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Last night I woke up to my BF saying “maybe you should sleep in the other room”
That's such bullshit, if he was so bothered he should have gotten up and slept somewhere else.
Before BF fully woke me up he rolled over, put his arm across me and said something along the lines of “Do you realise how loud you are being?” and I was half asleep (to the point I thought I was dreaming) and said something like “loud doing what?” thinking I was snoring. He didn't reply, I asked again, squeezed his arm but he didn't say anything and rolled back over to the other side. >A lot of you have asked what his problem is, I feel he truly believes I was going to town and wanted to join in (which would have been fine and happened if I was – we have a very happy open and honest sex life), but because I didn't know what the hell was going on, and wasn't masturbating, I denied him that, and then presumably fell back to sleep and carried on “masturbating” without him
You realize that makes it worse right? He sent you away because you denied him sex.
Agreed. I am on the spectrum, and I know many others who are as well, and it is not free reign to be an asshole. I really want to know what op actually is getting out of this relationship, because it sounds like a miserable one.
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Last night I woke up to my BF saying “maybe you should sleep in the other room”
That's such bullshit, if he was so bothered he should have gotten up and slept somewhere else.
Before BF fully woke me up he rolled over, put his arm across me and said something along the lines of “Do you realise how loud you are being?” and I was half asleep (to the point I thought I was dreaming) and said something like “loud doing what?” thinking I was snoring. He didn't reply, I asked again, squeezed his arm but he didn't say anything and rolled back over to the other side. >A lot of you have asked what his problem is, I feel he truly believes I was going to town and wanted to join in (which would have been fine and happened if I was – we have a very happy open and honest sex life), but because I didn't know what the hell was going on, and wasn't masturbating, I denied him that, and then presumably fell back to sleep and carried on “masturbating” without him
You realize that makes it worse right? He sent you away because you denied him sex.
Agreed. I am on the spectrum, and I know many others who are as well, and it is not free reign to be an asshole. I really want to know what op actually is getting out of this relationship, because it sounds like a miserable one.
That looks really good thank you!