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Date: October 22, 2022
If you are doing it for you go for it. If you’re doing it to prove a point to others don’t.
To be honest, I would look at the type of account you had.
Joint Or
Joint And
If you have a “Joint Or” account this means that either party could make a decision without informing the other. Legally speaking, there would be no form of recourse for him to seek and you’re in the clear. I’ll assume this is what you had since you were able to close it and don’t mention needing him there.
If the account was “Joint And” this means that whatever funds in there actually are the property of both parties. If somehow you were able to close the account without his signature, he would be entitled to a percentage of whatever was in there. Since you said you both contributed equally, this would be 50%.
Your ex says that he would’ve told you, but if he had access to the account through online banking then he would also know that it was accruing fees and subsequently did nothing about it, so his point doesn’t stand. Personally, I’d split the money to shut him up since you admit you both contributed equally. That being said, you did the work and you handled business he otherwise would’ve ignored. Keep it.
Sounds like you’re in love with the idea of being in love and she’s codependent. She will need therapy before she’s ready for a real romantic partnership. My guess is that her issues are way deeper than just “missing you” whenever you’re gone and ultimately have very little to do with you and your relationship.
I hadn’t thought about the other side of the coin of that bad the possibility of being overwhelmed or not being able to objectively process or even assist how I imagine I would be. Thank you so much for bringing that to my attention ❤️ The more I receive everyone’s responses here and particular with your mention of stressors with everyday life—I feel even more inclined toward more seriously pursuing therapy of my own.
She has been cheating on you for a long time and you had to find out one of the worse ways possible. Yes, throwing 6 years away in order to not be with a cheater sounds like a good idea. Don’t get caught up in sunk cost fallacy, cheaters tend to change their spots as much as leopards do, and they ALL promise up and down that they will never do that again. In their book of rules, never means til the next person they develop an interest to comes around.
OP, I’m tossing out another point that I only just noticed. Your SO is coming onto 40.
Did she want children? Because she may be blaming you if she hasn’t had any and she may believe that she can’t have any at this point in time.
As others have pointed out, you destroyed trust in your relationship by making a unilateral decision and expected your SO to just deal with it.
She is approaching the woman’s version of a midlife crisis and she is probably evaluating what she has done with her life. If all she sees in the last ten years is how she supported you, there is a lot of resentment there.
Honestly, I would talk to her in one of your therapy sessions and ask her “what did you want your life to look like at 40? What experiences, milestones, and goals would you still like to achieve?”
She supported you when you decided to take a risk. Support her now and encourage her to follow her dreams now and you might see some improvement.
Okay maybe thiis is worse than I thought but I never intentionally took advantage of her. Despite the fact that she does all that crazy stuff, she seems normal outside of all this, she has a professional career and has a decent job.