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Date: November 8, 2022
congrats for getting out of that situation, sounds terrible
It is totally up to her but even if you get a second chance, this will be really hot to come back from because there will already be underlying resentment. And it will be a second heartbreak for her if you give her your attention for a while and then go back to neglecting her again. So you really need to think this through.
Thank you so much. It means a lot ? to me
not a troll, but ok
Hopefully after posting this, you feel at least somewhat better about the whole thing, and can more easily move on.
You and her were a big mismatch from the start. You and her had a big incompatibility from the start, yet you both ignored it because some things were good. Now you know better, now you understand that where an incompatibility exists, a relationship will fail, and next time, you won’t (I hope) make this mistake.
Let her go, mentally and emotionally. Go no contact for your own sanity, if you haven’t already. Her actions don’t matter, not anymore. Do what is right for you, to move on from this and build a happier life.
That's like getting mad at someone for jaywalking when they crossed the street to stop a robbery.
Why don't you take her with you to the gym, if she wants to go? You need to stop comparing your gf to other women- we all look different from one another, and it's normal for her to look differently than she did when she was 16 or 17. A 60-70lb weight gain is kind of a big deal, but weight gain and her unhealthy eating habits could also be stemming from mental health issues or some kind of unhappiness she feels in her life- have you taken the time to assess if her weight gain is really the only issue with your relationship? Have you checked in with her to make sure she's doing okay? Of course you could break up with her, the question isn't whether or not her body is a valid reason to leave her. The question is whether or not the relationship is valuable enough to put work into. Don't straight up tell her that her body is unattractive to you, but express your concerns for her current and future health (her family history of obesity and diabetes is a good place to start). People often grow up eating a certain way and think it's normal, as a teenager she was more active and had a faster metabolism. As a young woman she needs to evaluate whether health or potato chips feel better, and figure out a lifestyle that works for her. It's hot growing up with an unhealthy family, she's going to have to basically rewire her relationship with food and her body, and learn to eat all over again. I'm not saying give her a diet plan, she's a whole ass adult, but cooking healthy meals as a couple, spending time in the kitchen together, is a good place to start. And when you're struggling with finding her physically attractive, if you really want to stick with her, remind yourself of the things you find mentally and emotionally attractive about her. I saw someone here mention pregnancy and weight gain, and that you wouldn't handle it well. A 70lb weight gain, even while pregnant, is not healthy or normal. But what's important is that if you guys do want children, her current weight gain can effect her fertility and make conceiving more difficult, as well as raise the risk of stuff like gestational diabetes during pregnancy. You guys need to have a conversation about it, but from a health standpoint. If you honestly love this woman and want to spend a long time with her, and the feelings mutual, she needs to take care of herself so she's around for that long time.