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Date: January 16, 2023
You're the one who needs help, you're working two jobs and cooking/cleaning? What does she do all day? Depression is not an excuse for not caring about your partners well being and she definitely does not care.
They are very upset about me lying and saying that I sent it and I do feel bad for lying but I feel they are overreacting
Seriously, check yourself, it’s because you didn’t do what you said you would and you then lied about it. She should be pissed, and you’re lucky she is, what you did makes you not very trustworthy. Other people would just blow you off and stop being friends. Trust matters. If you don’t see that, then you’re the issue, not her reaction.
Did not diagnose people on the internet.
Not even clinicians diagnose someone they aren't seeing as a patient.
There are plenty of people who just prefer to eat certain ways and it's not ARFID.
Unfortunately it's a very male-dominated field (think construction work). These type of comments are apparently “common” and much worse has been said between other staff by the sound of it.
Also my partner seems to want to be friends with this guy for some reason… So I doubt she'd want to sabotage whatever relationship they have
UPDATE: I've decided to tell my sister no thanks. I'm going to talk to her later about why she and her husband don't want my husband around. My husband is a good man and he shouldn't have to put up with that.
I was fully expecting to read a post about them wanting to exclude your husband because of something they didn't like about your husband. Rather, it was your sister just wanted more time with you and less clashing of plans.
Why not simply plan a trip with your husband during one period of time and one with your sister during another period of time? There's nothing wrong with traveling without your partner from time to time, particularly when it serves the purpose of allowing you more time with a separate travel companion (in this case your sister).
I’m not, pm me for ss of our texts. I don’t use Reddit often. I’ve tried talking to her about this over texts as well and she doesn’t take it seriously.
This is the one I thought.
You still stewing over my post – 12 HOURS LATER?
Therapy. Please get yourself some help.
Some many flags in this story, everyone already posted the right solutions at the top. However you guys are not ready for this next step and is something you guys need to figure out as this is a big fork in road and a well know relationship killer
This is the sixth time (by my count) you've posted this indecipherable ramble.
Please stop.
Not petty…realistic!!
I only needed to read the title to know your husband is an AH. 1. He is dating someone significantly younger because the younger the more inexperienced and easier to manipulate. 2. Just because he is your husband does not mean he is entitled to your body! He has no right or reason to get mad that you were tired and fell asleep before he could get any! Sleep away! ??
Inconceivable
First, it sounds like you both are working on improving your compatibility, which is great. If it's taking longer than you'd like, that's unfortunate, but your guy is making an effort and not all of them do. Advice: give it time.
Second, things you can do to help include accepting where he's at (not everyone can cuddle-sleep, it's not likely to change, but maybe you can be the big spoon or have a pre-sleep cuddle, right?) Absolutely essential: learn to get yourself off. You can't guide him if you've never been there.
Third, maybe wait on moving in together. Wait to see if his anxiety and insecurity improve.
Last, when someone opens up about their fears, it's really harmful to say “don't tell me that again”. It doesn't make the fear go away; it only lets them know you don't want to hear about how they feel.
I honestly don't know if this relationship can last, given the issues you're describing, but it should be given every chance, and the effort you make with him will be good practice when you eventually find a guy you would do anything to hang on to, but feels about you the way you feel about this one.
Your wife is learning another language for you, carrying your child for you and tried to save your life by getting herself hospitalized. Someone did all of that for you and your thoughts are that you're embarrassed to show her off to anyone, you've lost your attraction to her & you want to sleep around.
She deserves better. Your child deserves better. You are selfish and your priorities in life are messed up.
The fact that he loves his family more is not the issue here. I mean… I am in a 8+ years relationship and I do love my mother and brother more than my partner. They are there for him his whole life, you cannot expect to love you more than them after 1 year.
Although the previous was not an issue for me, the “If I were gay, I would be with him” is a worrying statement. Do they have this kind of feelings for each other and they do not act on them because their sexualities are not compatible? Does your boyfriend has a crush on him? This is something worth discussing with him.
First, I couldn't agree more with u/wwcat89. It is very very rare in relationships to know how someone will behave in a given situation. Your Bf is showing you EXACTLY how he will behave. It's now on you to determine is this is acceptable to you or not.
Second, part of being an adult is understanding others in processing news. Pregnancy/parenting is the big leagues of grown-up issues. You are absolutely entitled to a number of emotions. You are absolutely NOT entitled to take those emotions out on your partner.
From early in our relationship, my wife and I both wanted children. But my wife was still scared when she broke the news to me, worrying about how I'd react, even though she knew I wanted children. When I told her how happy I was, she broke down crying not from being happy in starting our family, but because she had been stressing all day how I would react EVEN THOUGH WE AGREED ON HAVING CHILDREN.
If children are in your future plans, it seems this guy has no interest in being both the partner you need, and the father your child will need. I recommend you think long and naked about that.
Thanks for the advice. I will suggest walking her with a harness!
Important question. What if SHE came to you and said “I wanna online alone so I’m leaving you with the baby. But don’t worry I’ll be around when I can.”
You’re already low on money and you wanna take some of that and use it to play house by yourself? Effectively taking food out of your families mouths.?
It’s time to grow up.
Make a reference to his Vienna sausage & let us know how that plays out (assuming you’d ever want to speak to this person again.)
The person who became friends with is gone. This is a stranger. Don’t give money blindly to strangers. Maybe he has a gambling addiction? Maybe he has a drug addiction?
It’s really impressive that you were able to block him. But he can’t ghost you for three years for no reason and then expect you to drop everything to be there for him. That’s not how friendship works. What will happen if you give him money and emotional support but he ghosts you again? Can you go through that again?
What you are missing is being in a relationship, not being in it with her specifically. Being in a relationship just like being alone is something people can get very used to and it is a naked when it changes.
While it is obvious for me you should break up with her what comes next is bigger question. You can immediately start looking for someone actually compatible with you (cause she definitively is not), but I am not sure if you should do it.
You want to stay with her even though you know she would make you unhappy. I think you really should stay single for some time to be able actually evaluate your past and future relationships. Right now, it's like you are on relationship withdrawal, which is why you definitely should not get back with her.
I supported my ex for almost a year off my student loans and summer jobs. When I couldn’t work anymore due to pain (I’m disabled, I didn’t know why I hurt back then), he shamed me for needing support. Idk, some people just suck.
Had you already agreed not to do Valentine’s Day or did you essentially tell him because he did this you didn’t want to celebrate the holiday ever again? It’d be understandable he’s upset if he feels like he ruined the holiday forever bc he’s not good at gifts
Stop focusing on the middle of the conversation when the miscommunication is happening at the beginning. You're immediately jumping to defending yourself instead of being curious and open to hearing why she's feeling pressured to clean up the house while she's supposed to be working.
You are seeing the world differently. Instead of trying to understand why she sees the world the way she does, you're immediately jumping to “my way is better and right. Yours is wrong”. There's no space for conversation and connection there. (I know that's not most people's conscious thought of what they're saying, but that's the meta break-down of it.)
Just from what you've posted, you frequently complain about the state of the house, which puts pressure on her to make sure you come home to a good environment. Girls are conditioned to believe that we aren't worthy of love if we don't provide this, so there's more pressure on her than there would be on you. When you comment about the state of the house, it's very likely triggering those feelings of insecurity and failure.
Until you can set aside your defensiveness enough to be curious about why she feels what she feels, you're going to go in circles.
From a practical perspective, it might help you to set up clear expectations with each other around cleaning and when it happens. We're all exhausted from work, even when you work from home. Maybe you decide to do something like a mutual pick-up time after dinner? One of you does dishes and the other straightens, or you both do a sweep of the house then do dishes together. If the house is exceptionally disordered one day, approach it like she had a hectic day at work (probably true) instead of commenting on the state of the house. The house comments are just adding to the pressure she already feeling.
I know it doesn’t matter because an ex is an ex for a reason but please hear me out.
nope.
the end.
see how easy that was.
Absolutely tell him. He deserves to know.
Any relationship after the breakup needs to be based on honesty, truth, trust, decency, honor, respect, and maturity.
None of which you possess.
That's not what most people in the comments are saying hahaha
Married at 19 and 20, are you guys Mormon?
Yeah but how do you know him? He wanted to ask you out for two years?
I have a feeling that this is a uniquely American thing.
I've never come accross any woman in the UK that gives two shits about porn either.
Ahhahahahahaha
Why are you involving yourself? When she brings it up, just joke around and call her a hoe instead. She's 21, let her fuck around.
You, yourself are aware you have issues and this is affecting your judgement.
Relationships are a matter of compromise. Either you have to accept this is a minor issue just magnified by your own personal insecurities or he adjusts by agreeing to stop.
If none of that works then you just have have to find a more compatible partner.
Don't get me wrong, your feelings are perfectly valid but sometimes what we need and want can conflict with what we can realistically get.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. Hanging up after that comment is a huge, BURNING red flag. I hope you end up happy and your gut seems to be right based on the info you gave. I wish you luck. My situation is similar-ish.
I’m kinda sorta seeing a woman and it occurred to me that I don’t have to feel needed but I do think feeling wanted is a reasonable expectation so I’m making it a point to make it clear the ball is in her court. It’s hot because I feel very strongly for her, but I think my expectation is reasonable and I’ve reached the point whereas I may be alone but I’m not lonely.
Good luck.
I had to ask about pornographic as I grew up in a religious community where fully naked is pornography. But with OP’s more recent comment it is clear we are talking about something more racy than typical boudoir photography.
Agreed on both being free to act as they see fit. For example, if I wanted a tattoo above my labia, I’d tell my partner about it beforehand. He’d be unhappy about a male tattoo artist seeing or touching that area. I see my responsibility in my relationship is to listen to my partner’s boundaries and feelings as well as express my own, like my confidence that in picking the right professional you do not pick someone who would creep on you or turn it into an opportunity to touch you.
Sadly she did not consider how he’s feel about it before the shoot or immediately after, especially where he was touching her and directing her to pose in a sus that are not boudoir.
Jesus, thank fuck you're out of that now
I had to ask about pornographic as I grew up in a religious community where fully hot is pornography. But with OP’s more recent comment it is clear we are talking about something more racy than typical boudoir photography.
Agreed on both being free to act as they see fit. For example, if I wanted a tattoo above my labia, I’d tell my partner about it beforehand. He’d be unhappy about a male tattoo artist seeing or touching that area. I see my responsibility in my relationship is to listen to my partner’s boundaries and feelings as well as express my own, like my confidence that in picking the right professional you do not pick someone who would creep on you or turn it into an opportunity to touch you.
Sadly she did not consider how he’s feel about it before the shoot or immediately after, especially where he was touching her and directing her to pose in a sus that are not boudoir.
Thailand is KNOWN for its sex tourism. That dude is riddled with who knows what, please tested and get out of this relationship. Would he be as forgiving had you fucked another man?
Tell him that if he mentions your weight or anything related one more time, you're done. And when he does, dump him. What he is doing is emotional abuse and life is too short to spend it with an abusive ass.
We haven’t hungout consistently because I was living with my ex for the remainder of our lease so that slowed things down a bit and I almost felt he was punishing me for that
? we shall see
Sorry you are going through that. A lot of compassion for you.
He’s an alcoholic by your description. He won’t get better until he hits rock bottom and actually acknowledges what he is and how he acts.
You staying and in his eyes not pushing back against his drinking and what he becomes won’t help him. He needs to see himself in the cold stark sober light.
1) go to Al-anon. A great place for people who have loved ones that are alcoholic to get you help.
2) talk to his family, you all need to be in the same frame of mind about his drinking.
3) you might have to leave temporarily, you always need to be safe and what’s happening is not currently safe for you. Always think about your safety first.
He needs to stop drinking and show that he can work on it. See if you can get him to AA.
I wish you all the best for your future