings with the kids. It was WAIT for me to feel comfortable with EVERYTHING, but he just never does… so I'm being asked to wait indefinitely. There's no end in sight for a normal relationship. Just an ongoing plea of “wait” from him. He wants me to treat him like everything is okay when he still hasn't forgiven me. And we will never have a wedding. And I'm supposed to remain monogamous while he continues developing his successful relationship with his girlfriend. It's naked to watch them become more and more emotionally intimate while he pulls away from me. And when I've asked to be told less about her and their relationship, he gets upset that I'm forcing him to hide part of his life from me… I just don't feel like ANYTHING I've asked for has happened
I agree. It would be absolutely disgusting for me to do the same. I find it naked to go all in on someone I care about is all.
Drop her now before you regret it later
Same situation when I was younger. Distance relationships are brutal, and the ex basically did the same thing yours is doing now when she ultimately dumped me.
You're young, and you'll find the right one later, even if it feels like the world is ending right now.
Same situation when I was younger. Distance relationships are brutal, and the ex basically did the same thing yours is doing now when she ultimately dumped me.
You're young, and you'll find the right one later, even if it feels like the world is ending right now.
Its just that – being the whole day without saying hi, lowkey hurts me, because to me, first thing I do when I wake up is send him a sweet message…. I don't think I'm asking for something too much.
And this is why you should never send nudes.
Yep I totally understand.
You might've commented that, put it wasn't in your OP. So again, by going off your post, it sounds like you're keeping tabs on him.
Just some clarifications! He definitely saw it as a relationship as he would call it that and we were exclusive/ said we loved each other. I told him I’d send a letter to his mother which he knew and accepted so nothing was done behind back. He very well knew I’d react this way as he hid it and knew I’d be heartbroken when confessed-as well as telling his own parents what he did. I don’t think it’s quite fatal attractions as I was very much manipulated/gaslighted throughout to believe it was all real.