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Date: October 6, 2022
This right here. This is not a “mistake.” This is a serious character flaw.
Your partner made a conscious decision – thousands of times, if not hundreds of thousands of times – to foster sexual relationships w several men over a lengthy, lengthy period, while actively, habitually lying to you every single day about the relationship you thought you had with her.
That shows a chronic and complete lack of regard for you, your health, your safety, and your relationship. This is who she is. A chronic cheater and habitual liar. You don’t fix massive character flaws like this. You walk away.
He kind of does, but it’s extra bad when it comes to me. For example for Mother’s Day last year (my first Mother’s Day as a mom), he got his mom a $10 candle. But he didn’t even wish me let alone get me a present. He doesn’t do a good job of keeping in touch with people like his extended family and friends. He isn’t super introverted though, he can be pretty social. He just never takes initiative.
Why is no one calling him out on this bs? Has his mum never told him to step up?
I feel a little stupid fussing about this tiny detail but it really bothers me.
It's NOT a little detail. You're carrying all the emotional load, you have a partner who doesn't listen, and doesn't want to make an effort…. that's NOT okay.
Stop leading this man on! It's bad enough that you created an entire relationship with him while never being happy the entire time, but for @%$#'s sake, just let him move on.
The Alabama part ?
Yeah… That's just excuses. We all have issues with our job at times and many of us have shitty family issues, but that doesn't lead us to being abusive. Like… Life is FULL to the brim with stressful and difficult to navigate situations. That's a given for every single living human. Yet, everyone ain't being abusive to their loved ones.
I would expect, from someone that has truly changed, an expression of regret, in the form of shame and guilt, of the same magnitude of the shittiness of their behavior. Anything less and I wouldnt buy it.
I'm betting you are scared and it would make sense that you are. I would expect that sharing that you are scared with him would trigger those feelings of shame and guilt and regret as his past behavior echos into his current relationship. It's time to communicate to him about the info you learned and how it's made you feel and then take your next steps based on how he he responds, being extra vigilant to separate excuses, justifications, attempts to dismiss your feelings or change them, from legit regret and vulnerability.
First of all i’d like to say thank you so much for your comment. This has really opened my eyes. Yes I am going to stay with her, the benefits of being with her vastly outweigh the negatives and I have pondered. I took a look at your 18 signs and I would say most of them she is not like. I was thinking about telling her that I think she has this and needs professional help. I have written out a long speech for me to say to her. But I’m not certain that it’s the best thing to do, however I think her knowing what an impact it has on me might get her to take some action. Would you advise this? I basically said look at these 18 points you have to admit some of these are you, I want you to know that i don’t blame you for any of it and I love you and will support you, but I also made it clear that i’m getting to the end of my tether of what I can handle
When you have a bunch of 20 somethings in a friend group, there’s going to be some hooking up as well as some relationships. It just happens at this age. Friend groups at this age can get really toxic because if this, or they learn to navigate this phase of life with maturity. If you want to be friends when you are in your 30s, you all need to mind your own business. Alan and Steph are on good terms as exes; it is really not any of Alan’s business who Steph is sleeping with. When and if Steph and Mark want to make their relationship known, they will do it. No one should be speculating on their relationship or telling their business to anyone else. That’s not what friends do.
This isn’t about dividing your loyalty because you are closer to Alan. This is about recognizing and respecting that Alan, Steph, and Mark are all grown adults, and no one is doing anything wrong. There is literally nothing for you or any third party to say about it.