You forget she works full time, does all the chores and takes care alone of both kids She even brings him his morning coffee because obviously he can't move his ass at home. OP, try to make a joke about you wanting to try a dick with a twenty-something year-old attached to it and enjoy his reaction. Then ask yourself why you are still with him
Bro don’t be dumb. She cheated on you and is trying to pay for this guy’s apartment. She is incapable of being loyal to you or faithful to your relationship, so dump her and move on.
You feel how you feel. You'll either find a way to get past it, considering it happened almost 6 years ago, or you won't.
On a side not for all cheaters. If you didn't get caught and are just feeling guilt, to hell with your feelings. Don't ruin someone else's life trying to unburden yourself. Take that shit to your grave and beyond. Let that person you claim to care about, live in blissful ignorance. You can try and be faithful in the next life.
How about something like 'As you know I've had a lot on my plate recently and I'm finding that I'm really overwhelmed with everything in particular keeping up with household chores. Would you be open to pulling together a cleaning rota? I could really do with some help around the apartment'
Chickens. Roosting. So many chickens.
But hey, you got what you asked for. Enjoy all the sexual partners you want as a divorced person.
You forget she works full time, does all the chores and takes care alone of both kids She even brings him his morning coffee because obviously he can't move his ass at home. OP, try to make a joke about you wanting to try a dick with a twenty-something year-old attached to it and enjoy his reaction. Then ask yourself why you are still with him
Bro don’t be dumb. She cheated on you and is trying to pay for this guy’s apartment. She is incapable of being loyal to you or faithful to your relationship, so dump her and move on.
You feel how you feel. You'll either find a way to get past it, considering it happened almost 6 years ago, or you won't.
On a side not for all cheaters. If you didn't get caught and are just feeling guilt, to hell with your feelings. Don't ruin someone else's life trying to unburden yourself. Take that shit to your grave and beyond. Let that person you claim to care about, live in blissful ignorance. You can try and be faithful in the next life.
How about something like 'As you know I've had a lot on my plate recently and I'm finding that I'm really overwhelmed with everything in particular keeping up with household chores. Would you be open to pulling together a cleaning rota? I could really do with some help around the apartment'
That's what I would say.
I’m outside of NY. I’ll go to your graduation.
Get therapy