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im so horny ??#squirt #bigass #hairy #hot [Goal Race]
Date: October 28, 2022
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im so horny ??#squirt #bigass #hairy #hot [Goal Race]
It seems like he is a wonderful guy, who understands your current circumstances and your priorities of different aspects of your life. I believe if he truly loves you and wants a genuine relationship with you, he would respect your priorities at your current stage of life and wait patiently until you are less stressed with academic responsibilities.
I think what he needs now is an assurance, just as you mentioned. The thing is you guys have to communicate; you have to let him understand that you are busy on college, but at the same time truly loves him.
My opinion is for you to pickup this relationship first. From what i see this isn’t any random relationships but a well established one. If they can wait, it proves that they truly loves you.
As of your parents; i think you should communicate with them first, which is hot. If they are just uncommunicatable, perhaps find a solution to low key date him. I mean, you guys already had sex, don’t think it’ll be that hot for you to hide this.
Please DO tell me if i didn’t respond to your problems, am new on Reddit (i mean this account is 2 years old but i just recently started using it) and am really willing to give relationships advice.
If she’s explicit with your “friend” then you divorce her and go permanent no contact with both of them.
It’s okay to be disappointed and pouty, sex makes you bf/gf period!!! It’s not coercion it’s feelings period.!!! Forcing it is not though. Communication is key in all facets of a relationship Ben itimacy
He is taking advantage of you. He is counting on the fact that you are inexperienced and easily intimidated to coerce you into doing what he wants. Find someone who is a peer, who respects you and treats you as an equal partner in the relationship.
I know what you mean… but the thing is I opened up to him because he made me sure that there is love between us! and I know that you shouldn’t expect someone to say those words just because you said it! But I simply just expected him to say it because he acted that way and made me sure that was the right thing to do… and by the way if he doesn’t love me then what the hell are we even doing after nine months? if it was 5 or 6 months or he’d treat me badly then I shouldn’t have had any expectations… but this one is different! I can’t just stay with someone in hope for hearing those words cause it may never happen.. just like how it didn’t happen after 9 months so I will just fall in love deeper and deeper and at some points I have to leave with a bigger heart break and most probably trust issues! I can already see the way it influenced my trust.. I’ll probably have a hot time trusting someone when they wanna make me feel loved at first months and that sucks! gotta take some time and try not to let what happened influence my next tries. yeah I love myself and that’s why my self respect couldn’t let me continue after what happened.
I’d say so lol. Is that a problem for you?
I know I can’t change the past but I can’t see how to move forward it’s like everyone is laughing at me and I feel so ashamed, disgusted with myself. I don’t think I can go on
Yeah I understand. Just want to clarify, I don't expect him to text 15 times a day, I understand he has a full time work and so do I and I work more days than he does. Sometimes I just wish he puts a bit more effort in his texting for me the same way I ro because he is the same even when he is off at the weekends but I understand what you are talking about and I will try not to let it get the best of me and just ignore it. Thank you ?
Dude if I had the opportunity to not have to work… y’all are splitting bills 50/50 I’m not sure what the issue is. Maybe it’s because I fucking hate life with the job I’m stuck in but imagining a world where I had time to do the things I like and not struggle financially… I’d be damned if I’m going to waste my time doing a job I don’t need or enjoy.
You do realize that her not being jealous means that she trusts you, right? This has nothing to do with her not loving you. She's confident and safe in this relationship.
Seems like an easy text typo
Your deleted reply was disgusting.
(M)Speaking from someone married 20yrs now. There should be a level of understanding from his part. My wife and I are still very active but it's my part to respect her wishes. You're not saying you don't want to. You're saying to wait for personal and medical reason. If he doesn't understand that you need to look much deeper at the relationship and friendship. A friend would understand at the least.
It’s terrible the way they handled it and I wouldn’t be comfortable since they’ve both already lied. I knew a guy that set up a friend with somebody he’d been hooking up with because he said she was a keeper and wanted to be a good friend. Later it came out that they were continuing to sleep together and he did that so he could manipulate the friend all while having a girlfriend too! They would encourage the friend to get really drunk then flirt and hookup literally behind his back.
this isn't time management, it's showing he doesn't value you or your time
That’s really what it feels like having a conversation with her. I’ve watched her talk to my mom and best friend one on one and I can literally see the light leave their eyes because she doesn’t give them a single second to speak.
Her bio dad was a diagnosed narcissist which makes me worried she took on some of his characteristics. It might also just be her ADHD which has affected her since elementary school.
I guess I’ve just felt really insecure in our relationship that I haven’t felt safe to have a conversation about me leaving her. I told her I wanted to move back in with my parents a couple months ago because I need my alone time back and am exhausted and she started sobbing saying she was heartbroken and that I didn’t consider her feelings. I’m just so tired of these massive emotional outbursts any time I confront her that I just can’t bring myself to do it.
I plan on talking with her after I get the majority of my stuff moved out because she used to “joke” to me about how she screwed her ex boyfriend over when they broke up by taking all the expensive stuff and art that she always liked of his without him knowing. She’s said a lot of weird stuff like that in the past.
idk bro, sounds like you're the one in need of therapy
Couples counselling isn't going to work while she refuses to get help as an individual. Honestly at this point in time being in a relationship with her is extremely unhealthy. The best thing you could do for yourself at this point in time would be to walk away. She is too young, immature, dependent, and it will only get worse.
You were 16 dating a 21 year old? Sounds like statutory rape to me just to start there.
Yeah, stunned by the amount of people that think this is something you could overlook compared to 15-20 years ago. Back then we didn’t have the language to discuss how uncomfortable it is to sit and break bread with someone that does not see you as a human being and is dead set in stripping you of rights.
Go to the proctologist, get your anal tear checked out. Give him the bill. Show him the reality of the consequences of his unreasonable fantasy.
she was tested when already in an established relationship with her husband.
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He’s indifferent because labels don’t matter. He’s in love with you, and that’s what matters. He’s not Heterosexual, he’s not homosexual, he’s not ___, hes OPsexual. Stop listening to other people, stop caring about things he said in the past, stop worrying about things that happened. People change over time, and it’s obvious he has too. It has nothing to do with you, he’s 21 years old and is still discovering himself. Don’t pressure him for any answers and be happy with the great relationship you have
If you want expensive gifts, you should have chosen someone who's older and has an established job. Who expects expensive gifts from a 21 year old who probably hasn't even finished education?
He asked you to be exclusive before knowing how old you are?
Yes, this is another hallmark of a groomer. He's just so in love! erm no actually, he wants to put that impression across, the girl then feels like she's in control because “he's clearly so much in love”. He's deliberately creating romance to suck her in.
Well, you're not just wondering, you're actively worrying, aren't you?
Unless this is what you are normally like, I think the very fact that you feel tempted to satisfy your worries this way should be enough of a red flag for you to recognise that this relationship is likely not going to turn into a good one.
You've only been seeing him for a couple of months, and you have already identified him as someone who struggles with boundaries, people-pleasing and low self-esteem on top of the obvious, i.e. having just come out of a long relationship and struggling with disorders.
As smitten as you may be, is this really the kind of person you want to attempt to have a serious relationship with at this point in your life?
If you are going to stay, you need to accept your husband sleeps around and make it ok with you so you don't need support.
In today's society I wouldn't look to mom for support on this unless it's support to help you throw his ass out
Just for further reassurance, he wasn't asking for a 1 on 1 movie night he was pushing for a date.
He's also banking on her unwillingness to firmly state her boundaries (and legit that's a fear for a lot of young women dealing with men) to further push her boundaries and do things with her/to her.
He's not a friend, he's a snake.
Relationships are a learning experience, it may not have even occurred to his girlfriend that there was a disparity. That is why communication is important, and you have to learn from your mistakes. Relationships are never going to be perfect. How you learn, grow, and communicate throughout the life of that relationship is how you create a foundation for it to be happy and fulfilling.
If OP went and did exactly what his girlfriend did to him, it would be even worse because it would be done with malicious intent to “get back and her” or to “teach her a lesson”. All it would do is create strife and animosity. I am not saying his girlfriend will respond positively if he communicates his feelings, but that would be 100% her shortcoming, and would hopefully give OP a reason to reconsider such a relationship.
Does she normally not notice things going on around her when she is talking to people? Some people focus on one thing and kind of tune out other senses. Does this sort of thing happen when she is drunk that she doesn’t notice things? Does she have an alcohol problem that she is drinking a lot but seems so functional that you don’t notice how drunk she actually is? Is she usually touchy feels with friends or normally reserved? Someone who is very physically reserved would be hot pressed to not notice, where as someone who is very huggy and used to sitting close to people might not register it.
It is completely normal for one person to say how could you not have noticed the baby was crying, the stuff on the stove was burning, the baby was using Sharpie on the couch right next to you, the car was out of gas, the baby’s diaper leaked on your shirt, you never made the rent payment, etc. Couples fight about what they can’t imagine the other person not noticing. You can figure out, however, what kind of person you think your girlfriend is.
You have 2 choices.
A. Accept it, agree to wait, then RESPECT her choice, no boundary pushing, no convincing, no cheating, nothing but acceptance and patience; or
B. Break up.
That's it. Those are your choices. There's no option C, no matter what crafty idea you come up with.
Why is she your GF? What do you get out of the relationship? It seems one way – not in your favor. I would re-evalulate the relationship
You only put up with it if you decide to.
I loved one too- I’m not judging you, I understand how powerful they can be. You’ll regret staying.
He says it’s a requirement of a relationship for him and anyone who cares for him would do it.
Fuck that noise.
I am not fond of your reletionship. You're putting far too much into it and getting nothing out of it. Sounds like he has the expectation to serve him in full…
If he is 34 and has this attitude towards relationships, you're in for a depressing outcome.
If you want to correct this (against my opinion) .. the best way you deal with this, is for you to stand up for yourself and stop being taken advantage of. Stop enabling this type of shit.
My opinion: This guy is going to waste your youth… Nothing of value he can offer you for a future besides you taking care of him and handling all financial responsibility. Like massages?! Are you eff'ing kidding me? He is making an issue out that?! You have so much more of a right to be upset about than him receiving a massage. If he is your best friend… best friends do not take advantage of the other like he has been.
Well once I realized it not locked up in the emotional or spiritual sense I did what any reasonable person would do: enable VPN, then incognito browser.
Drum roll…they are called.. “Chastity cages” and they are not cheap. They ranged from $75 to the $200s
They had tons of designs like pages and pages!! From your basic design to various types of material then colors, glow in the dark and even fun animal design: pig heads, snakes, alligators etc. Some for just the D and some for the D and Bs
I am in contact with a family solicitor since this morning. I came to my parent's home and told them everything that has happened and my father put me in contact with one of his legal friends. He's an expert in his field and has worked with several infidelity cases. He's worked with many single mothers and has been able to get amazing custody and financial arrangements so hopefully, we will be well supported.
I strongly susoect the ex has had trauma from a family member
He shouldn't have to choose. It's not his fault.
Remember she just found out her mother cheated on her father for an extended period (and the possibility that you were not the first or last). Her understanding of her family was unexpectedly shattered. Maybe she confronted her mother, maybe she told her father, maybe she hasn’t done either but plans to. Either way, she’s dealing with the imminent breakup of her family.
Also remember that you were the bearer of some really bad news. She’s probably mad at you – it’s only human – and she may have to get some unfortunate imagery out of her mind. But this will pass eventually.
If you love this girl enough that you can see yourself facing the mother, you’re going to have to let her know. Call her. If she doesn’t answer, leave a message. Tell her you love her and care for her and that you’re there for her. Tell her about the arrangement you made at school to give her room. Tell her you’re willing to walk the tough road that lays ahead with her. Don’t text. You want her to hear your voice. Ask you to call you. You want her to know that you can handle the difficult situation. You want her to know you’re serious.
If you don’t hear from her in a day or two, call her again. Don’t blow up her phone or harass her, but keep contact, even if it is one way for now. Sooner or later she’s going to want to get away from home, and you want her to be comfortable coming to you.
Of course, this may all be too much for her to get over at all, and she may just end up ghosting and blocking you. Hope not. Good luck!
This just reads like you're hoping to baby-trap him under the guise of “oh no I totally wouldn't keep the baby but I don't want you to use condoms because that means you're a cheater”.
As her friend, you should point it out, if it is odd. But as it usually happens, she may end up making excuses for him about the things he does until she can no longer convince herself of a reason for his odd things/lack of effort etc. But when that breaking point will come, is entirely up to her. The max you can do is be honest and approachable so she tells you if she's gonna make any major decisions or changes based on this relationship.
I was telling him that I'm not sure about our relationship cause it started out so rocky, and he was trying to convince me that relationships don't have to start out good to end good. I was not convinced. And like the eeEee dude was saying, that's the other way I see my reaction. I don't see it as a nice guy thing cause I know the extent I've been for him and how much I've done for him, emotionally and financially. so to not do that one small thing for me, but do more for someone else really hurt. I don't expect him to be at my bec and call. but when you don't ask for something and finally do, and they fall flat, it sucks.
He probably won't be getting anything after that comment for a while. I certainly would have that comment in the back of my mind any time he initiated
One month with this girl is more than enough. Don’t waste any more of your time.
She has a good life despite you, not because of you. That is at least how Julia feels about I assume.
Owning up to your make mistakes and saying sorry comes a long way for forgiveness. With time she might forgive you and you and her can have some sort of relationship.
a desire for that is usually a porn addiction. anyone who cannot masturbate without it and feel a need/ temptation to watch it if they go a couple days without it are addicted. people are just in denial, at least i can admit it and fixed it. everytime someone asks if i’d be interested i nope out of that. not being with someone who lacks sexual control or awareness, it’s pathetic now that i got better.
Thats what i am trying to convince myself in my mind thats its not my fault. I guess i was so dependent on him, i obey him so much, whatever he said i did. Today i am literally fucked with no one by my side. Its time to face the world and i am definitely not up for it. Btw thank you so much for replying
You get my point though. By your own admission you've had lots of failed relationships. But, everyone always thinks the current one will last. I bet you thought that about the past ones, too. They last until they don't.
Some parts of this relationship I enjoy. But I’m starting to think if I am the problem and I’m the one who causes problems. I’m not sure what to think about things. I feel somewhat scared inside.
and her sons dad who is a diabolical pos
If he’s that bad, why did she have a kid with him??
Is her going to a clothing optional bar cheating? That’s what she chose to do. The question is would you have been okay with it regardless of what happened.
Is some guy grinding on her without her consent cheating? No it’s assault.
You do both.
i did a deep dive in your comments on reddit. (i’m sick and can’t do anything today).
5 years ago, you complained of recurring nightmares where your girlfriend leaves you for another guy. Why would you want to make that a reality for someone you love?
4 years ago you had a live-in girlfriend of 2.5 years who come out as bisexual and didn’t want to date you anymore.
You say u see a problem but if im not being forced to do anything and we are both enjoying ourselves then what problem are u seeing?
From the responses you’re being given and your absolute rebuttal of every opinion, you don’t want advice. All you want is someone to tell you that you’re doing the right thing.
Which tells me you are NOT ready for a relationship with an “adult”.
30-24 is the same age gap but not creepy. You’re a high school age child having sex with an adult that been out of high school for at least 5 years. You’re probably not the first or the last child he’s put his dick in.
yeah, he phrased his problem in a very misogynistic way.
Good idea, talk with the cheater and liar first so she can try to manipulate him and gaslight him.
Reddit always with the best advice.
Your entire post.
Why do you think she was treated bad?
Well chances are she has someone else in mind so is now not sure about you. If she doesn't want to move in together, don't move in together. You are young with plenty of time to find the right person for you. Back off and see what she does. Also check around and see if she has become interested in some One else.
The problem with LDRs is that they can lead to wondering interest in other people.
To be a serial monogamous like you say you need to play the field while on a relationship. You may be more special but I wouldn’t think too much of his gestures unless you’re aiming for heartbreak.
I've seen vagina pancakes on the dontputyourdickinit sub. They looked good. Also seen dick pancakes
Your cell service provider can give you the numbers and frequency of texts and calls. When you’ve gathered proof and re-confront her but she still denies things then tell her she can be single to go with independence. Now see how she responds then set boundaries.
He can't make either but he eats both and probably enjoys them. if it was an issue he wouldn't be with you. You could have clapped back with a sausage joke to even the score. I don't think he had any ill intent but then I don't know how your relationship goes. Don't listen to people that say break up over this little thing if it isn't something ongoing. Just talk it out with him if everyone broke up for every dumb out of timing thing thier parthner said then no one would be in relationships. Obviously it bothered you so you two should have a nice long talk about it !