not really sure what i should do then… wont be able to get over this while still talking to her daily but also dont want her to think that i dont want to talk to her anymore if i stop messaging
If you felt like the ultimatum was right when you made it, then trust your gut. Our gut doesn't lie. You were ready for the next step. He may very well never be ready, and that's okay. It just means you are at different places in life, with different expectations. It sucks that it has to be this way. I know that it does. You did the right thing for yourself, though.
As someone else pointed out already, love definitely isn't always enough. It would not be so hot. While relationships do take work, you both would have known by now if this was a path you were supposed to take together.
Better to find out now. This way it's going to be painful. But each day it will get a little easier. It will hurt a little bit less. You'll be happy again. Make sure you surround yourself with people who love and support you.
OMG You're not making excuses to get out of it! This isn't a task you're obligated to do nor is it something you need to do like a dental visit that you keep avoiding.
He isn't owed anal sex. Anal sex isn't something necessary.
comments like these give me trust issues and makes me lose faith in men tbh. i really hope not all guys are like this and that there are men out there who doesn’t talk about wanting to fuck other women, its really childish and screams cringe, oh well i’ll never know.
not really sure what i should do then… wont be able to get over this while still talking to her daily but also dont want her to think that i dont want to talk to her anymore if i stop messaging
If you felt like the ultimatum was right when you made it, then trust your gut. Our gut doesn't lie. You were ready for the next step. He may very well never be ready, and that's okay. It just means you are at different places in life, with different expectations. It sucks that it has to be this way. I know that it does. You did the right thing for yourself, though.
As someone else pointed out already, love definitely isn't always enough. It would not be so hot. While relationships do take work, you both would have known by now if this was a path you were supposed to take together.
Better to find out now. This way it's going to be painful. But each day it will get a little easier. It will hurt a little bit less. You'll be happy again. Make sure you surround yourself with people who love and support you.
OMG You're not making excuses to get out of it! This isn't a task you're obligated to do nor is it something you need to do like a dental visit that you keep avoiding.
He isn't owed anal sex. Anal sex isn't something necessary.
comments like these give me trust issues and makes me lose faith in men tbh. i really hope not all guys are like this and that there are men out there who doesn’t talk about wanting to fuck other women, its really childish and screams cringe, oh well i’ll never know.