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Date: October 17, 2022
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I mean she said it
She has done you so much wrong and she doesn't deserve you…..
However she doesn't get to dictate your punishment and options should include leaving her….. If you stay with her she will have had no punishments and will know then what you are willing to tolerate
I mean do you really want to spend your days snooping thru her socials trying to expose infidelity ..
He was surely trying. He made work talk about everything but work.
You had 2 options and you took the safe route. You didn't reply to his advances such as social media requests and such, but it seemed to work. Your other option would have been to approach him, whether direct or indirect. If he starts again you can tell him you don't mix business and pleasure. You can either be direct and just say it, or casually mention how you don't mix the two, then ask him his opinion on it.
He got the first hint, he would probably get that one too. Kudos.
If it comes to that I’ll not stay in that relationship. He isn’t like that though. Hopefully it will remain this way.
You are sexually incompatible… And it's evident Just break up and move on, you're still very young This issue will not get better btw… Trust me
Sorry you’re going through this!
Fair enough, that was just an assumption on my part.
I still think you shouldn't be assuming it's the birth control that's made her feel like this, it's only going to set you up for disappointment in the future
He’s just obviously disregarding the boundaries of his relationship, it isn’t that you are just a better fit. He’s allowing that kind of relationship between you two happen. Relationships are commitments to one another, it isn’t magic, eventually mostly everyone is with someone for a decade. This clearly shows more about him and his lack of commitment and respect for boundaries in a relationship.
A phone call is nicer.
Do you find yourself comparing dates to your perfect person?
If so – then you're doing two things wrong;
You're looking at your ex through rose tinted glasses. You broke up for a reason. When you reminisce, you only consider the good things. Focus on the reasons you broke up and the bad things about him so that you can get over him.
You're comparing someone you're meeting for the first time with someone you had a year of bonding with. Noone you meet for the first time can compete with that. You need to give people more of a chance to develop something special with – or it WILL never happen. You will create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sometimes, through no direct fault of our own, things start to slip out of our fingers.
There are certainly cases where people are able to overcome challenges like this, especially when they've been together as long as you have, but the point about their desire to move out is a fairly bad sign.
The writing may be on the wall and you may have to prepare for it to end. The important thing to do right now is to realize that no one is entirely defined by their relationship with another person. As an almost 30 year-old M who has been single since 27, I can say that you will certainly survive, even though it doesn't feel like it right now.
From an outsider's perspective, and with only a fraction of the context to go off, I'd say that you have a 30% chance of you two staying together, perhaps less if they're still finding “what they were missing” from their work friend.
Don't panic, take a deep breath, and take comfort from the fact that everything will eventually be okay.
I looked at those and thought it would be 1…ugh you poor thing. I'd say right out that I'm not attracted at all to it and hope he comes to his senses soon.
This post doesn't provide enough detail about your personality (other than your physical appearance and finances).
Maybe that's the problem (how you communicate relate to and/or are perceived by men etc).
I suggest therapy and feedback from with a male therapist.
I also suggest tightening your screen.
Your dates are all over the place suggesting you don't know what to look for on dating apps; and/or don't know what you want in a life partner.
Finally, weight is a huge issue with men. It's common for men and women to disagree over what is ” a little overweight “.
Thank you. I definitely will think about it for a bit before coming to a decision.
if i was your bf id leave your ass immediately. he did everything right, he was honest with you, which obviously means he liked you and was trying to be transparent right off the gate, and you made him leave a friend of almost 2 decades?
My self esteem was in the dirt a few months ago, but honestly… I’ve been seeing my own therapist that had reminded me that I’m kind of a catch. You don’t know me, but I am completely aware I have all the qualities of an objectively attractive woman (not just looks but personality and interests/work). But I am also really particular. And even tho I fucking hate this I LOVE then things about my man that make him who he is. You’re imagining a social loser outcast but he’s not. He’s a social butterfly. He’s one of the funniest people I’ve ever met. He’s very musically inclined. He can be so romantic when things feel good. We have soooo many shared interests.
I got lost there, but point is, I used to feel like shit and now I don’t bc of therapy. But despite all these wonderful qualities… I am considering leaving bc I KNOW I can be with someone who doesn’t have to think of porn to cum.
And she probably holds grudges forever too. I mean, I would suggest anger management classes or something similar, but she'll probably get mad at you and want to curse you out for suggesting it.
This isn’t something that you can fix. Nor should you try. You also should not be dealing with the fallout of this situation. He’s clearly in deep denial about the situation and he most likely still has feelings for her. He doesn’t seem emotionally available and isn’t healthy enough for a new relationship.
Unless he can tell you why he reacts like that, it's all armchair guesswork, really. He may not even know why he reacts that way.
But it may be a defense mechanism of some sort. Our society does such a number on men and not allowing them to have or express emotions other than anger…
Or maybe it's nit a defense mechanism, and he may just need some time to think whatever you've presented to him as a topic of conversation through- before he actually has thoughts to share in return.
& I bet you this isn’t the first negative reaction he’s given to her being hesitant or against kids. Maybe in subtle ways he’s manipulated her into not speaking up about not wanting kids.
This is sounding more and more incompatible by the min. Lets average this out, and just say 45 min. So OP wants to have sex several times a day, each time 45min. While she is more comfortable with 1 time per week, at ( i'm guessing) -30 min per time.
Any mathematicians in the house to work out the inequality in this equation??
yes cuz ignoring me for 3 days and not even wanting to say they love me is being more adult
Lol I wouldn’t do that don’t give your coworker any ammunition to use against either of you. Like other person said HR and just immediately put the conversation to an end. Because to me it’s sounds like he feels he is driving that wedge since you won’t do nothing to put a end to it and I don’t know if that will stop him but protect yourself don’t give him any information that could be used against your or your boyfriend because he does seems the type to because it’s been 5 years and he is still trying to drive that wedge
I'll never understand why people who aren't ready to have kids go out and have sex with random strangers of the opposite gender. Your boyfriend is obviously a massive idiot, and I'd leave him if I were you.
What a power trip?!
He obviously doesn’t respect you at all.
Waiting two hours outside? Number one, why didn’t you just leave after the first 30 minutes or hour? Number two, over two hours of waiting means he was watching a movie or something.
Long story short, do better for you And stop being a doormat and stop driving him everywhere and picking him up. Grow a backbone and stand up for yourself.
Some people are calm. Stop buying into the “women are hysterical” trope. Jesus it's 2023.
She really isn't good at all. This is not her finest moment. She destroyed OP's relationship with his BF. That's kinda evil. And, she resents the best friend for her pushing herself on him? WTH. She was on the beach with OP. Then, she left OP to have those 15 secs of bump. Then she came back immediately to OP. It IS eeewy.
You should look at this in a different way. Is this guy somebody you would ever consider having a family with? Yes? Great news that he's such a wonderful dad!! He's looking ahead and taking care of his children!
Not possible. Interest rate is around 11%. She could put all her earnings toward the debt and would not be painting on the principal.
Insecurity then, 100%. He sees you making all these awesome changes, but has he done anything to better himself while married to you? I’m guessing he’s just kind of stayed exactly the same, or maybe even gained a few pounds, gotten lazier, whatever. Point is, he’s insecure as hell that you actually will go out and stumble upon someone better than him. Because in his mind, you’ve moved up in life and perhaps moved onto a higher plane than he.
You've repeatedly asked him to stop and he REFUSES.
WHY are you staying with someone who has ZERO respect for you and your feelings? And please, don't answer that with “But I love him!” You can love someone and they can still be an absolute shit person.
Being aligned on child rearing is important.
In my experience, permissive parenting is much more common when parents are separated and even more so if one home has less than 50% physical custody. Historically, got better or worse, it’s been the man who gets less physical custody. Hence the origin of the phrase “Disney Dad”.
You may think it’s cute now when she’s 4 that she can beg for whatever and you give in but long term, you’re creating a monster who also isn’t getting the age appropriate opportunity to learn to deal with disappointment and self soothe.
A parenting class would probably be a great idea. If you’re in the US, call United way 211 and they can let you know what is available in your area.
As for your GF, if she’s constantly responding that way, it’s possible there really is an issue with how you parent. Either way, you don’t like the criticism and you’ve asked her to stop. She hasn’t. So the ball is in your court. Take it or leave it.
Raising kids is very hot enough. To try to do it with someone you’re not aligned with causes constant t conflict. I mod a childfree step mom group and 90% of the issues our members ask for help with are mismatched parenting expectations—largely permissive parenting or poor boundaries.