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Your guy sounds like a total loser with absolutely no regard for your feelings. I don’t see a way through this unless he admits to a lot of things and works to change.
That said, I’m not saying you need to do this, but you mentioned never being able to look a certain way again… and that’s partially bullshit.
I have a good friend who, like you, was naturally petite and fit looking and her first baby changed that pretty drastically. She gave up on ever looking a certain way again. (Which is totally fine, once again) then she had a SECOND baby and within months said fuck that defeatist mindset, I’m going to look thin and fit again. So she did it. And she looks better now than she did when she was young and thin, IMO. I also know people who were NEVER fit looking, always heavier, who choose to become fit after pregnancy for the first time in their lives. Takes some dedication, but also not as hard as many make it out to be.
Fitness is absolutely attainable for essentially everyone, barring some very rare health conditions. But for weight, reminder it is about ninety percent diet.
However if you do choose that path, choose it for yourself. Ava preferably without this dead weight next to you. Making your next bikini photo torture him for his poor life choices works be particularly good revenge. But whatever you do, just do it for yourself.
Now I feel lied to and I don’t trust him.
I mean, you feel that way because you were lied to and now know you can't trust him. So legitimate.
I don’t want to cut him out of my life
This is a valid wish to have, but is it fair to you? Because if you don't cut him out of your life, you are just going to have to on-line with him knowing that he thinks nothing of lying to you and cheating on you. Is that how you want to live? No shame if it is something you are willing to do, wouldn't be my choice but people do in fact make these choices.
every time I think about this, I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with hurt.
Because it is overwhelming and hurt you. This is valid. Your feelings are valid.
Take the time you need to think over what happened and what your choices are now. You deserve the time to think about it. You don't have to make any decisions any sooner than you are comfortable with. Take the time you need.
That's false. He did not make it clear. Plus at his age and experience in life (at the time 34yo) he knew better than to allow for any misunderstanding on a critical life issue.
He also knew the 'uncertainty' benefited him. He said just enough to keep her hooked.
She was a young woman in love and he took advantage of her love and led her on for FOUR years (wasting her life and knowing she wants marriage).
His behavior was not loving or caring but was: selfish, entitled, and showed zero empathy for her.
I”M NOT SUGGESTING THEY GET MARRIED. Just the opposite. He's a deceitful, manipulative POS.
Yeah, this is a direct warning sign that you need couples counseling. If you can't afford it, there are evidence-based books available, but it can be hot to work through trauma in an intimate relationship. Good luck!
Aw wind your neck in. I’m sure they could have went and bought something or OP could run out and replace it if they were at deaths door due to hunger. It was accidental.