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Hello, my boy i’m a new girl here ready for the first lesson // PVT6tks per min // SHOW SQUIRT @G // CONTROL LUSH 69tks [444 tokens remaining]
Date: February 9, 2023
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He yells at you regularly and belittles you regularly in order to break you down emotionally and mentally. By doing this he is able to convince you that no one else will want you or tolerate you. It’s a lie. You are worthy of someone who respects you and will appreciate the person you are. This is classic abusive behavior and you need to do whatever you have to to get away from him.
Abusive relationships usually progress in this manner. First he/she is sweet as sugar to earn your trust and love. Then they begin to point out all of your “flaws” they “put up with” that no one else would. (This is a lie. You’re human just as everyone else and no where near as flawed as they say.) They yell at you for insignificant things, in order to intimidate and belittle you. They try to isolate you from anyone who builds you up and supports you. Eventually the begin to get physical by pushing, shoving, body blocking or as in your case hitting you with something. It will progress further if you stay.
That’s what you have to remember; you can leave. You do deserve better. You are worthy of love and respect. You are not so flawed as to be undesirable. We all have flaws, including him. This is a trick abusers use because they know if you do not believe this you will leave them as well you should. Please do not stay with him. He is not the one man in the world. You can and will do better than him if you leave him and get the support and help you need to get past his horrible treatment of you.
From my experience and observations, most people don’t change without a significant effort to do so. He will almost certainly do this again.
I came here from your JNMIL post, which is locked since you got so much outpouring. They all said pretty much the same thing and I agree: turn and run. She's come out and said she expects their relationship to remain the same when he's married. He's come out and said he's not willing to make her unhappy or not do what she wants. If you were 38 and still wanted biological children, I would say maybe try to make it work. But you're too young to commit to what you know is going to be a life filled with a lot of unhappiness. Emigrating won't help, because your home will be hers to take over whenever she decides to make the move.
You're doing yourself and Sally no favors by not asserting yourself. Your resentment is palpable. Don't agree to drive her to a horse auction if it means you'll seethe about missing the air show. You don't want to move into the house. You don't need a litany of good reasons, although you have them, you just need to be HONEST with her. Start saying “no” to her when it's important to you. If she doesn't understand, so be it. If it creates an argument, so be it. You need to be able to live authentically. If doing so reveals more incompatibilities with Sally, SO BE IT. Better to move forward with that information than continue to be agreeable on the surface just to avoid strife. It sounds like this isn't the relationship for you. Time to find out.
Nope, the friend is a woman! They're just very close friends and lived together for a long time
Does he use the other social media platforms?
And I don’t mean checking up on family/friends that also use them, but actively post on them himself.