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c u m [Multi Goal]
Date: February 15, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
c u m [Multi Goal]
Smart idea, my dude. Seriously though, I cannot stress hot enough that you need to be in a relationship with yourself for a while.
Thanks for the laugh
Reading op’s replies it sounds like he just wanted to get away from her for a little bit
Uh huh. Sure. That line doesn’t make it any better. This is super sketchy. Did he unfollow her when he realized his mistake(no) and he is 100% lying about the blackout part. Way too much memory for them all being blacked out. He agreed to all of it. He could have said no; before going there, before going in, before sitting down, before spending hours there, while spending hours there, before the lap dance, before “handing a stripper his phone”
Cmon
Maybe some of them really did have something come up, such as an emergency or sickness, but I doubt that such a thing happened for more than a possible few. It just seemed like they took your birthday and what a celebration for you lightly………perhaps thinking that their absence wouldn't be noticed with other people there.
To be frank, while I wouldn't say end any friendships, it would put me in a mental state of considering that I'm not as big part of their lives as I thought. It's sobering and it's hot, but in the long run sometimes it can be helpful to avoid similar situations and disappointments.
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So my boyfriend has been treating me horribly all day. And then I go to work with him and after half of what he needs to get done is done, he drops me off and makes excuses as to why I can’t come with him. I explain I’m tired of wondering how he feels about me and he sends me a message saying “I don’t even want to say why this one thing puts me in a bad mood cos I feel like a piece of shit for even feeling this way about it. But I don’t like the high ponytail I’m just not attracted to it. I think you’re so beautiful baby though.” I’m just in shock. How can wearing my hair a certain way put you in a bad mood? Is this something I should worry about? Have you ever felt this way about your significant other??
I don't think this is fair and would basically leave me as an outsider.
So you want her (and her son) to be the outsider. Honestly, fuck you.
i do nit want my kids asking me why I have a different surname to them(it will break me) and I don’t think that any of the points she raised are reasonable.
Aand fuck you again, because this argument applies to her as well. She is your equal? A human being, who is about to have children??
If you honest opinion was you wanted it to be easier to pick up your kids, you would change your own surname to match rather than have her AND her current kid change their names (not to mention it is NOT fair or okay to give her child your name, someone who is of secondary relation to them and will probably traumatize them to have a complete name change so young unless they requested it).
The truth is, you are an individual joining an existing family and you knew and had the option to prepare for this. You are not going to take precedence, not at all, and it is shocking that you expect that. It is EXTREMELY reasonable to want all your kids to have the same last name, and if you see her son as part of your family, which you should, then this is the obvious decision.
It is not “my” kids it is “our” kids. Not to mention she is the one growing them? She is the one who gets handed that birth certificate because they came out of her, she literally gave birth to them. On all basis of want, you and her are completely equal standing, and most arguments you made go both ways and are therefore inane. Your only real argument is wanting to pick them up easier (just change your own name!), Whereas hers is to maintain a cohesive, simple family where the siblings are well bonded, which is extremely honorable.
Your words show that you do not see her son as your family, you do not see your partner as an equal, you do not value her role as a mother currently and in the future, and you have a false ego and pride wrapped up in your own “namesake”. If you want to not be an outsider, stop trying to make everyone else into an outside and just join them!
Are you upset he’s not sending pictures of you to his friends?