Thanks for your insight. There's definitely something going on. Not that I've been keeping track, but I've noticed he'll very rarely poop at home when I'm there and will lock the door and light a match after he's done. Though normally, he'll seem to hold it or go out alone and poop somewhere. I wonder if it's a shame thing for him
It’s not a confidence thing so much as I don’t want him to think I’m mean, im always very conscious about how others perceive my kindness/firmness. I don’t like being called mean or angry when im not trying to be 🙁
I find it weird that a non family member is in a family chat but that's just me. It's on your boyfriend to include you in the family chat. If he doesn't want to include you after 3 years you have to decide if he doesn't see a future with you and vice versa.
Look, how you’re feeling is legitimate but it’s also a ‘the grass is greener on the other side’.
If you want to be with other guys you need to break up. There’s no coming back from telling your partner “You’re not enough for me” which is 100% how he will interpret it.
If you don’t want to settle down and get married right away, cool, let him know that but don’t tear out his heart by stating the actual reason you expressed here.
Again, you are totally valid in wanting to experience new things you never had the chance to and breaking up to go after them is ok.
Expecting this guy to wait around after you’ve shown with your words and actions that he’s not enough is absurd.
Are references not a thing where you are? Surely he needed to wait for a reference from current employers to be requested and received by the potential new employer before a formal offer of the job is provided? I've always known the first offers mention “dependent on references”. It's why we don't all leave our jobs in this fashion, as satisfying as it would be!
Not gonna comment on everything else, because I just feel uncomfortable commenting this…
But know that the “day after pill” works by delaying ovulation, if she has already ovulated, then there is a chance that she might still get pregnant.
Did you cum inside when the condom came off?
Thanks for your insight. There's definitely something going on. Not that I've been keeping track, but I've noticed he'll very rarely poop at home when I'm there and will lock the door and light a match after he's done. Though normally, he'll seem to hold it or go out alone and poop somewhere. I wonder if it's a shame thing for him
Tell him to grow the fuck up. Also, just because you’ve been together for two years doesn’t mean you can’t break up
It’s not a confidence thing so much as I don’t want him to think I’m mean, im always very conscious about how others perceive my kindness/firmness. I don’t like being called mean or angry when im not trying to be 🙁
I find it weird that a non family member is in a family chat but that's just me. It's on your boyfriend to include you in the family chat. If he doesn't want to include you after 3 years you have to decide if he doesn't see a future with you and vice versa.
Age gap. Sexual assault. What do you think you should do??
This might be the answer…
Look, how you’re feeling is legitimate but it’s also a ‘the grass is greener on the other side’.
If you want to be with other guys you need to break up. There’s no coming back from telling your partner “You’re not enough for me” which is 100% how he will interpret it.
If you don’t want to settle down and get married right away, cool, let him know that but don’t tear out his heart by stating the actual reason you expressed here.
Again, you are totally valid in wanting to experience new things you never had the chance to and breaking up to go after them is ok.
Expecting this guy to wait around after you’ve shown with your words and actions that he’s not enough is absurd.
Are references not a thing where you are? Surely he needed to wait for a reference from current employers to be requested and received by the potential new employer before a formal offer of the job is provided? I've always known the first offers mention “dependent on references”. It's why we don't all leave our jobs in this fashion, as satisfying as it would be!