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Show Boobs [Multi Goal]
Date: November 1, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Show Boobs [Multi Goal]
I think it might be useful for you to speak to a professional to work through this. Facing up to your role in an imbalanced age-gap relationship is hot and no amount of strangers on the internet calling you a paedo is going to make you see it.
You may feel that your behaviour with her is not predatory or grooming, but the very existence of the age difference (and her meeting you as a teenager) undermines every perceivable element of the equality or autonomy in this relationship.
I want to build on the connection, but not through typical dating interview conversation like talking over drinks , more through intimacy and shared activities (sex, going for a drive, watching a movie).
So use those as activities on dates. (I mean, besides the sex.) You should be doing that anyway. The point of dating is to get to know someone. A date where you stare at a movie for two hours and never say anything to each other was kind of unsuccessful. Pick activities that will allow you to build an emotional connection. Pick activities that will allow the two of you to learn about each other. =)
Why does it bother you so much? Sounds like he only does it on occasion anyway
You think I'd stop being shocked at the amount of gross smelly unhygienic dudes out there …
Don't let him make you feel like crap about yourself. You CAN do better.
Yup, he’s negging her for sure.
Yuck. A partner who doesn’t lift you up like a comfortable brassiere is an ex-partner who doesn’t get to see your bits and bobs anymore. He’s 50 – if he doesn’t know better by now, he’s not going to learn.
I look hella young, still at 40 I don't look it. My husband is pretty much full grey now and has been mostly grey for awhile.
The most we've gotten is once on a date the server said “it's nice you take your dad out, he looks so young”, we died laughing at that. If you don't look at the grey, his face looks young.
We've never had anyone think he is a creep or pedo. I'm wondering what area y'all are in and if that has something to do with this strange reaction.
I would suggest you get some therapy to deal with the jealousy issues, it's a normal reaction. Also, they can possibly help you navigate the perceptions others have. Not sure how much damage control you can do on that one. I do find it very strange this was the reaction.
This one is hot to say. You are quite young, and two years together isn’t that long. He does sound quite stressed right now. I think if you two weren’t at an engagement step before the move, you can’t expect just because you moved to now get engaged. There could be an element that he feels resentful about getting married now, even if he does want to, because since you moved he might feel guilty and very pressured into having to marry you. Like I said he can feel that way even if he wants to marry you.
My husband and I went to couples counseling before we were married. It’s a very good idea. Before you commit any more of your life to him, getting true feelings out, whether it leads to marriage or a break up, at least you’ll get an answer.
I hope it works out for you two. However, just to give some perspective and hard earned life experience, I’m now 44, and I was married the first time when I was 24. We had been together since we were 20. I felt time was passing by and despite red flags, did love him and wanted marriage and to be settled and all that. For me, in retrospect, I realize I could’ve easily walked away and met someone else and got married at 28, 30, 35, and still had the kind of timeline I wanted for my life.