So, this may be an over share, but I have a terrible picker when it comes to partners.
If they are unstable, controlling, or dysfunctional, I will be weirdly drawn to them and my picker will go ‘oh yeah! That’s the one!’ and I’m strangely drawn to them.
If they are stable, calm, rational, and all the good things, my picker will go ‘yawn, move on.’
I have to remind myself that if I’m NOT into them, they’re probably a good match and if I’m super into them, they probably aren’t. It’s backwards, I know, but I’m wondering if you could have a bit of the same.
Believe I’ve thought about walking out. It’s just I genuinely believed him when he said he will be more mindful and change. But a recent event has been the last straw. And I was hoping to read someone that would say otherwise for my sanity.
I know how it looks but she is the most trustworthy person I know. I would like to believe her that curiosity and jealousy got the better of her. Still not excusable.
Check out the dead bedrooms sub. This isn’t going to get any better. Just because you aren’t having sexy doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have any affection. It sound like you two aren’t compatible.
I'd say the odds these stories are real are 98:1
So, this may be an over share, but I have a terrible picker when it comes to partners.
If they are unstable, controlling, or dysfunctional, I will be weirdly drawn to them and my picker will go ‘oh yeah! That’s the one!’ and I’m strangely drawn to them.
If they are stable, calm, rational, and all the good things, my picker will go ‘yawn, move on.’
I have to remind myself that if I’m NOT into them, they’re probably a good match and if I’m super into them, they probably aren’t. It’s backwards, I know, but I’m wondering if you could have a bit of the same.
Believe I’ve thought about walking out. It’s just I genuinely believed him when he said he will be more mindful and change. But a recent event has been the last straw. And I was hoping to read someone that would say otherwise for my sanity.
I know how it looks but she is the most trustworthy person I know. I would like to believe her that curiosity and jealousy got the better of her. Still not excusable.
you had his baby…and he cares about a …parking pass as a 1st priority?
Even if she pays you back, do you really want to marry a person like this?
It is sexual harassment to refer to co-workers genitals
You can't even imagine bruh
Check out the dead bedrooms sub. This isn’t going to get any better. Just because you aren’t having sexy doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have any affection. It sound like you two aren’t compatible.
You’re not his life partner.
You’re his bit of fun until he marries whoever his parents tell him to.
Particularly if this wasn’t a one time overreaction on her part, you absolutely made the right decision.
This for me would be a divorce situation tbh
Yes. Yes you should.
Hopefully, if he is lucky, he'll realize in a few years how backwards his views are. Otherwise he'll be a misogynist idiot forever
It sure sounds like it ?
I guess hindsight is 20/20 but damn, was there really ever good times?
She sounds awful ☹️
OP doesn't talk about the siblings taking the test. Only her and her dad