Jesus that is rough dude. Unfortunately this type of racism goes under the radar a lot and is really common. They might come around eventually, but I would not try to push it. The mom sounds like a sweet lady, but I already know the type the dad and brother are, and the likelihood of the changing anytime soon is real low.
Oh good fucking lord, you're 18 and your girlfriend doesn't trust you for shit, do not get married, you're just going to be divorced by 22. Dump her, move on.
OP dated this guy for a year and is trying to make herself into the Main Character. The death of a child is worse than death for most parents. They have other things to worry about.
I have said this verbatim to her today, it’s not going well. She is saying that some of my behaviors have made her feel uncomfortable about money from the early on. I asked her to line out exactly what my behavior is, outside of asking her to guess the bill, so that I’m on the same page with her. She replies with “we have argued about this 100 times already and it shows you don’t care if you don’t remember”. I will admit my memory isn’t the greatest but why would it hurt to just clearly outline quickly what those things are to me? I’m feeling pretty awful about myself right now.
Yea, I'm in agreement. When my wife was carrying our twins its was hot on me. It was absolute hell for her. I didn't sleep much. She didn't sleep at all. It got FAR worse once they were born. If he doesn't understand this now, I don't have much hope for the future either. Good fathers decide early that they are all-in. There are a ton of red flags here.
Dude, been where you are. Self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe you aren't enough for her, you won't be. This is a you thing, not even a little bit of a her thing. That dude was basically a sex toy to her, and you get all the stuff that matters, by her choice. This is you demeaning her and letting your stupid lizard brain part of yourself think sexual stuff is more important than everything else she is. Get your head on straight and believe her. That voice inside your head is there to hurt you and make you feel bad. She chooses you, right now. If that isn't enough, let her go and don't drag her down with your insecurities. Wishing you both the best.
Given that “teen” is sadly among the most popular searched porn categories in history, “schoolgirl” is hardly that surprising. Because “loli” is fictional animated content, it falls in an extremely grey area as far as the law is concerned. The best thing you can do is express to him that the sorts of porn he consumes really weirds and grosses you out. You could probe and ease fears that his interests don't fall.into the realm of actual CP. You can use how he responds as a gauge as to whether or not you're comfortable continuing this relationship.
You are like an abused puppy. This ain't your fault man.
Hold your head high and tell her in no uncertain terms that you are done with her and her bullshit. Dump her, block her on all social media and go completely NO CONTACT with her. It will help you move on because she ain't the one my guy.
No…he will do it again
You should have left the first time he asked.
You are feeling the way you do, because you know you should have left him, as what he was/is asking for is disrespectful to you, your friends
So leave him.
Jesus that is rough dude. Unfortunately this type of racism goes under the radar a lot and is really common. They might come around eventually, but I would not try to push it. The mom sounds like a sweet lady, but I already know the type the dad and brother are, and the likelihood of the changing anytime soon is real low.
Oh good fucking lord, you're 18 and your girlfriend doesn't trust you for shit, do not get married, you're just going to be divorced by 22. Dump her, move on.
OP dated this guy for a year and is trying to make herself into the Main Character. The death of a child is worse than death for most parents. They have other things to worry about.
Exactly my thoughts as well.
I have said this verbatim to her today, it’s not going well. She is saying that some of my behaviors have made her feel uncomfortable about money from the early on. I asked her to line out exactly what my behavior is, outside of asking her to guess the bill, so that I’m on the same page with her. She replies with “we have argued about this 100 times already and it shows you don’t care if you don’t remember”. I will admit my memory isn’t the greatest but why would it hurt to just clearly outline quickly what those things are to me? I’m feeling pretty awful about myself right now.
Yea, I'm in agreement. When my wife was carrying our twins its was hot on me. It was absolute hell for her. I didn't sleep much. She didn't sleep at all. It got FAR worse once they were born. If he doesn't understand this now, I don't have much hope for the future either. Good fathers decide early that they are all-in. There are a ton of red flags here.
Dude, been where you are. Self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe you aren't enough for her, you won't be. This is a you thing, not even a little bit of a her thing. That dude was basically a sex toy to her, and you get all the stuff that matters, by her choice. This is you demeaning her and letting your stupid lizard brain part of yourself think sexual stuff is more important than everything else she is. Get your head on straight and believe her. That voice inside your head is there to hurt you and make you feel bad. She chooses you, right now. If that isn't enough, let her go and don't drag her down with your insecurities. Wishing you both the best.
Given that “teen” is sadly among the most popular searched porn categories in history, “schoolgirl” is hardly that surprising. Because “loli” is fictional animated content, it falls in an extremely grey area as far as the law is concerned. The best thing you can do is express to him that the sorts of porn he consumes really weirds and grosses you out. You could probe and ease fears that his interests don't fall.into the realm of actual CP. You can use how he responds as a gauge as to whether or not you're comfortable continuing this relationship.
You are like an abused puppy. This ain't your fault man.
Hold your head high and tell her in no uncertain terms that you are done with her and her bullshit. Dump her, block her on all social media and go completely NO CONTACT with her. It will help you move on because she ain't the one my guy.