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Date: November 17, 2022
The fact it upsets your BF and even makes his cousin walk off means this isn't just a casual thing but actual physical abuse.
I don't know what the advice should be, other than letting him know he doesn't need to be treated like that. And shame on his father for not stepping in too (pretty much all the shame to the mother obviously.)
People like his mother need to be shamed into changing their behaviour. They need that circle of judgement, the embarrassment and shaming from their peers.
That just feels like the right thing to do. She has told me that if I am anything but honest with her from this point out then we are done.
Simple , if he REALLY loves you , he will have child with you . Damn 17 years that's enough man to playing around and get up to start real family.
Damn.. Well
My boyfriend isn't much of a social media type of gal ether, it took me a year of patience before he posted me, but thats not even close to your case is it?
Idk how many people will agree with me, but I've seen a lot of things and you ether sit down, talk with him about it (calmly but show your worth), ask why he even had them up the first place, suddenly he isn't into Instagram anymore? There might be a bigger meaning behind it, could also be because he really isn't into Instagram anymore (depends how much he posts)
IMO, dating someone who still has pictures of his ex-gf is a huge red flag, mostly because he isn't over her and wants someone to ether make her ex jealous or just use you, i would bee a bit sceptic about this and definitely talk to him about this.
Yeah seconding the don’t shoot your shot thing. You had your shot… when he didn’t have a girlfriend.
I was on the other side of this with my now fiancé when we first started dating. A female friend of his (who also had a boyfriend…) came out of the woodwork with “feelings for him” a month or so into us dating. She completely devalued the connection he and I had to all their mutual friends by saying things like she knew him “sooo much better than I did” and I “didn’t deserve him.” She didn’t even give me a chance.
And guess what? When she finally gave him an ultimatum he cut her off. I felt bad because this was someone who he thought was a genuine, close, platonic friend who wanted the best for him. Her behavior was so completely disrespectful to our relationship but also to her and her boyfriend’s. Friends don’t make friends choose between them and happiness, don’t pretend to be someone’s friend if you’re really just waiting for them to ask you out.
She never forgot, she was hoping you would.
You tested her she failed and probably lied to you about the cancer. With that in mind your 33 she's 22. The relationship wasn't going to last. you're both immature, she kinda has an excuse, you on the other hand at 33 might want to think through your life choices that led you here. I'd suggest moving on.
I am a girl gamer msyelf and we play together every minute we can. I also have male gaming buddies and he has female friends with who I have no problem with, as they were his friends before we met. I guess I somewhat could be afraid of making new friends, because I don't care or want to make new male friends myself.
Also I think what is a bad point here is that we are in long distance relationship in which we see once a year so it is mostly online.
You should start out-farting him – let's see how funny he finds it when you're the one being gross. I have a couple of friends where their (now ex) bf/ husband found it funny to fart, but totally disgusting when she did it. Tell him you'll stop when he stops – and then either you will have a pretty explosive relationship, or you'll both go back to squeezing your ass-cheeks tight.
I’ve been in this situation, and sadly the thing I had to do was get a different job. There was so much drama and gossip that I would have panic shits. Hold your head up and start looking
The “risk injury or death by being alone” was probably not even possible. I had oral surgery a few days ago, and they wouldn’t even start the procedure without having a person to drive/watch me after.
You’re going to have to just ask him, sounds like you’re not exactly on the same page if you were expecting to be invited and he never mentioned it…
Thank you 🙂 This was helpful!
That's so he can keep controlling / manipulating you. If you go he has to start over with a new victim
Do you want it? You don't need a reason one way or the other just.. do you?
Sounds like you already have this one settled and its a yes.
The next is, looking back do you regret not giving more? Do you have the capacity or willingness to give more now? If yes then proceed if not then…
If you really gave it your all and look back with no regrets then the last part is. Are they willing to put in more effort/change? If not then… no dont do it.
Well, now you see how that turned out. You got exactly what you deserved
Everyone is saying it is manipulative but i think i have a different idea of what manipulative means. Can you explain to me what is manipulative about my behavior please?
Maybe press him on the assault thing. Ask him if he is going to press charges. Gauge his response. If he doesn’t want to, see if it seems like he doesn’t want to because it would be embarrassing as a man to admit he was assaulted, or if it seems like he doesn’t want to because he would be lying. You know your boyfriend well enough to tell the difference.
I used to drink a lot, and would black out, and could still remember snippets of the night, in and out, so I can see that being possible. I also made a lot of stupid decisions and definitely have woken up in the middle of sex acts I didn’t consent to – the only difference being, as a woman, I didn’t leave when I snapped out of it because I thought it would be less safe to try to leave the situation than to let it happen.
Bottom line – no matter what happened, only you know whether or not you can recover from this, and it wouldn’t be fair to either of you to try to make it work if you know you’ll never be able to see him in the same light again.
Is not about him being a guy or not. She says she has a bad temper but also says her temper comes from him not helping around. If he was afraid for his safety you would think he would try and avoid the situation that causes her temper. Not sit back and let her do everything with excuses.
Show him this thread….. your post and responses to comments might be easier for him to understand what you are thinking.
I would first make sure this is something you absolutely want, enough to risk the entire relationship for it. Opening up a relationship almost always ends in jealousy, heartbreak and eventually breaking up. You need to both be into the idea, and have extremely good communication.
Personally if my partner asked me to open up the relationship because they wanted more variety in their sex life it would make me extremely insecure and I’d probably break up with them. Also, you need to consider the idea of her being with different people. Can you handle her smiling and knowing it’s because she spent the night somewhere else? Can you handle having trouble finding dates while she’s rotating between five partners?
That’s exactly what I’m doing
When you’re terrified it’s very hot to move or speak
No, if he’s being honest about what he wants from you and you’re not, it’s not fair to him. It’s not friendship if you’re only around waiting for him to change his mind. If you aren’t okay being just friends, then don’t be.
Please, you must leave him. He is toxic for you.
He is 34, goes after a 11 younger woman and complains that she is immature?! Hello?! with 23 you can be immature. And what you described isn't really “immature” it is just you being you. He belittles you for just being yourself or scting your age. He complains about your stomach? It is pretty normal to have a stomach! As if he is perfect. But his little young doll need to look perfect on the outside. Why else would he go for such a young woman?
He is an abuser. He destroys your self-esteem with his words, make you use to his insults. And of course he always love-bombs you when he treated you like shit, otherwise you would run away. But you need to run away. He doesn't love you, doesn't care for you. He just use you. And important: he has no respect for you!
You deserve so much better.
How am I leeching off my dad? Were you fully independent the very second you turned 18? How the hell do some of you even expect people my age to be self sufficient as if things aren’t 10x more expensive now. Sorry I can’t afford a one bedroom and college tuition like in your time.
So, you married an older, bisexual pole-dancer after knowing her 6 months. You’re in the military with little control over how much you can be home and she’s alone in a new place, a new parent, jobless, profoundly depressed and hyper-fixated on you as the reason for her misery and will not seek treatment or participate in activities that would create alternative experiences to being stuck at home.
Well… that’s a tall hill to climb.
Honestly, I’d talk to a lawyer.
If she’s American then she probably doesn’t understand honestly. Not to be rude but I’m a American and went to Mexico to stay with my ex husband’s family and there they had a aunt like your sister and who had a 15 year old daughter because she had gotten raped in the American facility they had her in. When she seen that she was pregnant and nonverbal so she couldn’t consent then they took her and left to take care of her and now her daughter at home. This girlfriend needs to see how common this is in the states and should be more understanding about keeping her at home where she is protected by family.
Husband decides they need to separate finances. This leads to wife going back to work, since etc.
Your husband is 16 years older than you, a drug addict, and yells and calls you names while trying to prevent you from a relationship with your dad. He's getting in your head and he's not even around.
I'm sorry about your dog, but while your husband is gone detoxing buy yourself some groceries, and take a bit not to feel lonely, but feel how it is to not be walking on eggshells around someone in your home. That feeling is what it is to not feel abused.
But He Is InSeCuRe FrOm TrAuMa, as if that gives you an excuse to create trauma for someone else.
EXACTLY!!! ?
thanks for the reply .
NOPE. Too many emotional land mines are here. Don’t do it dude, this chick will blow up your relationship with your best friend whether she intends it or not. Plus, you’re too old for her. Imagine dating someone in their first year of college when you’re 25… she’s basically still learning to drive lol.
Yes that makes sense and I would never in our 2 years of being together and our 4 years of friendship I never yelled or raised my voice I try to stay calm cause yelling only leads to more problems I learned that from being raised in a rough household
I’d say America is a better country than my home country but yes only the liberal part? I don’t really want to move to a conservative state indeed.
I was in a relationship like this where I was in your girlfriend’s position, it was the most demoralizing and exhausting experience of my life to walk on eggshells to attempt to protect his feelings, which didn’t work anyways.
Example: one day while we were studying for a class we shared i gave him “a look” that he interpreted as me thinking he was stupid. He didn’t say this at the time but then brought it up an hour later and i had to spend HOURS of my time talking about this incident in detail and reassuring him that I didn’t think he was stupid.
Shit like that got old pretty damn fast and I will never let myself be in that situation again, because i reduced my own feelings and thoughts as to not upset him, and then literally was just lying when I reassured him because I didn’t actually like him anymore due to his behavior.
I’ve seen you’ve gotten some good advice in the comments, so please try to fix this, because this type of insecurity will DESTROY relationships.
Even beyond all the income details and job loss, that was so so disrespectful. The fact that he just tossed the towel at your feet like you’re so beneath him. Fuck him. I would never treat ANYONE that way, let alone a significant other.
It’s clear he’s loving you losing your job so he can have a slave in the house
People grow out of love. If he isn’t feeling it, it’s better to move on.
You're right. I don't owe him anything. I am just not sure if it would help me find closure or not if I'd to meet him again. Maybe it would also make things worse than right now. It's already a pretty big mess.
Don't lump all men in with your shenanigans. I know the difference of betraying my SO's trust. Flirting with another woman with the intention of having sex with her is cheating. You don't need to have sex in order for it to be cheating.
ask her about starting with a threesome with both of you and another guy, Her choice of what guy. would that work for you?
LoL
And you are stupid if you belueve that saying
I still have issues with it over a decade after giving birth to my kids. I can not breathe if I smell smoke.
Split all the bills and chores down the middle except personal bills
You parents are pretending to want to fix the family, when really what they want is to fix THEIR family life. If they cared enough about you, thayd get that they should be trying to make you happy too. And if going your own way makes you happy, they should support it. Maybe they cant fix your shitty sisters, but they can still support you.
Curious if she also does his laundry and does all the house cleaning too.
Don’t pay. If half the mortgage is being paid on your back, you deserve equity. If he wants a partnership, he should act like it. Propose that you are willing to pay a reasonable rent amount.
You didn't list them so I'm going off what you said. Clearly the birthday thing matters the most because it's the only thing you deemed worth mentioning.
Lmao that’s what happens when you date strippers.
oh i’m so sorry for not reading that properly that’s my fault! my priorities are the usual work and building a life with someone. i spend a lot of time with friends but yeah not really sure how to answer all of that
oh i’m so sorry for not reading that properly that’s my fault! my priorities are the usual work and building a life with someone. i spend a lot of time with friends but yeah not really sure how to answer all of that
oh i’m so sorry for not reading that properly that’s my fault! my priorities are the usual work and building a life with someone. i spend a lot of time with friends but yeah not really sure how to answer all of that
It doesn’t feel like this when you fall in love just so you know. And it may be exciting sexually that you experienced but I don’t think you really like it. I wouldn’t pursue the relationship anymore. When you really phone number for Samantha, that’s good for you. It’s much, it’s not so toxic.
This is a situation where I actually disagree with reversing the sexes to drive the point home, mainly because I'm not sure of a proper comparison. To be fair, more context is necessary, because I'd love to know how that got brought up to begin with. If she brought it up on her own, then yeah, I'd be pissed in OP's shoes, because it's meant to be an insult. He'll have to let us know.
I get that penis size is a big insecurity in men (source: am a man). I certainly can't sit here and argue that many men are afraid to be insecure out of an inherent assumption that they need to be “manly,” but to suggest they're “not allowed” isn't really fair. Either way, that's not the problem here. If OP's insecure that he doesn't measure up to his girlfriend's exes, then he's entitled to be insecure about it.
I'm not arguing that. My argument is that it's unnecessary. To quickly tie back to what I said earlier, if she was a legitimate asshole about it and was talking down to him, then again, this is a different story. But if we're really just talking about facts; that her exes were large, then sure, he can be insecure about it, but what's the end game?
They're getting married. Unless she's miserable sexually (which I did ask a number of times in my comment and haven't heard back), then what's there to be insecure about?
Either way, even if I'm here arguing points with you, I actually think you and me are on the same side here. We need more information.
More sex. If you have sex again within a few hours he should last longer…at least that’s my 50+ year old experience with boyfriend in same age range.
This is so weird!! I'm sorry, I can only speak from my own experience but my partner is an avid runner and participates in races 1-2 a month. I go to every single race and it's thrilling to watch him accomplish something! I love cheering him on and taking photos at the finish line. Your husband honestly sounds like a jerk. Why is the bar so low? Your partner SHOULD be supportive.
Well I never thought I’d form a sentencr like this in my life but, how does the foot look? Looks like belong to a younger person?
Be very very careful. Don’t tell her you’re leaving if possible. Also, stay vigilant. She will attempt to get you back. When you refuse she will resort to other methods. Make sure she can’t find you. BPDs are impulsive and unhinged. While in these “BPD RAGES” they do not think nor care about long term consequences