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Date: October 20, 2022
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These questions of like, “what will my family / my partner's family think when they see this?” or “do I really want this image on the public Internet?” actually have nothing to do with you. By which I mean, she should be able to answer those questions without even taking your desires into consideration. If that's the way she wants to present herself publicly she needs to accept the consequences. This is a much larger issue than just your potential insecurities.
With out knowing exactly what was said, that could be her clumsy way to tell you she’s cool with you being poly or making her a fwb, or that she wants that if you.
Whenever someone starts off with how sweet and caring I prepare for the worst- I did not prep enough. That is nasty as hell. Bully Behavior bordering on a dog trying to mark his territory or a bodily fluid fetish. Dump him
Run. Run as fast as you can.
So he, a man almost in his 50s, was eyeing you up as a 19 year old employee of his?
That’s fair I suppose.
A lot of women see any female friend of their man as a threat. Pictures of females even.
Why do you feel tolerating his crap behavior & disrespect is your only option?
I’ve timidly tried to leave several times. (We live in her house; mine is undergoing renovation and is somewhat livable in its current condition.)
“Sally, we have to talk. My feelings have changed and I do not want to continue in our romantic relationship. I am sorry, but I am breaking up with you. I will be moving my things out today.”
You just have to do it, and mean it, and hold firm.
I'd want to know.
Your 30 yo boyfriend sounds incredibly needy and exhausting. There is no world in which his behavior is normal or healthy, and you really need to address this with him. Put boundaries down and agree on acceptable timing to check in for safety sake, but he needs to understand that when you are out with friends, it is to spend time with your friends, NOT to have to deal with texts and calls from him every few minutes. That's ridiculous.
He seems to be quite insecure and controlling, even though you've been together a relatively short period of time. Please watch out for further red flags, because these are some very worryingly immature behaviors.
She didn't ask him to throw them out. She asked him to remove it from his social media page. Many partners find it disrespectful to have past partners so publicly displayed, esp in a longer term relationship where their family has likely followed or friended and can see all that. Those pictures need to be kept private unless the partner is explicitly okay with it.