youre insecure because she wants to flirt and make romantic overtures at other men. even if this is just for money, if youre not okay with it then its not okay and she needs to decide whats more important: your relationship or this career. if she had been doing it before you started dating it would be different
When drunk he makes time for you, when he’s not drunk he doesn’t. Could be he’s shy, busy, or just lonely when drunk looking for anyone to talk to. But those reasons don’t matter because even if he did like you, he’s not making time for you when it matters. And if you start out a relationship pushing for him to make time for you, or accepting that he won’t, either they’ll resent you or you’ll resent them. Better to move on.
He knew you at 15? Sounds a lot like you got groomed.
Get an abortion. Don't bring a kid into this world with a guy who is too ashamed of you to introduce to his parents. Certainly don't stay in a relationship with him.
Don’t tell her. The fact that he’s trying to get back with you means he’ll react badly if you tell her and he works out it’s you. He would make your life hell at best and potentially physically harm you.
Usually I’d always suggest telling the wife but never when your ex is a police officer.
youre insecure because she wants to flirt and make romantic overtures at other men. even if this is just for money, if youre not okay with it then its not okay and she needs to decide whats more important: your relationship or this career. if she had been doing it before you started dating it would be different
Maybe learn not to be an asshole and you can have friends!
So his thinking is correct, he just shouldn’t have said it out loud at the funeral. Got it.
When drunk he makes time for you, when he’s not drunk he doesn’t. Could be he’s shy, busy, or just lonely when drunk looking for anyone to talk to. But those reasons don’t matter because even if he did like you, he’s not making time for you when it matters. And if you start out a relationship pushing for him to make time for you, or accepting that he won’t, either they’ll resent you or you’ll resent them. Better to move on.
This is the answer you were looking for, OP
He knew you at 15? Sounds a lot like you got groomed.
Get an abortion. Don't bring a kid into this world with a guy who is too ashamed of you to introduce to his parents. Certainly don't stay in a relationship with him.
Don’t tell her. The fact that he’s trying to get back with you means he’ll react badly if you tell her and he works out it’s you. He would make your life hell at best and potentially physically harm you.
Usually I’d always suggest telling the wife but never when your ex is a police officer.