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Date: October 8, 2022
you are kind of being selfish. She's 40 and a lot of this probably wouldn't be happening if she felt more secuirty from you. women that want a family and have a biological clock is very stressful. Is it your fault? no. but it is your fault for beating around the bush for so long and still having these feelings when you know she wants a family! you are robbing her of having that with someone else when you suck your thumb trying to figure out if she's still the “right one”
i'm not trying to be harsh and I do see your issues you've mentioned but i'm just so shocked you waited this long to bring this to light and now she's 40' and she's been counting on you. She's getting nervous and fear is setting in for her. This is why she is pressuring you. She most likely senses the hesitation you are obviously giving and from this post, thats a fact. women are very in tune with these things. trust me she knows and she's threatening the relationship out of fear and probably pressure to see if you react the way she wants. i'm not saying the way she is acting is right but after all the cons you've listed and you had a chance to opt out a while ago, I think you deff are more in the wrong, if there even is a right or wrong. Idk yours pros of her just seems so like regular? like idk nothing stood out to me that wouldn't qualify for any relationship. There's so many things i could list as a pro for my partner and my lost would look very different. let's dive into it so you can see my point.
Pros
he's a man of his word.
He always puts me first
I can't see a life without him in it
We have the same views on Marriage and how we want to get married.
He's a provider ( not speaking financially) although he does do that (me too) but he makes sure I am always taken care of
we laugh together for hours
We have fun doing absolutely nothing even if it's just laughing at our dog
He understands my biological clock (31F) as we discussed this before we even committed to a relationship. He understood exactly what I wanted and was looking for.
He's the nicest man and would give the shirt of his back to any one.
I trust him 100%
he doesn't use words or say harmful things when angry
He's able to communicate and be emotionally available
He's open minded
He feeds me every night ( not that I can't feed myself) but I work long hours (healthcare worker) so it's important to him I'm eating when I get home ( never a requirement but he does that cause he cares) does she do things for you in this context that make you think? like wow she really goes out of her way for me?
those are just a few… i'm not saying your pros are bad obviously those are standard for any relationship but I just feel anyone could say those type of things? you didn't mean like any thing about her person or who she is or what you value most about her other than she's “calm” and you guys can walk the dog together, What makes her stand out over the billion other women on this earth? What made you fall in love with her? What makes you want to truly marry her other than your pet, or ability to keep the home clean. Does she posses any traits that are worth mentioning? Those are questions you should be asking and if you can answer them why didn't you list them?
I hope this helped even a little OP best of luck
His mother has manipulated him. He is a mommy's boy. She doesn't want you (sorry but its true) in her baby boy's life. He has allowed her to manipulate him into going along.
He clearly knows, he can see your upset, but mommy wins.
The car is an excuse for her to go with.
Sorry, I would say you're feeling sick and need to go home. Truthfully, you probably are feeling sick that this has broken up your relationship right before Christmas. Then block him and move on.I am sorry this has happened to you, but there is no relationship future here for you. The holiday is already ruined. He has shown that his mom is going to split you up. Just move on.
What a sad sad sad existence. My condolences. No one can help here
Not sure how you can justify him cheating on her being fair, but alright man you do you
You've been given some great advice. I'd also consider do your best (for a while as a trial) of making friends with their partners. Invite them out for drinks or gaming or something bro-like. This might long term allow you to have positive relationships with your nephews and neices… especially if your nephews are treated like second class citizens as you are.
Oh no, I wouldn’t have an issue if it was just a little messy. The kitchen isn’t even useable because of so much stuff, there is only pathways to get around, along with three cats, and being a mobile home it’s just…. rough. I feel bad and try to be gentle with the subject because of it being his mom, but with this I just don’t know what to do.
I know a lot of you are going to say just leave and all of that.
You know this because you know it's the right course of action. You moved in with a violent coke addict, with no getting to know you period beforehand. He's been cheating on you the entire time. You're only 18. You aren't even finished finding out about yourself and who you are yet, and you're trying to settle down with a walking red flag.
After you've been in a couple of relationships you'll realise how much of a mess this one is. Just don't get pregnant with this mess
The literal definition of ‘captain save a hoe’
What, precisely, did you do and did it require medical attention?