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Everytime I come home happy after meeting her, they take it all away telling me you should only be happy how we tell you to be happy, I'm working my ass off, with that I'm studying and I give time to my girlfriend every other day cause my me time is being with my girlfriend and they disapprove of me being with her
I’m sorry….. but please leave him. you’ve addressed it too many times, he’s too old to be acting like that. he’s not a child. that’s disgusting
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At this point there is no table. It’s a nightstand on her side of the bed.
You’re being obtuse. When he called his ex to tell her he needed to talk to her, HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN MORE FORTHCOMING: “I need to talk to you about something regarding my health.”
I never once said, nor did I imply, that telling someone you care about that you’re dying is easy. You know that. Stop putting words in my mouth. But he completely screwed up the lead up to the conversation, knowing she has a negative history.
Bottom line, OP screwed this all the way up. You don’t think he did. Fine. I’m allowed to disagree with your take on this, as you’re allowed to disagree with me. The difference is that I’m not condescending to you.
Unhappy single people in the comments are about to talk you out of enjoying your life, if you let them.
If you're enjoying each other and on the same page, who cares what anonymous redditors think? Go have fun.
go to a clinic if you can. explain your situation, they tend to work with people from many economic standings and are often more than willing to help you work something out!
don't be afraid or embarrassed, you did nothing wrong and are not alone
You protected her and kept both of yourselves alive. That’s the best outcome possible. I’d say you need couples therapy to work through this, and she likely also needs individual therapy to help her come to terms with her past trauma.
Is she in therapy for her intrusive thoughts?
Limb lengthening surgery is extreme and entirely cosmetic; I would never put someone I loved through so much pain, especially if it would be entirely for my benefit and cosmetic. You'd get 3 inches max out of it, and for what? Chronic pain and bone issues?
If she can't get over this psychological block, I think you'd be better off seeking someone who appreciates you for who you are. You don't have to apologize for your body; it's simply who you are. The right people would have the capacity to love you no matter what your height
I’m thinking he could say something like that, Thank you
I really hope you tried getting evidence of all that even if you was in complete chock.
That dude is terrifying. And a danger for this girl. She needs to know so she keeps herself safe from him.
Please, if you can. Update us about how it is going. Such a sick person worries me what he could possibly do. Keep yourself safe too.
I’m not trying to diagnose anything here, but I just want to say that my best friend was bipolar and this is exactly how she would act when she was unmedicated.
To clarify:
You entered the relationship NOT wanting to marry, he DID want to.
Then you changed your mind and DID want to and he changed his mind and DIDNT want to?
I’d say you are wrongly judging him for changing his mind when you did so just as much.
“Marriage material” is a ridiculous term. It means anyone who isn’t married isn’t marriage material- and that is far from the truth. Don’t ruin a good relationship over a societal expectation and governmental paper.
If you’re common law, you’re already married in the eyes of the law. If you want to officiate it further, get a write up done by a lawyer to ensure you have access to each other in hospital in case of emergency, and there you go. Your rights are now 100% the same as married people in the eyes of the law.
If it’s a show of commitment that you want, then have an unofficial ceremony.
Divorce is not cheap- there are more legalities involved and it’s more expensive to separate if you have a marriage license. That’s the only difference.
HOWEVER, your issue has nothing to do with marriage. Your issue is that your partner isn’t showing affection- and a marriage isn’t going to fix that. You need to go to therapy as a couple to fix that. If your partner is not responsive to you communicating your needs then that is a massive problem.
I’ve been with my SO for 11 years (never marrying), and he is all over me every day. It just seems to me that you have incompatible love languages.
Indecisiveness, I think. They can't bring themselves to make that decision then when they're alone they realise they should have made that decision.
Any frequency more than zero is unacceptable.
He should just divorce her.
OP, you are just hanging around for yrs, hoping she will see you as partner material. She Does Not see you are partner material. She's just using you as an emotional sponge, to clean up her mess. You guys don't have an honest friendship. This lust on your part, and using on her part is not a friendship.
Nope.
Lol you’re literally the first person in the three years I’ve had this account to ask me that question. No, I’m not.
I give a ton of advice on here because I’ve been through it all and learned from it. I also have a toddler and one on the way so I can relate to the children aspect of your situation as well.
I’m happy to talk privately if you’d like. You can also certainly tell me to fuck off haha but I am genuinely trying to provide real advice.
So she's too anxious to go take a shit in public bathroom but not too much when she has to violate your car on the street…
I think most people would agree that objectively, war related trauma is ‘worse’ than being cheated on. I have no doubt that if OP’s boyfriend had seen serious combat, he’d be more triggered by war movies than cheating in movies. It doesn’t sound like he has seen combat though, so the cheating experience is probably the most traumatic thing he has ever had to deal with.
In the same way that a child will be completely distraught about a minor injury when an adult would brush it off, trauma can be relative. That doesn’t mean the hurt child should be ignored or told to grow up. They shouldn’t be coddled, but their concern should be taken seriously, because to them, it is serious.
I do the same.
Yes, leave. I’m so sorry. What he did was wrong. You were sexually assaulted. Please reach out for support. Call 800-656-4673.
Yeah you are right. Thanks for the advice
ADHD is not a disability . Or is it classed as that these days ? … I honestly don't know, don't care anymore .
My take, and it galls me because it is the default answer on this sub…but you need to walk away.
Not necessarily because of the name change only, but because she doesn't view you as part of the family unit. As a result, the best thing you can do is resign yourself to the fact they they'll be “her kids”, will have her name, and get the best custody arrangement you can. Because they'd be your kids and you'd just be paying child support anyway.
Since nobody else here has asked – has she suffered with any mental health issues in the past? Anything else that has been bubbling up aside from this travelling idea?
Has she seen a doctor recently for a check up or any health concerns?
If this is completely out of character then this could be running much deeper than wanting a break……
Sounds lazy.
We as men have to touch it to put it down all the time, no reason girls can't touch it to put it up.
If they are adults they should know how to communicate like adults. “Hey that hurts” “okay should I do something different?” “I just don’t enjoy that maybe we do this instead” “okay that sounds great since I on-line you and don’t want to cause you pain” why is his sad little bruised ego more valid than the physical pain she was experiencing?