My thoughts are you and this 'woman' are trashy cheaters that will have a miserable relationship and will constantly accuse each other of being cheaters.
OP said he lasted something like 20 seconds. That's not enough time to process what's happening and try to stop it. Beyond that, wtaf? Why are you shaming OP when he was sexually assaulted?
She lied to you for over a year. There is no salvaging that. If you can prove that you were sending her money and what it was for, you can get a judgement against her in court. She still won’t pay you anything now I’m sure, but they will garnish her future wages and maybe you can get all the money back someday.
Thank you for your advice! I really appreciate it! I didn’t want to over step any bounds but contact other people like her family or Thomas. But I’m thinking this goes beyond that? My guess is he thinks he’s in the clear since he told her about 7 months ago he wasn’t interested and hasn’t actually spoken to her since. Completely unaware of this entire reality she’s creating that I do think puts him in danger. In her last message she was also making dangerous claims against him that he’s not the person she thought he was. That he’s danger and streaming not just her 24/7 but also me and stalking me and my dog. I met him once years and years ago at a party…I can’t even fathom the thought process of why now me and my dog are a part of this
You at least got that going for you.. which is nice.
My thoughts are you and this 'woman' are trashy cheaters that will have a miserable relationship and will constantly accuse each other of being cheaters.
OP said he lasted something like 20 seconds. That's not enough time to process what's happening and try to stop it. Beyond that, wtaf? Why are you shaming OP when he was sexually assaulted?
She lied to you for over a year. There is no salvaging that. If you can prove that you were sending her money and what it was for, you can get a judgement against her in court. She still won’t pay you anything now I’m sure, but they will garnish her future wages and maybe you can get all the money back someday.
Learn from this experience!
Lmao
I blame all my farts on my girl cat.
Thank you for your advice! I really appreciate it! I didn’t want to over step any bounds but contact other people like her family or Thomas. But I’m thinking this goes beyond that? My guess is he thinks he’s in the clear since he told her about 7 months ago he wasn’t interested and hasn’t actually spoken to her since. Completely unaware of this entire reality she’s creating that I do think puts him in danger. In her last message she was also making dangerous claims against him that he’s not the person she thought he was. That he’s danger and streaming not just her 24/7 but also me and stalking me and my dog. I met him once years and years ago at a party…I can’t even fathom the thought process of why now me and my dog are a part of this
ok the thing is he's not interested in sex both him and me are on the ace spectrum