Have a longer conversation with him about your goals for the future and how your relationship is going. Then, propose to him if you want to. Don't sit around wondering if he will propose.
Decide in advance if you would rather marry quickly in a small ceremony , marry after a longer engagement after you have bought the house together, wait to get engaged until he feels like it, wait to get engaged until you can afford a big wedding, or whatever.
Speak to him about what you would like, not hinting, not nagging, not pushing, but very clearly. Generally, if 7 years have passed, you have some idea if you are likely to want to marry or you have some issues that need to be resolved before you move forward. Have conversations to uncover that.
I suspect that the girlfriend may have thought that you experiencing a band you like, in a crowded setting, might have helped you address your hang up about crowds. The theory that exposure to a stimulus is one approach to treating phobias and anxiety.
I didn’t come here to be told I was a dickhead because it’s not fucking news to me. I just wanna know what to do to try to fix it because I regret what I did and have since I did it
u/Vivid_Conclusion_893, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Eskimo brothers!
Creepy. Run for the hills.
He made you feel secure, lured you in and now that he thinks he kind of “has you secured” he shows his real face.
Go someplace for protection.
Withdraw all YOUR money first.
And then cut ties.
He sounds like a controlling person. And it feels like the more you talk, the more you will be gasslighted and trapped.
I’ve posted elsewhere, but I had savings and properties and handled expenses.
Have a longer conversation with him about your goals for the future and how your relationship is going. Then, propose to him if you want to. Don't sit around wondering if he will propose.
Decide in advance if you would rather marry quickly in a small ceremony , marry after a longer engagement after you have bought the house together, wait to get engaged until he feels like it, wait to get engaged until you can afford a big wedding, or whatever.
Speak to him about what you would like, not hinting, not nagging, not pushing, but very clearly. Generally, if 7 years have passed, you have some idea if you are likely to want to marry or you have some issues that need to be resolved before you move forward. Have conversations to uncover that.
I eventually got the ick, too. That's what led to his new girlfriend and how I eventually got free. I stopped making the best out of crumbs.
I suspect that the girlfriend may have thought that you experiencing a band you like, in a crowded setting, might have helped you address your hang up about crowds. The theory that exposure to a stimulus is one approach to treating phobias and anxiety.
Let her know how you feel, sell the tickets, use that money to do something you’d rather do.
I didn’t come here to be told I was a dickhead because it’s not fucking news to me. I just wanna know what to do to try to fix it because I regret what I did and have since I did it
I would tell her that her best friend also betrayed her and tried to get with you.
It doesn't help her if she has a best friend egging her on to do destructive shit.
Feels like her best friend spiked her drinks and then sent you videos.
DO NOT TAKE HER BEST FRIEND'S WORD FOR IT THAT THERE WERE NO DRUGS. She wants you for herself.
Her bestie is an evil two-faced bitch. The strippers randomly showing up was all too convenient. Its bullshit. Bestie paid them to come.
(I am NOT saying you should get back together.)