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It is wrong. He's investing time and care into another woman. They are both setting up the ground work to cheat in the future regardless if it's emotional or physical. I'd get her # and keep for your records. Then have a private conversation with your husband. Tell him you find it inappropriate he's investing so much of himself emotionally and giving another woman so much of f his time. Especially her being so young, what do they have in common? See how he reacts. Does he get defensive & try to turn it around or does he understand this makes you uncomfortable and willing to nip it in the butt without you asking him. He's a grown man, so I won't pretend that he doesn't know right from wrong. Get a couples therapy session scheduled because this is probably the result of something else he's not addressing. And that phone number you kept, keep an eye on your phone bill to see if he's still in contact. Don't tell him how you know but if he denies it let him know that you are not the one lying here. If he knows how he'll just switch to a different method that's harder to catch.
So this guy is just manipulative and guilting ypu into sex. That's bullshit and you should call him out on it. You don't owe him sex and him guilting you is destructive to the relationship.
To be clear, lots of people guilt their partners regardless of sex.
There’s a legendary song titled “when a man loves a woman” and there’s a part that goes “ if she’s bad, he can’t see it, she can do no wrong, and turns his back on his best friend if he puts her down.”
First off I’m sorry this is happening to you. I think your husband deserves to know. You should tell him. His reaction is up to him but you could express that you don’t want to cause any rift between him and his mother but you needed to say that you were hurt.
It sounds like she liked you when you worked together, then she went to school, life happened, and now she’s meh about it. Don’t drive yourself crazy. Wait for her to contact you. Don’t overthink anything, and don’t be desperate.
Told my boyfriend I loved him about a year before he started saying it. He has a history of very bad relationships so he obviously wasn't ready. Didn't change how I felt. Now, after 3 years together, he doesn't stop telling me how much he loves me.
People move at their own pace. Don't let his pace influence how you feel. You love that man and continue to respect his pace. He'll get there
I’m planning on doing this but I’ll try to hold on to her as well . Her words made me cry for the first time in a couple of years since my late uncle passed away
warn him that his affair partner will be publicaly shame all along the holiday party. you will tell to everybody and at her in particular.
I hope she leaves you dude lmao you’re insane
Ha ha you are a terrible poker player,making a bluff that you cannot sustain
She's a keeper bro. Put a ring on her.
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Are you getting your own alone-time needs met?
Thats what paternity tests are for!
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You're too easily accessible. Do to him what he does to you and see how he responds or ask him the tough questions.
It was on you to make sure the time off “didn't take”. You can tell your boss, but most likely you'll have to work given that other people have these days off now.
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to be fair, the vitamins were to help with specific mental issues, so there was some thought. but i. personally don’t believe that vitamins will fix something alone, therefore barring it useless.
I am planning on talking to her. Just trying to figure out how to bring it all up since we’ve lacked communication and have been trying to work on it.
I agree with your insight on feeling like they don’t care. thank you for validating me 🙂
I don’t think you’re understanding the situation. She didn’t ask my bf for his number and to get coffee. My boyfriend asked her for her number and to get coffee. How she feels about me has nothing to do with it. He wants to hangout with her alone and didn’t tell me
I can’t even with this.
I talk at her all the time. She stonewalls me. I am at fault for it. I’m working on making it better. It’s naked work and I have little patience. I will do it though
You can be a nice person but still stand up to people who have lied and abused your trust.
The 2 are not mutually exclusive.
This is exactly it. OP he’s not distant because you’re the bottom in your relationship, he likely doesn’t care at all about that.
I am a parent (four kids, two of them teens) and can tell you with certainty that if you were my kid (straight or not) and your new boyfriend said that at our dinner table it would take a really long time for me to get over it. Like, it would just make me not like him.
His comment was crass and disrespectful to everyone there—including you. And that’s probably the part that’s bothering your dad the most. He most likely is disappointed that this is the guy/relationship you’re investing your time in getting to know, and is worried about the quality of the relationship and your experience. He might be worried that you’re picking up “bad habits” from this guy.
If he said this about my kid, in front of me and my family, at my dinner table, I would think he was not a very nice fellow at all.
Is he a very nice fellow, OP? Really ask yourself.
Yeah I wouldn’t put up with that. You should sit her down and tell her how you feel. She shouldn’t be isolating you from your friends either.
I’m not saying dump her but if nothing changes after so long then we’ll… maybe.
Once upon a time, a long long time ago, someone phrased guidence against this problem in the words: Thou shalt not covet
Is a baby now going to interrupt her career?
There aren’t any bridges to burn because you don’t have a bridge with your siblings. Even then I’m pretty sure they will try to reach out during the holidays asking for expensive gifts for their children because “you owe it to them For neglecting them all year” or doesn’t the like them saying something like “it’s your job to pay for them to go to college because you have money and no kids their age themselves” Your parents are ah. They are afraid to hurt your sisters feelings but not yours? And you don’t need your parents permission to do anything. I would just block your sisters. Or treat them like they treat you next time they organize a family dinner and tell you with no notice give them a stupid answer like “can’t will be washing my hair” “can’t I can’t miss my bed time” and then stop responding. If you want to see your parents you can always just drop by with food and eat with them or invite them out to eat. If they show up with your siblings you can get up and leave or you just pay for you and your parents if they complain just remind them that you didn’t invite them. It seems like you have really tried to be part of their lives which is nice but not necessary. I get your mom trying to play mediator but I would just tell her “mom, dad I love you. This or the last time we are having this conversation. I have tried for years to have a relationship with them and you have seen how often they just refuse to have a relationship with me. They are adults that’s their right. It’s also my right to stop trying. I give up they win from not on I will refer to myself as an only child. I don’t need you accept this but I do need you to respect my decision. I know you don’t care if you lose your relationship with me as long as you get to be in my sisters life and their kids, so I’m really trying for it not to get there. But if you bring this up or try in any way to meddle in this I will cut contact with you guys.” And just txt your sisters before you block them “I have always wanted a family to love me, with parents and siblings who would at least pretend not to play favorites but I can see that’s never going to be the case. I hope when I have my own family to treat them better than how I am treated. And don’t worry you won’t be meeting them as far as they are concern I will be an only child. Because I deserve better than you two I will now be blocking you and pretending you don’t exist. Good luck to you and your families” then go out and make friends and make your own family.
Why? She did it before she was with him
Thank you for your insight. I understand what you mean. The “God’s plan” thing was coming more from a humor angle—I was just happy I didn’t have to deal with that anymore and didn’t press into it too much. I honestly hadn’t thought about him much at all these past months until he approached me at the bar. Now I know I was right in my initial instinct and will never be engaging with that again. He seems unstable, and I have no desire to play with fire.
Why did he do it? Because he can. Because he's single and that's how he feels and he doesn't have to cater to your feelings because you're an ex-girlfriend.
Ah. Love vs in love. Are you in love?
You cannot convice your mother that any addict is going to be a good father.
She has seen enough news stories about women and children being killed. Just because it doesn't happen to every eoman with a husband on cocaine doesn't mean it can't happen to you.
For my ex it was meth and we didn't have a child together. It was naked to leave him, i still love him. But when he got out of jail he wanted his buddies. Not to hang with, not to catch up with but to get high.
He was going to love meth first above all else. I had to leave
If you’re not satisfied, and the arrangement is lasting longer than you’d like, maybe it’s time to decide if it’s a dealbreaker.
What’s the red flag, like what can you tell from that out of interest? What makes you say it
Break it off and go nc and see if your presence will be missed enough for a comeback lol
You didn’t really choose a dog over your bf. He projected his own issues and anger onto an innocent animal, showed his true colors, and the trash took itself out.
There isn’t a lot of info here, but I’d guess is it was never really about the dog (it doesn’t sound like the dog was really doing anything out of the ordinary for a dog), but that he saw you cared about the dog and knew he could hurt you that way. Maybe he didn’t like you having emotional support apart from him.
I don’t think you understand what premeditated means. I don’t think it’s coordination, i think if the husband had not done it then his dad or brothers would have done it. They DO NOT tolerate that behavior in any way, shape or form. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m saying i understand.
Thank you. Was me giving her “space” today by not sending a followup text a bad move on my part?
Tbf I would think that this might be some one purposely trying to ruin the relationship. Either they don't like him, or are jealous he's with some one. Hence why when you further ask them for details on the incidents that supposedly happened, they stopped responding.
I'd say bring it up to him, because it regardless if he did do it or not, it's involving him. He might know who possibly made the post, and why.
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You’re not wrong!! Was very quick!! Felt like I was sucker punched.
The quickness of it all has me wondering if I’m chasing the emotions of it all or if I really care for her.
We both kinda love bombed each other. Buuutttt the things in common, the interests, the life goals, also the patterns and what not were kinda trippy?
When I really give this whole thing a thought, I do care. When she crosses my mind I and hoping she is safe regardless of our outcome.
I really think she thinks I would end up hurt by the whole situation:/
Sooooo seems real? but I do have my guard up:P
That’s entirely up to you. The majority of comments are people who were cheated on and are still scorned. They go into new relationships with old baggage and wonder why everything is fucked up.
While it’s not common there are people who have given their relationship another chance and are doing better then ever that entirely depends on the person. If you feel like you can forgive and want to make it work then by all means please do but seriously take some time and think about this because it isn’t always as simple as that and if you cannot see yourself ever forgiving and continuously hurting then I would walk away.
You’re gonna get a lot of she knows she’s fat. You don’t need to tell her. But sometimes. Yes we do. I told my husband after many failed attempts that I love him. I’m not leaving. But I need a healthy partner. Someone who can keep up with our activities. I need a partner who loves himself enough to stay healthy. For him. Our kids. Us. I said I want a partner who prioritizes his health and body so we can have a long and healthy life together. I’ll do whatever I can to help but ultimately. This is his journey. It took Awhile. But he did it. Started taking walks. Eating less. I encourage him. Build him up. Join him. But this is her choice. She may not be ready to face it.
It’s a more major holiday in some countries (where you’d see holiday sales, etc.), and unknown in others. Just depends where you on-line.
Give him the ring back, keep everything else.
If he’s a dangerous person, do your best to move. If you can’t, try to rally your support people. Maybe ask someone to stay with you for a bit for safety reasons. Men kill women all the time in situations eerily similar to yours.
Oof. You’re gonna have a bad time on Reddit today.
It's concerning that she lied about it. Yeah “my past is my past” but when you're currently lying about the past, it's not in the past anymore. Plus it's important cuz it's your best friend. Not everyone is comfortable with dating someone their friends or family has been intimate with. For some people that's a weird feeling and thats ok. I would ask the friend for the truth cuz she has already lied and might lie again. Also ask the friend why he didn't tell you. They BOTH should have told you.
Are you sure he's not on social media? It really sounds like you're the side piece.
I'm willing to bet he has a fb account or something that he has either blocked you from or is just hiding from you.
We're generally talking about no more than 20-30 minutes, which seems to be quite difficult for her. I see what you're saying though that I really can't give her the support she needs even if I were to try until I'm able to calm down. Thank you for pointing this out.
Why are you accepting this as what you deserve? 7 years may feel like a long time but don't waste 7 more with this dud. He's showing you, over and over again that he wants someone else. When are you going to listen? When are you going to value yourself enough to say I deserve better than this?
A good therapist can help you.
Listen to your sister.
We weren't having sex, but he was fingering and I needed him to stop because it was hurting. He has explained why he didn't stop:
This situation has happened several times, where I would be in pain. Most of the time, we stop for a minute or so, and continue, and the pain reduces. However, when we continued this time, it didn't stop. I told him to stop because it hurts, and he basically, tried to give it a go hoping that the pain would go and he could pleasure me. I guess what I meant by emergency was that I needed him to stop because it really hurt.
I think it was more of a situation where I realised I had absolutely no way of conveying that I *need* this thing to stop right now
Because she has twin babies you walnut?
Go to a priest, Rabbi, your other spiritual advisor, confess to them. Never tell your wife anything about this affair. Do everything you can to be a husband worthy of her love, and the love of your children. Your guilt should not destroy her.
They can tell you which type you have. Some are relatively harmless. If she had the high risk cancer type she might have said something
Will that make it less likely for us to have a shot?
Don't do it! Also if you do marry her (which I strongly advise against), get her to sign a prenup. She's after your money, not you.
Trust your gut. If something feels off, something is probably off. It is possible he found the accounts through random searches. It's also possible he found them elsewhere and then added them on TT. It's very possible he's messaging with these accounts as you have to be mutuals on TT to message back forth.
Either way, you get to decide what you're comfortable with in a relationship, but that might mean not being with this person. You need to talk to him and tell him you find what he's doing inappropriate and are afraid he's cheating. Do not let him gaslight you! But you two need to figure out what you both find acceptable in a partner. I would also be upset if I found what you did. In the end, you kind of need to confront him and get this figured out.
I will do it But first o have to end my course, ends in a month, it’s his birthday days after I will bring it up
Ouch I’m sorry that sounds like it hurts. Why did you break up initially? The fact that she’s willing to see you/hookup with you means her door isn’t completely closed, however there’s still a solid chance she’s going to never truly pick you and you’re going to end up very hurt by continuing to have a relationship with her. I think you need to consider the risk/reward here and just know that you might end up hurt either way.
It’s tough, but you’ll be alright. I believe it.
You are seriously insecure and controlling. Your gf told you that she felt pressured to give her number. Guys who keep pressuring girls for their numbers have been known to get more volatile.
What you should have done is been understanding, like a supportive bf should have been when his gf has been hounded for her phone number at a club. Instead, you blame her and go around saying she was borderline cheating with you. She obviously didn't want to, she told you about it soon after, not weeks after, and didn't carry on some sort of malicious intent conversation with this dude for weeks. She told you she felt ashamed and you go on thinking “my girl almost cheated” the fuck are you on?
I hope she sees how controlling your actions are and takes a good long look at yalls relationship.
End the relationship. If you have problems like that from now when you get in the long distance relationship it is going to be hell.
of course!
when you’re ready. when you’ve changed out if your pjs ?