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Date: November 7, 2022
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No you're definitely right, we've gotten to that point where I'm like damn i super super love you like that won't change at all but like…damn i need to keep hanging out with my friends too sometimes. Like i can on-line with you for sure but I need some variety in people.
I think that's a super good point, she has pretty low self esteem in general and she gets a lot more excited emotionally or otherwise when she feels like she's being doted on, spoiled, complimented etc i mean like most people do. Maybe doubling down on that making her feel wanted/safe/valuable to me is a good place to start
Because there are often a lot of work related conversations and people can feel left out? Where I’m from it’s generally the norm that partners don’t come to work Xmas parties
Get the landlord and talk to them about the house you're renting. Also why the fuck did you start dating a guy in his late 30s, early 40s when you were 19?!?
And why are you still there with him?
Thank you for your honesty! I mentioned to someone above that I felt like my friends have been too nice to me and not holding me accountable for how I acted. Hearing the opinions from you guys has really helped me come to terms with my actions. Of course it’s tough to admit but I fully am able to acknowledge what I did now.
He’s in love with his ex and mad at your for coming in between them. She could have him in a heartbeat if she told him to come back. If you don’t want to be the placeholder, you should leave asap
She doesn't sound like a master at manipulation and lying, you just seem gullible.
I feel like you are arguing a question that wasn't asked. Everything you said is technically true but you completely flew past all of her sus non-co-parenting behavior.
Spending new years eve with your ex and not your boyfriend is not co-parenting. 1-2 hour secret FaceTimes in the basement isn't co-parenting. OP is getting played. There is nuance here that matters.
Although your motive is questionable, you have to tell her.
If she asks, tell her. She knows she's tall and therefore heavier, in her place I wouldn't feel hurt but all giddy that someone did that for me. As someone who was heavier, the worst is when people feel pity for you and tiptoe around it. Don't coddle her, that's my advice.
To give some background, I didn't know I had a problem until quite recently, I lost all control, I peed in the bar, fought 3 guys in the toilet, went into every hotel to buy their suite, and the cheated… like, wtf this is not me.. but it fucking is
Well, why would he leave when…
You’ve allowed him to cheat on you with a man & taken him back.
You’ve allowed him to cheat on you with a woman & taken him back.
You got a STD from him & still stayed with him.
He just figures eventually you will give in to this threesome thing because you’ve allowed so much past bad behavior. So why bother to make the effort to find someone else, when he can eventually manipulate you to do anything he wants.
Instead of constantly allowing him to dominate your relationship, please work to value yourself, respect yourself…and leave this selfish person.
Feelings are always valid, so sure it's ok that you feel however you do.
What other people would feel is irrelevant, and I certainly won't say if it might be related to previous traumas. Ask a therapist if you're worried about it.
You just need to separate what you feel from what you think she should feel.
This is ridiculous, I'm sorry. It comes across as controlling, and the “crying convos” as emotionally manipulative.
You need to seriously sit down and look at your childhood/ attachment style to figure out why you feel the need to act out like this.
I moved back in with my grandparents to start building up funds again and they’re in a small tourist town that also doesn’t have transport. He has a job here because we’re way closer now to his work in Ontario then in alberta but again, him not driving is the main thing throwing a wrench into everything. I guess we both underestimated how much of an inconvenience being someone’s sole transport to and from work was, especially in the winter and with trash gas prices.
This is abuse and control. This is not a healthy approach to marriage or weight.
You need to start looking at how you can develop emotional and financial independence from this man. You need to stop letting him manage your health and take control of your own body. Speak to professionals about a healthy course for you to lose weight. And speak to a lawyer.
You want to be a stuffed toy.
Thank you so much for your response. I’ve gotten quite a lot of backlash for my post, and I understand why my bf would be upset about the trip. For me the worrying part was the “I will leave, not support you or respect you” statement because I felt like if our relationship was so easily thrown away, then is it love? It makes me scared because I feel like I can’t really go against what he says because otherwise there will be a threat of breakup. It’s unfortunately not the first time it’s been said
Do you think he genuinely doesn’t know how to do things and needs support to do them or do you think it’s weaponised incompetence?
This sounds so exhausting.
I’m not out of the woods quite yet, still waiting on divorce to finalize. And I know the custody will be a battle in the future
You called me homophobic how exactly is that not being rude? I can handle peoples opinions. I won’t be called homophobic and let that lie though. You can say what you want about the story I put, but don’t say that about someone and not expect some backlash from it
This right here. YOU are the company YOU keep. If you can justify it in your friends, then you’ll justify it for yourself.
who is still smoking these days christ
I'm viewing this from the perspective of people should meat the bare minimum of being a decent human being.
I refuse to believe this is real. I need to stop reading this sub, man.
Your at a lose lose situation bro, like you can’t tell her straight up because it makes you looks like a AH but at the same time you feel bad for her and the logical reason is to leave, like why do you hang out next to a building that’s on fire? Because it’s the building you help built. Goodluck I have no real advice
Good for you. I hope you can move past it and be happy
well now you know you were right – she cheated & still cheating, lying, manipulative etc. seems like you are the side piece now.
ignore her, block her, go NC, go party & find a new Queen.