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Date: November 25, 2022
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He wants kids without the commitment and something tells me he won’t take care of them and wants to be the “fun dad” when they get older. Don’t have kids with this man
should i be the one to say “ily” since i’m the one who made a mistake? :((
I love it when my wife cums in my mouth. My wife does not like me to cum in her mouth. While I would like for her to do that for me, it’s okay.
Point is, leave it alone. I understand it’s something you would like, but you said it yourself, she’s awesome and an awesome partner for you.
Imagine having a partner that you could go down on whoever you want but didn’t make you happy in all the ways your now partner does.
It’s compromise and sacrifice. Maybe if you just accept this and be at piece with it you will find a happiness even more than you have now with her.
Ask her to hook you up with one of her friends, you want some of that MILF action too
You need to get over yourself. You didn't have a perfect relationship, you weren't “complete” and for sure you cannot say it wasn't toxic. You neglected your partner and put your selfish interest and issues first – time to accept that and learn from it going forward. Stop continuing to be selfish and stop obsessing over your ex, let her find someone who will actually value her and work on yourself.
You are underreacting. You are 23, have you never been in love with someone who turned out to be awful before?
In any case I would block him too were I in their position.
Low libido. And idk. I really hope and want to believe he does. He tells me he stays celibate. But I always have my doubts, given the past circumstances. I have rethought this relationship many times. And yeah, these thoughts suck. I won't lie, I've definitely had thoughts about finding someone new who had never cheated… who I have complete trust in… and what that would be like. But I'm still here. Love is dumb AF.
Yes you should tell him exactly why. Often parents are super manipulative and the children don't understand how bad and toxic the parent's behavior is. My mom was like that. Took be a long time and a lot of people to show me.
Well you can use lubes to make it easier but sex is suppose to enjoyable for people involved . An if he can’t commit to find what turns you on then count your loses and move on. Sex isn’t just about a physical connection but a emotional one . You might be all in but he isn’t so don’t sell yourself short to a parent that all cared about his pleasure.
Either that or she knows there's a chance the kids are the BIL's and is trying to allude that the test would be “wrong” if it determined the kids aren't her husband's.
Uhh, if one twin is 36 and the other is 32, the person I feel the worst for in this story is their mother
Agreed with everyone telling you to dump this woman and keep the dog. What a miserable excuse for a carbon based life firm.
If she’s like this now with a dog, imagine her with her future children. I’m already furious at her saying she’ll kick her dog, but my god if she said this to her kids..
That's rough buddy
I am anti-confronting and here is why:
First, see what happens with the gifts. If the recipients make sense, then you can take stock, get therapy, whatever seems appropriate.
If not, still do not confront. Decide how YOU feel about it first. Until you have your feelings sorted out, confronting solves nothing. If this is a dealbreaker for you, get a divorce attorney and proceed accordingly. Confronting just gives your spouse the opportunity to hide evidence and money.
Thanks for your reply. I do appreciate it.
I did eat – we met for lunch in the afternoon. There was a chance we wouldn't meet at all on the Sat eve. I showed up fine. Not drunk. We got more drinks during dinner – again, eating – and they hit me harder towards the end of the meal than I/he expected. Again – I know what I did here was wrong. I was excited to finally be back in the place I've been trying to return to for years. I met with a close friend and got carried away. He should have been my only priority of the day, but I didn't even know for sure I'd see him until much later.
And I tried to travel before visa submission, for the exact reason to not travel while its processing. Got the wrong lady on the wrong day, but I've overcome that huge hurdle now. And its more like 12/36 months together, when you factor time traveling/being back on a tourist visa etc. Still only 1/3, I concede, but more than 6/36.
I imagine that's exactly how he feels right now, but it's not the case. It's not the case at all. He's kept me at arms length all year, and so I had to make myself a priority, while keeping my eye on getting back and giving this a real shot. That got out of hand and I've been trying to prove myself with actions since.
He doesn't want more than friendship so what more is there to be said? If you can't accept just being friends then you should tell him that and then move on.
He doesn't want more than friendship so what more is there to be said? If you can't accept just being friends then you should tell him that and then move on.
My take isn't as negative as the others, but overall it's naked to say. Random stuff:
Like you say, 4 months isn't much time, and part of what this means is you don't fully trust him yet. It takes time to establish trust…for everybody. So you don't have any context for it. I can see why it hits you wrong, but I don't think anything has been proven that he's up to no good.
The other problem is his response that he didn't peg you for being insecure. This is both rude and belittling. I have no idea how you brought this up, or what you said, though. He's coming across as very defensive, but if you kind of attacked when you learned of this, that might be why.
You never said when she's coming, but if it's in a few days, just ride it out and see what you can learn, I guess.
Why is it strange?
Her family are essentially branding him a bad person for not wanting to pay towards a wedding.
While you persnally choose to pay half to travel to Japan, this guy is not a bad person for refusing to dip into his own savings to pay for a single day event and cater for hundreds of people to party.
How are things now? Are you still together? Do you feel that excitement now?
The problem never lasts long? Or the relationship?
she had no way of being certain either! in my opinion it didn't hurt to check the information, but it most certainly would hurt if the information wasn't checked
Understandable. Not a good reason to not go again. Spend some time finding a therapist you click with. I mean, do what you want ofc but all of your relationships will continue to suffer if you don't learn some better ways to interact with people.
If you cared about others you would have stopped this when it started. So in your case, no. I don't think anyone cares, most of us stand by our SO but you can't fool us with your intentions
….but generally you would report that if you know she's under the influence and driving right now. They're not going to stake her out and wait for her to leave her house to try to catch her in a DUI because someone made a report.
Your husband continues to give his online friend precedence over your marriage. Regardless of whether they have feelings for each other, his behavior is affecting your marriage. If you took this woman out of the equation and he was just gaming all the time and ignoring you, it would be a similar problem.
I don't know what the answer is, but you should consider your own happiness and whether he's capable of truly respecting your boundaries, which are very reasonable. You are trying to save your marriage – is he?
Is this Tagalog???
To be fair, she’s pretty much acting her age. Immature, but very much like a teenager. She’s as close to 15 as your are to 35 (in opposite direction). Or, rather, when you were 25, she was 15. I’d recommend dating in your age range if you want someone who acts your age.
You are both in your 30s. You have already pushed and prodded and gone to therapy. This is who your husband is.
You're not attracted to him. His financial irresponsibility has already had consequences for you; you have no savings.
People say redditors are always advising people to break up. Well count me in! Drop this guy before things get worse for you money wise, and before you get bitter about the years you've wasted being his parent instead of enjoying your life.
As for the Instagram models. I find myself saying this in every other comment but, my ex was a serial cheater and he did the same thing. Following IG models and dming thirsty comments. I realised partnered men who do that aren't committed to their relationship. As you can tell by the fact he isn't putting any effort into your marriage. Has he physically cheated? Maybe not yet but don't hang around waiting because I guarantee it's coming.
Don't bother confronting him about anything, you'll just wear yourself out even more. Just get yourself to a lawyer and extricate yourself with the minimum possible damage to your financial position.
Friendships with exs from my experience only work if,
It’s mutual, You no longer have romantic feelings for each other. ,and You’ve created some distance.
There is no way you can have a friendship with someone you’re still painfully in love with. If you can’t celebrate them moving on and genuinely feel happy they’ve found someone then you’re doing yourself a complete disservice. Take some time to heal.
Don't share them. You obviously don't want to stay in that relationship – just leave.
Share that stuff with work and you'll be pregnant, single, unemployed, and probably also facing civil suits and possibly arrested and facing criminal charges too. You learn to manage your anger.
You don't have to dislike dogs to not want to online with one . Personally , i always liked to interact with other people's dogs . But there is no way in hell i would be getting one . I know for a fact that i would not be able to spend my time caring for one or dealing with the massive mess ( especially from dog breeds as large and energetic as OP wants ).
Oh, that sounds really quite bad. Your mother has raised you, nurtured you and as far as what you have let on has in no way been abusive (except for keeping your dad from you). Your dad evidently hasn't tried to be part of your life AT ALL, which he absolutely could have done through a court. YOU had to go and find him. To now take his name whilst giving up your mom's seems like a really big snub. If I was your mom, I'd be heartbroken.
Maybe do a double-barrrelled name if they exist in your country?
She was trying to calm you down and make you realise
“hey, this isn't so bad. Step back, take a breath and calm down” by telling you it's not a life or death situation.
You shat on her trying to calm and support you, continued your stress and dismissed her by saying “it feels like a death situation.”
She responded angrily. “Well die then.” Meaning “I'm not going to try and help you. I've got my own stress and stuff to deal with instead of yours, and since you CLEARLY don't want or need my help, what is the point of helping you?”
She doesn't want you dead, you're reading too much into the actual words used as opposed to the emotional subtext.
Did she start poisoning your food? Attack you with a knife? Try to smother you with a pillow? No? Then she doesn't want you dead.
If you had responded instead with “maybe not, but it feels that way” then you two could have worked together on this instead of dismissing each other.
You both knew that it was going to be a short date. And you both agreed to still go. And that's why it was bad?
I don't know. I am overthinking this.
at 32, you seem to have some growing to do. you have lack of respect for your wife and sided with a cheater.
Surely I can try something else before that??
Not to mention the temple of Satan doesn't believe in or practice magic ? that's us church of Satan followers. And we don't mesh with the temple. Were completely separate entities and anyone apart of either would never want to be confused as the other or having the others ideologies. And thats on a decade and a half with the church.
I know it's my fault. Nothing justifies what I did that night. But I don't want to leave him. He's the only thing I have in this world.
It doesn't matter if you stay together. Child support is child support.
And 'finances and preparation' IS 'custody and child support'. You are very young but come on OP.
well, good news! She can increase her hours at the job she totally has.
Thank you!
I'm so sorry. You sound like you are in a right pickle. However, I agree with the others. You are not doing her nor yourself any favours by staying. You need to get some therapy to work through all the issues and to help you seperate from your wife.
“Almost never happens”
If he sent the same picture to his wife’s mom, there would have been no “?” and more importantly, he would’ve let his wife know immediately. He would have texted/called his wife right then and there. Why didn’t he? He was hoping, however unlikely, that his sister would keep it between them and something came of it.
It wasn’t a mistake. Those who believe his are pretty gullible.
Its already somewhatlate to walk away for good, as you should have walked away the first time you caught him cheating. But hey! its never TOO late. Run, block him, and dont look back.
The point here isn’t Sami, it’s OP’s inflexible and controlling husband.
yes in my experience thus far, dude make the biggest possible deal about having to do any of the work.
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