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Date: October 18, 2022
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Honestly. There are plenty of beautiful wonderful women out there that don’t have herpes. I know so many say almost everyone has it. That’s fine. I don’t. And I don’t want to get it. If I can avoid it, I will. I don’t care it’s common or they can take meds. I do not want it. Period.
It really is as simple as that, at least in communicating my need (as shown in your response). It’s the damn old habit of people-pleasing and not wanting to make her upset that makes me second-guess myself. Thank you for your input kind person 🙂
So my boyfriend has been treating me horribly all day.
This was before he told her he wasn't attracted to her when she has this hairstyle. It sounds like he was being moody all day.
I can appreciate that you have a bad opinion of CPAP but the newer machines and masks are quiet and comfortable.
And again, it’s not just an inconvenience but a serious health issue.
Either way, NTA and I think it’s kind of you to want to tell her yourself instead of involving your mother.
It’s not unreasonable for him to want to be with someone who matches his sex drive. Sexual incompatibility is a huge reason for many of the posts in this sub.
He did the right thing by not pressuring you to have sex and instead ending the relationship where he was not going to get what he needed
Trauma is one thing. It's real and effects people deeply. OP is the type of person to self diagnose every mental health problem under the sun from tiktok. She has “being called names” trauma don't you know.
You're with a lazy and selfish lover. He won't change, because you keep giving him what he wants. Why would he change? You keep giving in, despite what you say, and this literally invalidates what you're communicating.
OP didn't say that at all, so you're scolding someone for something not said
Honestly, you are a med student and can't figure out how to break up with someone.
Physician heal thyself.
Dang, that is a TON of debt.
I wonder if there are better options for interest by refinancing. Now is not a great time to refinance, as rates have recently risen, but 11% is huge. It's too late to change now, but I'm left wondering why she got private student loans like this in the first place! The interest rates on federal student loans (unsubsidized) are 4.99-6.54% depending on factors we don't need to discuss. A decent interest rate could make a HUGE difference in what these loans will cost each year and over a lifetime, so you might look into your options to refinance with better rates, and see whether the impact looks more manageable with a refinance. I suspect you could substantially reduce the required annual payments and/or pay the debt down much quicker with similar payments, by refinancing, but there's no question this will be a substantial financial burden no matter what you do with it.
It sounds like you're really interested in having kids together. I would not recommend having kids together while this huge debt looms over you — and so, if kids are very important to you and/or your partner, sadly I'd suggest breaking up so you can have a chance for a more financially stable parenthood with someone else. Others have suggested a pre-nuptial agreement if you get married, which I agree with, but the pre-nup will not be sufficient if there are kids involved, at which point child support will be set based on your ability to pay, and her need, both of which will be high. And, kids are very expensive even as you stay together — that cost in addition to the cost of the debt will leave you with a comparatively austere life.
If you're not so set on having children, your incomes are probably high enough to manage this debt together. This sounds doable to me, but you'll still have to decide if it's worth it to you. You'll have much more freedom without this debt to take vacations, or buy a house, or many other things, and you'll be giving much of that up by staying together. In the short term, you can keep finances separate, not contribute yourself towards her debt but just expect she'll be less able to contribute to other things you'd want to do together. But that's not a sustainable long-term plan. If you stay together for the long-haul, one way or another you will share responsibility for this debt. If that's not okay with you, better to cut ties sooner rather than break up years down the line over things you already know now.
it’s cool, i’m just really confused at why some of the comments here are stigmatizing people with personality disorders instead of encouraging them to go to therapy and develop alternative to antisocial skills, when evidence shows that further negative stigmatization leads to lower rates of treat enemy and thus higher rates of antisocial behavior
Show off.
IMO it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.
Except maybe you are hung up on “closure”.
IMO it sounds like she just lost interest and so you should move on, hot not to take it personally but from what you wrote you wanted more from her than she was willing to commit.
And sure it would be nice if she said that straight to your face but feeling entitled to that is not good for your mental health.
Instead of looking for “closure” I think you should just accept that she felt more causal about you two than you did and move on.
Fixating and obsessing on it is not healthy.
She might not be communicating her feelings with words but her actions make it clear she lost interest so it is time to let it go.
You don't need to articulate anything. You're broken up and you owe him nothing else. Dude is just trying to control you. Next time he reaches out, tell him that you've said what you've needed to say and you don't want to talk about it or to him anymore. Tell him to stop contacting you. Then block him everywhere. If he continues to try contacting you, reach out to a trusted friend or even the police. Dude sounds unhinged and you dodged a bullet.